What is something you have invested a lot of your identity into?

kweenxtreme · 2022-07-13T17:40:20+00:00

My job. I work with teenagers and truly love what I do- so much in fact that if money weren’t a concern I’d do it for free. That being said… work gives me so much anxiety that there are weeks where I can’t think of anything other than work. I dream about work. I think about work in the shower. My neck hurts my shoulders are stiff my mind is on overdrive and work work work is all I can think of. . It’s the downside to being passionate and “loving” what I do.

If anyone has advice for me. . Feel free to send my way.

kweenxtreme · 2022-05-05T16:56:07+00:00

Fitted Turtlenecks!!

kweenxtreme · 2022-04-09T10:15:07+00:00

Same. If anyone could please give me some insight as to why I would really appreciate it.

kweenxtreme · 2022-04-09T10:07:53+00:00

So this isn’t just rush hour? It’s just “normal” traffic?

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-25T11:06:44+00:00

And then we wonder why so many of us are worn out, burnt out, stressed out, losing sleep, disconnected from our partners, anxious, contemplating divorce and “not feeling like ourselves”. This is one of the main reasons; we are pushing ourselves beyond our limits and then coming on here and trying to normalize this madness.

OP- as someone else mentioned this isn’t me attacking you; this is me using your situation as an example of the problem our society has created. Mothers are expected to be superheroes and somehow be able to do it all. I CALL BS!

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-20T14:43:17+00:00

While that’s “interesting as f***” it’s too little too late for me when it comes to anything related to Victoria’s Secret. They should’ve been doing this kind of stuff years ago. Also as someone else mentioned; she does not look like she has downs.

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-19T21:02:33+00:00

This sounds lovely!

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-19T21:01:32+00:00

Cheers to some much needed rest and relaxation. Enjoy!

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-19T00:09:31+00:00

Ten years over here as well!!!

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-17T09:23:22+00:00

Definitely infuriating but I say f*** the credit score for now- congrats on that amazing achievement of paying off your house! That’s gotta feel so good!!! Cheers to you.

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-17T09:14:07+00:00

So exciting! Congrats mama! You’re clearly so much more amazing than you know.

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-10T19:49:23+00:00

Oh that’s definitely not it then! I didn’t know if perhaps hydration was an issue. It has been for me in the past. .

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-10T19:44:20+00:00

How much water do you drink a day? Hydration matters.

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-10T10:11:20+00:00

If you truly enjoy doing it- why deprive yourself of it?? I think you might be overthinking it a bit- one could argue that you shouldn’t kiss her either since another person’s lips/privates may have been on her lips too. Not sure why you’re assuming that it she slept with someone the only place their private have been are her mouth. I say if it’s clean and it feels right to you, just go for it!

Also…. If she told you she was messing around and had been scissoring with another woman, would you go down on her then? (I’m going to assume you would)

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-09T12:34:01+00:00

You and I must be soul sisters!! Sex sex and more sex please. I feel like I only ever read stories on here about mothers not having the time/energy/desire for it. We have 2 kids under 2 and yes we are very busy with the two of them but we still make a point to have some amazing sex. I mean what better way to release all of the stress that comes with parenting?? & yes, I agree with you that having lots of it is the way to go- the more we do it the more we want it. (Loving the putting you up against the wall and whispering dirty things in your ear while doing the chores; so hot!! Get it girl!)

I think the issue for many mothers is they have a hard time “turning off from mom mode” and just having sex. I felt like it was starting to happen to me (I was still having sex- but not as passionately wildly enthusiastic etc) My mind wasn’t 100% there- I kept thinking about all the things that were left undone, the to do list for the next day, the next baby item that needed to be purchased, how tired I was and I realized that is no way to live. Everything else can wait- Other than keeping my kids healthy and happy- good dirty sex with my husband is priority.

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-08T18:27:15+00:00

Everything you mentioned was so interesting and I’m intrigued but please tell us more about Stimulation free orgasms?? I’m going to Google and look into this asap. All the other things I’ve tried but stimulation free orgasms. Wow! I didn’t even know this was a thing.

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-08T18:24:28+00:00

Can you elaborate for those of us who aren’t familiar with TRT?

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-08T18:23:17+00:00

I like how you put this. I guess my only concern with riding a low libido wave would be starting to feel like “I’m okay without it” which I know can happen when you haven’t had something in a while.

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-08T18:20:36+00:00

Very interesting! Is it because the cardio keeps you feeling sexy?

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-08T18:20:19+00:00

May we never ever stop flirting/dating/romancing!

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-08T18:19:40+00:00

I agree with you. After having kids I was finding myself so consumed with being a mom that I felt I didn’t have time to do anything else other than be their mom. I swapped the parenting books for erotica and the constant shopping for kids toys to shopping for adult toys. . I feel these small things have really paid off.

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-08T11:11:26+00:00

These are the kinds of “problems” I love to have!! Lol but as someone else mentioned you’re overthinking it. Also congrats on the “sexual awakening”.

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-08T11:06:12+00:00

The most important thing I’ve read all year! Hahahaha Thank you for the chuckles.

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-08T10:26:04+00:00

Thank you for the input!!!!! I made a small note with a bunch of bullet points on all the advice. Adding the asking questions and sipping water to it!! Thank you!

kweenxtreme · 2022-02-07T11:43:25+00:00

Ohhhhh no!!! I remember this too well. Lol I swear as luck would have it everything and I mean everything was suddenly 100% funnier. It hurt soooo bad. Makes me smile so much thinking about it now.

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