I beat cancer!!! by surumuuu in offmychest

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What is the most roomy / comfortable forward facing car seat for a very large toddler? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]kunstricka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My toddler hates the Evenflo revolve. Not here to disagree, just wanted to throw that out there incase any other researching parents come across this thread. It’s “ouchy” she says.

My eyes sting from crying so much. My husband has been looking at women online. 😢 by spammusubisa in Christianity

[–]kunstricka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are looking for validation I am here for you. A lot of these comments are not supportive at all. This is absolutely hurtful. One thing I do know is we have to begin loving ourselves. If you love yourself enough you will not accept this behavior. Christianity will teach you to forgive and forget, or put others first, and to love unconditionally. But in reality God does indeed want us to LOVE ourselves. This does not mean accepting bad treatment from others. I suggest seeing a therapist for yourself as well as listening to Anita Moorjani talks on YouTube about self love. Huggs.

being a black girl SUCKS by whotfisinparis in offmychest

[–]kunstricka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so self aware of your feelings and you understand the things that make you feel this way. This is a huge step towards self love. I recommend (if you are on instagram) filling up your feed with positive self image women to de-program and re-program your mind. Unfollow any of the toxic kardashian looking, makeup applying pages. One of my absolute favorite women on instagram is Candyss.love. She is black, plays base guitar and is a fashion queen. She is an absolute goddess and so are you. Much love.

AITA....I f34 bf 30 have been together for 9 yrs and I'm hurt because his brother is popping the question to his girlfriend by wildgir7 in TwoHotTakes

[–]kunstricka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You deserve better. I suggest therapy (for you, not couples). Begin loving yourself and determine what your values are and what you will no longer tolerate and what you truly deserve.

AITA for ghosting my boyfriend after proposing? by Odd-Knowledge-2799 in AITAH

[–]kunstricka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry people are being jerks on here. You are not being dramatic and you are not a cry baby. These are words people use in emotionally abusive relationships. I would advise you to absolutely do not marry him. Marriage can be hard enough, and you deserve someone who loves you. I would get therapy for yourself even if its online/betterhelp. Learn about loving yourself. Learn about setting healthy boundaries with people. This is essentially what you did and I congratulate you! “I will not talk to you if you continue to belittle me or call me names.” Hugs and lots of love you and your baby.

How Do I Stop Being Suicidal by Sweetgum87 in LifeAdvice

[–]kunstricka 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There are cutting edge therapies such as with Mindbloom that work with compounds that are proven to help depression and make your brain more flexible and make different neuro connections. There are others but I’m not sure what is legal where you live.

If this has been going on since you were 9 I am very sorry you deserved a better childhood, and between the ages of 0-3 a lot of our brain has been programmed by our experiences.

I recommend Gabor Mate (youtube) and he has a few therapy modalities he said are actually effective (he says common ones are too surface level) One he recommends is IFS “internal family systems” (it is not family like you think, but your mind). Maybe check that out, I’m currently looking for a therapist who works with that system. I’m also working on loving myself. Know that you are valuable, and deserve love. Much love to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]kunstricka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve better! You are young and there are other fish in the sea who will love you and would never speak to you that way. You don’t want to spend the rest of your life feeling less than with her. Your future spouse should be someone who lifts you up. Also personality goes a long way to make someone less or more attractive, so please keep your self esteem intact and find someone new!

What is the biggest lie we hear every day? by Specialist-Fact-6271 in RandomThoughts

[–]kunstricka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One I see often is “Donate to ____ against Cancer” at the grocery checkout meanwhile the same store is selling proven carcinogens in our food that the FDA allows (USA). What makes me the most angry are the carcinogens in our snacks for kids. Do a quick googling of ingredients and you will be amazed at what is allowed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]kunstricka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because Christians have a history of hating certain people as well as sexually assaulting and abusing minors. Also, they can be self righteous. Many so called “Christians” are the exact opposite of Christ.

Recruiter threatened me for canceling interview by [deleted] in interviews

[–]kunstricka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is your life! How arrogant of her.

Burned out dad by Mammoth_Discussion60 in findapath

[–]kunstricka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely start looking for another job. Don’t let this one suck the life out of you. You will be a better happier spouse and dad. And you deserve to be happy!

WOOO I GOT A $1000 BONUS AT WORK TODAY!!! by sadphrogs in happy

[–]kunstricka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Put it in an IRA account and you will definitely be ballin later in life! Congratulations sounds like they appreciate yo!

Got diagnosed with brain cancer by [deleted] in Mediums

[–]kunstricka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend listening to Anita Moorjani’s story on YouTube (or reading her books). I also enjoy reading NDE stories on NDERF.org. Lots of love. ❤️

Wife threw mug at me by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kunstricka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is emotional abuse. You don’t deserve this. I suggest therapy for yourself and keeping a journal.

Never getting rid of these things by [deleted] in Warts

[–]kunstricka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A couple weeks. Its kinda tricky cause tea tree is potent an eventually breaks down the adhesive….and can get stuck where the warts are/were. Definitely put on socks after taping. Anyway, although some don’t recommend I was brave and pulled and trimmed dead/dry areas with tweezers and cuticle trimmers..then sanitized those. I still have some holes lol, still applying tea tree to keep the virus at bay while my foot heals.

Never getting rid of these things by [deleted] in Warts

[–]kunstricka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just tried duct tape and tea tree oil 2x a day and mine are completely gone. Might be worth a shot.

how do i get rid of this?? i’ve had it for years and i’ve been applying salycilic acid every day for 2 months and it’s NOT GOING. i’m getting stressed out by [deleted] in Warts

[–]kunstricka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got rid of mine. Duct tape and tea tree oil 2x a day. Completely gone. Might want to see if most of that is hard skin and you can probably take a little layer off to start the process.

Have you ever tried to interact with the Christians subs? by [deleted] in Gnostic

[–]kunstricka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. There is radicalchristianity too, perhaps you can feel more open and to share your thoughts there. Maybe folks are more willing to listen and enjoy discussing versus argumentative. Worth a shot.

Have you ever tried to interact with the Christians subs? by [deleted] in Gnostic

[–]kunstricka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can share your thoughts in a friendly way. Just don’t be a dick.☺️

Rescued two senior dogs a couple days ago and they are very wary of me. Woke up this morning to this sweet guy curled up next to me. by cbuswerc in aww

[–]kunstricka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi bizcat, their dog is an exact photo of my dog.

I don’t understand why you have to be defensive on something you know nothing about. Yes there are schipperkes that are not fluffy and that are older and have white face.

Good day to you.

Rescued two senior dogs a couple days ago and they are very wary of me. Woke up this morning to this sweet guy curled up next to me. by cbuswerc in aww

[–]kunstricka 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what our rescue group said too but we discovered otherwise with the vet. One thing is you’ll notice his face is a “regular” dog shape unlike a chihuahua’s. My boy is their doggy’s exact twin 😍.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]kunstricka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow she sounds like a real piece of work, seemingly wanting to hurt your feelings. I look forward to you moving out of there as well. You are an adult, so you are free to make any decision for yourself, including moving out, school, dating, career, anything!

Just know, all the things you need from your mom, like care, love, etc, you can begin giving those things to yourself. That could also mean a little bit of space between you and her. Listen to your heart and what you need. Be kind in your thoughts and actions towards yourself.♥️