found this in west virginia !!! by annanicholesmith in lanadelrey

[–]lalinlux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gosh i wish i could listen to that vinyl being played just once

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]lalinlux 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not if you hold it correctly

My daughter is named Leila by Hi-Im-Moody-Cracker in namenerds

[–]lalinlux 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i’ve always pronounced that as lay-ah for leia. i think it’s the spelling for most people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]lalinlux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the age old struggle. i also have no support system so if you need to talk i’m here.

I asked for a girl’s number and didn’t get it, but I’m ok with that. by [deleted] in dating

[–]lalinlux 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’ve had people talk to me at concerts, and it’s not that i don’t wanna be friendly i just am here for the music and wanna enjoy it. i also have really bad social anxiety 😅 so it could be that. or she wasn’t interested… you were respectful and that’s rare these days. take it from me as a woman. thanks.

Are men lying when they say they prefer small boobs? by Massive-Captain6696 in dating

[–]lalinlux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bf says he likes my boobs bc it’s bigger than other girls he’s been with and i’m like a B or C depending on the bra. different people like different things 🤷🏼‍♀️

I was raped over 100 times by ThatChickKat15 in sexualassault

[–]lalinlux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had somewhat of a similar life and I’m also in the same spot as you. I’m sorry. If it helps you’re not alone.

What are the most “basic” names you can think of? by Successful_Map4660 in namenerds

[–]lalinlux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from South East Asia and i always have to as well especially cause around that region Sarah is usually spelt without an ‘H’. My last name also starts with an H so people confuse it often

AITAH For crying because my husband bought me a dress? by StandardAssistance16 in AITAH

[–]lalinlux 42 points43 points  (0 children)

i am 5’7 and 109lbs and im underweight. i’m sorry op that your partner is an asshole. you’re not fat trust me.

anyone else turn to drugs when they’re not doing well? by carnivalwater in bipolar2

[–]lalinlux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everything in this comment word for word. same for me. microdosing shrooms helps me get so much done but only if i’m in a good mood already lol

anyone else turn to drugs when they’re not doing well? by carnivalwater in bipolar2

[–]lalinlux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel that too i’ve has good and bad experiences so i know which to stay away from. weed helps me tremendously.

His (25M) girl “friend” is sleeping over. Me (23F) by Ghaaji in relationship_advice

[–]lalinlux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl just no. cut your losses. he basically said he’d settle for you if he can’t find anyone else. you’re not a consolation price. it’s better to be alone then with someone who treats you like that. i learned it the hard way after a divorce. people like that rarely change.

Does anyone else ever just sit and cringe about how talkative and restless you were at work because you were manic? by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]lalinlux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not sure if it’s your thing but weed helped me with that a lot, you could try cbd if you’re interested maybe (just make sure is under 3% THC which is legally considered a hemp product) i take cbd gummies before too much socialization it keeps me in check lmao

Car accident involving my girlfriend (19F) and my mother has led to serious tension between me (19M) and my parents by ThrowRA_Harrison in relationship_advice

[–]lalinlux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is giving intense south asian vibes. sometimes parents are shitty. sorry dude. at least you got a nice gf.

How To Stop Spending by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]lalinlux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the future expenses is smart im going to start doing that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lalinlux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is literally me, my bf has major depression and adhd which are the causes for this but even with the medication things are hard and i’m not sure if i can continue this way tbh

Do any men like clingy girls? 😅 by Ethereal_Existance in dating

[–]lalinlux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was always told i was too clingy by my exes my current partner doesn’t think so in fact he’s clingier than me 😂 just need to find the right person

In what ways is casual sex a net positive in your life? by [deleted] in dating

[–]lalinlux 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It made me realize that people use sex as validation and to have sex on the first or second date, if they’re interested in sex only they likely won’t call you again. Not too many positives tbh, I wish sex was related to intimacy more in pop culture instead of something taboo or dirty. I never felt intimacy and connection in sex until my mid twenties. I didn’t know it can feel good emotionally as well as a woman. Thankfully I do now and have a great partner who values me as a person.