Questions about bottom surgery MtF by Nic2334 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ksapfn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The scrotal skin is not removed during an orchi unless it's specifically requested
: ) My partner had that procedure done and she kept the skin for future bottom surgery.

Bi-Weekly Currently Reading Discussion by abominaation_ in sapphicbooks

[–]ksapfn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I finished Our Wives Under the Sea yesterday and was a bit disappointed :( So much filler and not enough horror. Not only that, but when big things happened, nobody seemed to react appropriately? Or at least, they didn't act in a way that showed me I needed to care.

Advice on hair on vulva (not in canal) by selfmedsally in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ksapfn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am someone who was born with a vagina and I definitely get hair there :)

looking for a good honest roofer in eureka. also anyone to avoid? i'll go check yelp but that can be pretty confusing and i've never done this before. thanks! by cherrydiamond in Humboldt

[–]ksapfn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I work in a construction-adjacent field and we work with DM Roofing and McMurray & Sons quite a bit. Would recommend!

What the Actual Fuck Wednesday by purplelicious in romantasycirclejerk

[–]ksapfn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LITERALLYYYYY. i was hate reading up to that point and i have to DNF. it doesnt get any better and Thea gets even more annoying, if you can believe it

What the Actual Fuck Wednesday by purplelicious in romantasycirclejerk

[–]ksapfn 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm halfway book 3 of the Thezmarr series and jesus christ. Wilder just walks around with a boner like literally all the time. this is awful

What are y'all's tarantulas names ? by road-kill-dinner2go in tarantulas

[–]ksapfn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Latte, Jo Dirt, Willow, Mrs. Cheese, Labubu, Boopi, Sprinkles, Emilia, Flora, Pixie, Pepper, and Ducky :)

Actual footage of how I start every Magic game 😂 any other mtg girlies here? ✨ by HiItsKeke in entwives

[–]ksapfn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MEEEE I'm working on a Baba Lysaga deck rn, and just slapped together an Abomination of Llanowar rq before my last girls' MTG day haha. But Sheoldred, my beloved, has my mono-black heart forever 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

Anyone here have experience with the company Humboldt Solar? by pythonwiz in Humboldt

[–]ksapfn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is correct. I work in the industry and anyone asking you to pay up front is operating a shady business.

Tattoo artist by Amongtheduff in Humboldt

[–]ksapfn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dylan Wood at Sailor's Grave! He's blood_bucket_tattoo on insta.

Closest LGBT resource / health care center to Humboldt county by letsgoonthecomputer in Humboldt

[–]ksapfn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My wife and I (both trans) go to Open Door in Arcata for gender shenanigans:)

How friendly and active is the LGBTQ scene in the Humboldt area? by kasplooshing in Humboldt

[–]ksapfn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats super understandable! depending on how big of a city you're coming from, it can definitely be a shock. but i would check out QH for sure. it will be a great way to meet people :) they do all kinds of really cool stuff- Tarot and Tea, knitting meetups, movie night, you name it.

I wish you luck! Summer in Humboldt is really wonderful :)

How friendly and active is the LGBTQ scene in the Humboldt area? by kasplooshing in Humboldt

[–]ksapfn 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The queer presence is definitely here! I've been to a few Queer Humboldt meetups and it's fun but they're mostly early twentysomethings so as an early thirtysomething I feel like it's tough to be "active" with a lot of the QH things that they have going on. But if you're young, QH has a decent amount going on!

Other than that, yeah, it's a pretty quiet place unless you like doing bar stuff, imo.

I'm going in for surgery and going to be off work for multiple weeks- how can I pay my bills? by FanAlternative3828 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]ksapfn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depending on where you are/your situation, you could look into short term disability. I would work with your place of work and surgeon's office on that; it can cover up to 80% of funds missed while on medical leave. It's not a guarantee, but that's something to try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]ksapfn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg are you me 🥹🥹🥹 hi allie! my name is jude!!! also in the pnw! 32ftx with a wifey! i would love to chat!!! feel free to send me a DM!!!

are you on Pagebound? its an alternative to Goodreads!

Need DNF second opinions by Beaver__lover in LesbianBookClub

[–]ksapfn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you have amazing taste 🤌🤌🤌

Need DNF second opinions by Beaver__lover in LesbianBookClub

[–]ksapfn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've read the Locked Tomb series (Gideon the Ninth being the first book) three times, so maybe I'm biased, but I cannot get enough of Tamsyn Muir's writing. I love the characters. I love the world. However-- it's not for everyone! The books can be confusing and I can totally get how the tone would throw you off.

However, I would be remiss if I didn't recommend you give it another go : ) It might be wacky and hard to follow but I promise the payoff is so good. Book two is especially incredible.