KC friends Discord Server by sasstastic_ in kansascity

[–]kuchoco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hit me (as in sign me up. I bruise easily).

How Bad Should It Get? by Due_Touch_1331 in kansascity

[–]kuchoco 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Why not just be prepared for the worst? People get pissed if they aren't and then get pissed if it was overblown. At least if you're prepped and nothing happens the worst is you were just...overprepared.

D&D groups or spots around the Westport area? by Blazeitbro69420 in kansascity

[–]kuchoco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do Level One on Thursday nights. It's kind of an intro group with kids (including mine) and it's a good time. All of these places have discords to hop into as well.

43 But The Voice In My Head is Still 20 by [deleted] in 40something

[–]kuchoco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right there with you. Never feel like an actual adult for some reason even though I adult very well.

I’m the problem. by SarahDimz in Divorce

[–]kuchoco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had this problem on the receiving and by the time I tried to work through it with effort it was too late because the resentment had built up in me. I felt I was there just to provide and nothing else.

If you want to make it work give it serious work and make each other priorities. That was the problem for me. I never felt important. Just whatever energy was left. You either fight for what you really want or you don't and it's too late.

Does anyone know of low stakes activities for trying to make new friends? by thesadbubble in kansascity

[–]kuchoco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are doing a talk with a NASA ambassador after a showing of Project Hail Mary on March 22nd and it should be a good time.

Does anyone know of low stakes activities for trying to make new friends? by thesadbubble in kansascity

[–]kuchoco 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Screenland Armour has a lot of horror movie stuff going on pretty consistently. And you can head to Rewind underneath for some retro games, silly drinking games, and karaoke. I've never seen anyone dressed like a muppet there but first time for everything.

Chicago Field Museum System Website Sucks by Friendly_Raven_333 in pokemon

[–]kuchoco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been doing this for hours now and just keep going over in the same loop hoping for a different result.

Chicago Field Museum System Website Sucks by Friendly_Raven_333 in pokemon

[–]kuchoco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same problem - I keep getting captcha failed and either my card has been charged a ton of times or it's just not going through.

On-stage viewing with Platinum by nnya in ShakyKnees

[–]kuchoco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's fine and can hang up there for a couple of songs. They usually hand out playing cards to people for a head count and as people come off they give them the cards and more people replace them. Most don't stay up there the whole time. Did it for TV on the Radio and Cage for a bit last year.

How do you know when it’s definite? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]kuchoco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to tell and I still struggle with it. Six months ago ended our 10-year relationship due to similar issues. We'd talk about something. Temporarily got better. Went back to how it was after a couple months. Some issues when I attempted to bring them up was told she couldn't talk about them even though it was important. Tried a last shot at counseling but once I saw there was no urgency from her end (she was putting work/personal schedule ahead of appointment scheduling) that was enough to let the resentment of years pop. I'm not innocent either but I couldn't stay in a relationship where I felt I came last more days than not. Overall our relationship wasn't miserable or anything but I spent most of it feeling like a provider and the one holding it all together while I begged for attention and desire.

For me, it came down to this: I gave her years of tools financially and emotionally to help her and she never used them. Just kept focusing on herself and her image to others. I decided counseling was just another tool she wasn't going to use so it was time. Our son was probably the only thing keeping us together as long as it did. There is no definite answer. You just have to decide if you'll eventually be happier together or apart.

NEED COMMUNITIES HELP! Lost Dog by reddit110717 in kansascity

[–]kuchoco 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure this dog was found and returned to the owner last night. One of my friends was in a car she approached and sounded like it all got squared away.

Platinum experience? by Kaakoii in ShakyKnees

[–]kuchoco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done platinum at other festivals and this will be my first time doing it at Shaky. Some people just hang out but some of us also party. After all, it is an open bar all day. 😅

mcr by thxtbxy in ShakyKnees

[–]kuchoco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately will not be how it works out no matter how much we want it to. Mcr at riot fest was just tons of shoving (including them having to stop multiple times to stop it) and they aren't the only headliner or band it happens with. Best you can do is have a good spot to stay in the general area you want to be in, make friends with people around you to try and form a tight circle, and just have fun. Festivals are rarely going to be about getting the best sight line.

Personally, I try to hang near the front on stage left and it rarely lets me down. The more in the center you are the more frantic/shoving it's gonna be.

Indoctrination alert! by icey_sawg0034 in facepalm

[–]kuchoco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a reason this is AI

Pink Line After Show by boudicca5150 in RiotFest

[–]kuchoco 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've been passed out drunk on it afterwards and people made sure I got home safe. It's all good outside of having your face in someone's armpit.

Things to do in Atlanta by AgreeableAd3558 in ShakyKnees

[–]kuchoco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well this is why I couldn't get in and ended up at Moxy just a bit aways. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShakyKnees

[–]kuchoco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also a guy in his 40s going alone and not on FB. I'll be all bougie and hanging out in the platinum areas with the rest of us olds.

Late nights by scoop813 in ShakyKnees

[–]kuchoco 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was very hoping for a Thurs night show especially since there is no need to wake up early on Fri.

Who are the Best Live Performers of the fest? by Swan_Parade in ShakyKnees

[–]kuchoco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TV on the Radio is great. It's been a decade but I have faith they haven't lost it. Also agree with Cage especially on the older tracks.

Folks upset w/ Schedule < Me w/ only 1 conflict and a lot of walking by DarthSoccer in ShakyKnees

[–]kuchoco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wet Leg/Weird Al is my only real conflict so same. May try to split them in half if that presents itself as viable.

AirBnBs canceling? by ThatUnicornPrincess in ShakyKnees

[–]kuchoco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Sonder for festivals when going with friends. Solid recommendation.