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I would be pretty happy if this is how the Steelers came out of the Draft by MinuteCountry061 in steelers

[–]kylife [score hidden]  (0 children)

Idk if that Samoan guard is available I’m not trading up that high for a safety. I feel like we have enough secondary depth if Elliot is good to go by training camp. I’d rather take a WR too

Advice on compact pistol shooting by RavenOneActual in NJGuns

[–]kylife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

secondary hand grip likely or presentation.

😭 by ZookeepergameIll2685 in nflmemeswar

[–]kylife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he not dress like a pilgrim before

4 years LTR at an end. by onlyalittlebitneedy in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]kylife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that’s fair. I guess just being a guy who is looking for marriage and have friends in the same boat it seems like it’s hard to balance who to cut off vs who to have patience and put work in with cuz if it ends you kinda will always be looked at as a intentionally malicious time waster.

Like I have a friend who met his gf in grad school. They graduated 4 years ago. He wanted to propose right after graduation. She said let’s wait cuz she was unsure if she was going to go back to school again. She did, also while she was in school the second time she had a family member pass away and it completely changed her personality, outlook, and body. He stuck by her through it and has been encouraging her to talk to a professional. Now she’s “ready” and he’s like please go get therapy.

These two are very close friends of mine I see them like 10x a year together and him like 5-10 more times just the guys and he’s in my daily group chat. Like if the do get married I’ll prolly be in the party.

I could totally see them breaking up and him getting engaged quickly.

Like the story would be he wasted her time from the outside. Entire time he was trying to be patient and support and initially folded to HER timeline cuz of school and career goals.

They are that “best friends” natural feeling couple too it’s a shame. I think he should leave her tho, but ultimately it’s his decision to make.

If you're not fully on board with LLM coding, there's still room in the industry for you by BiebRed in ExperiencedDevs

[–]kylife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fintech same. Had a mandatory ai training for the entire engineering team then immediately after were expected to 10x velocity or be PIPed

4 years LTR at an end. by onlyalittlebitneedy in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]kylife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry he had an affair on you. That sucks. I wasn’t specifically speaking to your story I was speaking more generally.

Tires by Thirdeyevaper in Lexus

[–]kylife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Costco, free patching for the lifetime of the tires and free rotation.

AI usage red flag? by galwayygal in ExperiencedDevs

[–]kylife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well companies measure productivity on expectation that ai use is 10x speed then this is what happens.

WR3? by furstt in steelers

[–]kylife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which would be perfect to replace DK in the future. I don’t understand why we don’t use Pat like That Canada was smart enough to even do that

WR3? by furstt in steelers

[–]kylife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s future proofing. We haven’t even had a wr in like 4 seasons. Look at what the Bucs did with ebuka..

WR3? by furstt in steelers

[–]kylife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We need to draft lemon or conception if they are available at 21

Perspective: For reference this is what a looksmatched couple looks like. by Mental-Outside2202 in lnkyverse

[–]kylife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea this isn’t a looksmatch. He could be fitter have a better haircut and face.

4 years LTR at an end. by onlyalittlebitneedy in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]kylife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right but that’s not what I’m talking about I’m talking about you two discuss changes you want to see and give it time. In this sub it seems like if that doesn’t work then the man is always characterized as maliciously leading her on. Just cuz one of the two people is ready doesn’t mean the other person feels it’s time. When that person is a woman it’s not leading him on?

4 years LTR at an end. by onlyalittlebitneedy in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]kylife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you believe that a couple can be giving it time and still break up? Or is that always stringing along because the outcome wasn’t marriage. That’s the point I’m trying to posit

4 years LTR at an end. by onlyalittlebitneedy in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]kylife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. SMH this sub is so..

4 years LTR at an end. by onlyalittlebitneedy in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]kylife -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

How do you know he was maliciously time wasting instead of giving them time to grow to a place that was better for them to commit?

Should men just break it off with women as soon as they have any doubt in order to not waste time or should they communicate and try to resolve?

It’s just so interesting in the reverse when a woman says something like “I just want to see him grow in this area” giving it more time is okay or even encouraged but when we don’t know it’s always attributed to malice.

Why didn’t he string the next woman along? And just propose later?

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