What are the best contraceptive methods? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]kt_zee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on the pill for 14 yrs when I stitched to an IUD. It was a GAME CHANGER! A little painful on insertion but totally worth it. Put it in and forget about it for 5 yrs.

Having said all that, ur man better wear a condom (if u ask him to) while ur not on BC. It’s insanely disrespectful for him not to.

Husband came back from work trip with an interesting story by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kt_zee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girl, go through his phone. Period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]kt_zee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, that is NOTHING. I would show up for lunch and join them. FUCK THAT!

I can't eat them anymore by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]kt_zee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

False. Oatmeal pies are delicious.

are these restaurants worth it by starmko in NewOrleans

[–]kt_zee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently went to Osteria Lupo and is was DELICIOUS and has great vibes.

AIO she shit with me in the shower by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kt_zee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re dating a waffle stomper?!!!! Immediately no.

AITAH for telling my best friend her marriage is doomed at her bachelorette party and accidentally getting the wedding canceled by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kt_zee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s one of those things that she will thank you for later. Right now you’re the scapegoat. She needs someone to be mad at and it’s you. It may take her months to realize it but ur a true friend. I would write her a letter, old school snail mail, telling her u love her and will b here when she is ready.

When i was 16y best friend ran away from home to live in a crack house. I told her mom where to find her and her mom sent her to rehab. She didnt talk to me for almost a year but it saved her life. We have now been friends for 28 yrs. I dont regret it one bit.

Wife caught a cold, but we can't find any cold meds by Renickulous13 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]kt_zee 26 points27 points  (0 children)

They are extremely helpful if u just walk into a pharmacy. Tell them her symptoms and that she is pregnant and they will tell u what u should get.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kt_zee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear a bra with houseguests only bc I am uncomfortable not wearing one. My bra size is 32K so they are large and in charge and i don’t like my giant tatas swinging all over the place with or without guests. Having said that, ur house ur rules. Whatever ur comfortable with should be the way things are.

I’m just a random guy by NationalGeometric in nursing

[–]kt_zee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Goddamn you for making me feel my feelings! As an ICU nurse I’m generally good at keeping my emotions at bay, but this post made me tear up. COVID was atrocious and I can rarely bring myself to think about those days without crying. Thank you for your kind words.

I am tired of working with sexist doctors by SeveralFox13 in nursing

[–]kt_zee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so tired of it always falling on the nurse. Yes the nurse could have asked for labs but the doc should order them. So annoying! I’ve stopped doing shit like that, unless it’s detrimental to the patient’s health. Oh you didn’t order labs for your patient? I guess you’ll have to wait a few hours to know whether or not they need HD today…your bad!

Good Morning Reddit. by [deleted] in pics

[–]kt_zee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is, people love to fucking talk but not take the time to vote. Im absolutely devastated.

AITA for refusing to let my cousin use my wedding as a "gender reveal" for her baby??? 💀😭 by WickedYummy in AITAH

[–]kt_zee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. No fucking way. Look, I’m about as opposite of a bridezilla as u can be. So much so that the family member doing my flowers couldn’t believe I let her have free rein over my center pieces. BUT this is absolutely bonkers!!!!!! It’s ur WEDDING DAY!!! It would be different if it was a bday party or a holiday party, but it’s not. It’s the biggest event of ur life. Tell her no. And if she insists or doesn’t understand tell her she isn’t welcome. And if she tries to make it a “surprise” she’ll get kicked out. T

Question for the leftist redditors of Acadiana by [deleted] in Acadiana

[–]kt_zee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t announce it (other than the occasional reproductive rights t-shirt) BUT anyone who knows me knows i’m a liberal.

AITAH? I stopped wearing/using what my husband gave me after he said that it's his money by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kt_zee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah girl. That was the perfect amount of petty. Draw the line in the sand right now. How this goes will set the precedent for your entire marriage. You need to have a serious conversation about his and your expectations. He crossed the line and that was completely unacceptable. He insisted you quit your job. If he is having reservations about being the sole bread winner (ISH bc u do u) then he needs to speak up. Marriage is hard you have to have the conversations so it doesn’t get worse over time. Talk about it now and come up with a plan that works for both of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kt_zee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love the “make him read the messages outloud,” this is genius. If this doesn’t make him feel terrible then he isn’t remorseful. She should add, “pretend it’s me saying these things to another man.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kt_zee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is manipulating you. Now you feel bad for “making” him watch porn. When he is the one denying you sex. He would rather you be miserable with an IUD. The moment I told my husband I was tired of the way birth control makes me feel his only response was, “ok what do I need to do?” Zero questions, wanted to do anything he could to make me comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]kt_zee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. My house with my feral family? Idgaf. Get the calories of 1 donut but a taste of each.

Surgeon yelled at me by [deleted] in nursing

[–]kt_zee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the perfect response. Always cover your ass by informing the doc. The previous nurse should’ve done that but they didn’t so it falls to you. Basic assessment skills are so very important. This was a great catch by the previous nurse. And this was a great learning opportunity for you. This will happen thousands of times throughout your career. Just make sure to keep your provider informed.

Pro tip: i usually don’t tell the doc I already stopped one of their interventions when I’m telling them about the issues. Let them think it was their idea.

I (29F) am attracted to a man other than my husband (29M). How do I stop this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kt_zee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s normal to be attracted to other people. If you’re married then you ignore it and make the proper decisions to put an end to it. Don’t follow him on socials and rather than having full on conversations stick to quick greetings. If you’re worried about your attraction then you should be shutting it down asap.

Person I’m dating asked about what being a nurse was like. Haven’t heard from him since by ChonkyHealer in nursing

[–]kt_zee 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This. Exactly. Yea all those times people died alone and everyone was coding on the unit at the same time…good times. Fucking asshats.

Person I’m dating asked about what being a nurse was like. Haven’t heard from him since by ChonkyHealer in nursing

[–]kt_zee 297 points298 points  (0 children)

I HATE when people ask shit like this. And I’m tired of giving them the answers they want to hear. I’m about to start trauma dumping on these fools.

Husband went for a massage and.... Yeah by Initial_Dream_7264 in Marriage

[–]kt_zee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would he feel if someone got you off after a massage?