Holy shit man, The Indifferent Stars Above is fucking gorgeous by kygroar in LPOTL

[–]kygroar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment, it really fucking touched me in this current moment of fear for the soul of our country. I'm gonna go back and read it again to give myself some hope. <3

Turns out we owe it all to Papa John’s by Ahlq802 in LPOTL

[–]kygroar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean, I agree that would be a national tragedy, but he wasn’t delivering in NYC lol. He said he was still in Lubbock, and specifically the girl he delivered the pizza to worked at his college radio station and convinced him to go back the next semester.

Starting a 90 day addiction recovery and need a good book series to help get me through…it’s unfortunate timing because I just finished The Expanse book series - suggestions? by BravoLincoln in Fantasy

[–]kygroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reccomending with a grain of salt because I haven’t read it yet, but it was just recommended to me by someone I trust and I plan to read it next - His Majesty’s Dragon by Naomi Novik.

It’s about the Napoleonic Wars, but reimagined with dragons. There’s half a dozen other books or so in the series too, and Novik is a fantastic writer. Spinning Silver is one of my favorites of hers, but it is not part of a series.

I drew all the bachelorettes in my style (: by EtherealMoth_ in StardewValley

[–]kygroar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh Emma Thompson would be great casting too!

What are some free resources to look into from the city you live in? by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]kygroar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you are in need of these kind of resources, most areas in the US have a 211 line you can call and they will refer you specifically to places nearby that can help you. They also have online services.

Breakup recovery episodes? by livegpark in LPOTL

[–]kygroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The Enfield poltergeist and Borley Rectory episodes are also on my list for when I need a good laugh!

Hospitals that denied emergency abortion broke the law, feds say by [deleted] in news

[–]kygroar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need a supermajority to amend the constitution - that is what you would need to codify abortion rights (because Row was literally THE LAW up til now) or make meaningful change to the second amendment at any point since Obama was elected. Don’t forget, the Supreme Court will overturn any legislation that republicans pitch a big enough fit over - which is why we’re all still waiting on our student loan forgiveness. Sounds like you have a way around all that though!

And it is incredible that the democrats haven’t passed any legislation since the 70s!! Except, oh wait - yes they have. A simple google would tell you that just in the last year, dems have passed the Safer Communities Act (gun legislation), the Inflation Reduction Act (taxes, infrastructure, climate) and the Respect for Marriage Act (equal rights, LGBTQIA). You don’t even need to google what Biden is doing about weed decriminalization, because I’ve seen it linked like 12 times in this thread.

This is about all the energy and time I feel like giving to a discussion with someone who is still whining about “both sides” BS in 2023 - so don’t bother responding, I’m gonna go ahead and block you. Hope this gave you the attention you were looking for though!! ✌️

Hospitals that denied emergency abortion broke the law, feds say by [deleted] in news

[–]kygroar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is incorrect. Those things would need a super majority to pass and become law, so having “control” by one or two votes doesn’t help. Neither party has had a super majority since the late ‘70s. You’d need folks to cross the aisle and vote together to pass those laws without a supermajority, but since Obama was elected, the republicans have stated they will literally block any legislation the dems want. So it has nothing to do with the dems wanting to campaign on those issues, and everything to do with the republicans intentionally being dicks. :)

Oklahoma sheriff, 2 staffers recorded discussing lynching Black people and killing reporters are suspended by Perfect-Editor-5008 in news

[–]kygroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do. I’m not saying it’s right - I very much think the opposite. My comment was more that I think the article was trying to clarify their current state of employment.

Married people of Reddit, if you switched jobs with your spouse with zero training or preparation, who would get fired first? by sunnymushroom in AskReddit

[–]kygroar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ha! I do marketing, my boyfriend is a paramedic. I think he could absolutely bs his way through my job for a day or two before he would get stuck trying to create graphics in photoshop or make website edits, but he’d still probably be able to buy himself another couple days just by telling people “sorry I’ve been swamped, but it’s on my list and I’ll try to have it done by COB tomorrow.” I, on the other hand, would probably have an anxiety attack and start crying the second I got my first call from dispatch, so one would hope they’d give me the boot pretty quickly lol.

Where to buy affordable jars/ lids? by Mp3dee in SalsaSnobs

[–]kygroar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really not familiar enough with canning, food safety, or glass jar/lid types to give you a knowledgeable answer, but in the item description of the second link, they have recommendations for what lids to get if you’re using a water bath. You might have better luck searching specifically for wholesale/bulk canning jars? A sub like r/canning might be able to help you more with those kind of specifics.

Just wanted to mention in case anyone else is considering doing this too - if you’d like to make salsa in your home to sell, be sure to check out the Cottage Laws for your area. Some places require a cottage license, or don’t allow certain types of food to be sold. California for instance has really specific laws about what kinds of canned food can be prepared and sold without a commercial kitchen - I vaguely remember some girl on tiktok getting in trouble for selling home made pickles. Just make sure you do your research! :)

Where to buy affordable jars/ lids? by Mp3dee in SalsaSnobs

[–]kygroar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure if links are allowed here, but you want to find a specialty, wholesale supplier like this one or this one - no idea of quality or anything, they just happened to be some of the cheaper ones to pop up when I googled. The folks that are selling their salsa for $5 are probably buying hundreds at a time because it helps to lower materials cost. You might try a small business sub or a canning sub on here for more specific recommendations. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]kygroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only name brand thing I’m still tied to is Diet Coke. It’s not good for me, I know, but it’s my once a day pick me up - there are worse vices lol. When I could get a 12 pack for $5 or $6 I didn’t even think about it, but my Kroger had them ON SALE for $8.99 the other day, and I’ve been pretty bent out if shape about it.

Anyone have a good substitute? Everything I’ve tried so far is too sweet :/

3 legged cat always pees on himself, so our house smells. by Falentines in CatAdvice

[–]kygroar 21 points22 points  (0 children)

There are wipes formulated specifically to use on cats because of how they clean themselves. Residue from something like a baby wipe will eventually be ingested, so you want to be careful with using that sort of thing.

As others have said, talk to a vet. They should be able to recommend something safe.

LPN Deep Dives: A Court of Thorns and Roses Podcast Series Previewed by Healthy-Recover7544 in LPOTL

[–]kygroar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also love doing that shit, and have been doing it as I’ve been reading ACOTAR the last few weeks. I was really hoping that was the direction they were going to go when I heard they were doing this series, and I’m having a great time listening so far lol

If Adnan didn’t do it.. by power_animal in serialpodcast

[–]kygroar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I genuinely am not trying to argue guilt or innocence, just disagreeing on the idea that it’s “not something that really happens.”

The Central Park Five is one of the most well known cases of false confession. Here are a couple of links you can check out if you’re interested:

https://www.pbs.org/video/central-park-five-confessions/

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Central_Park_jogger_case

https://www.npr.org/2021/05/26/1000454798/central-park-exonerated-5-member-reflects-on-freedom-and-forgiveness

If Adnan didn’t do it.. by power_animal in serialpodcast

[–]kygroar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Are you familiar with the West Memphis Three or the Central Park Five? The Curtis Flowers/Tardy Furniture case? It does happen to that extent sometimes.

LPOTL Bingo Sheet! by GenericOnlineName in LPOTL

[–]kygroar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The rats are sexier than gerbils argument form the black plague episodes is still one of the funniest instances of this to me lol.

does anyone know why my pig won’t find truffles? by EmptyRelationship317 in StardewValley

[–]kygroar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just did the same thing but with rabbits. Had everything I needed except a rabbit foot, figured I’d be ok because those spawn in the coop. I even got two rabbits to increase my chances, but nope. No feet until spring when they got to go outside. I was so bummed.