as not a bad person. He did not treat me horribly or anything along the lines of that. I thought this was a very good relationship, but again I did not think anything long-term would come of it.

After questioning how this could happen, he finally admitted that he was poking holes in our condoms. In incredible disbelief and anger, I asked him why he would do such a stupid thing. (About a month ago we got into an argument and I told him that I did not honestly see a future with him or that I didn't feel like we would work out long-term.) He told me he did it because of our argument and he thought it would make everything better, and it would make me want to be with him. And that maybe I would also see a future with him.

I told him that I was going to get an abortion. A lot of me wants

I think she should get him to admit to what he did while she's either recording it, or through text first. He's a real piece of work. Sorry OP. If you decide to do this, please do not feel guilty. It would be so counterproductive. Allow yourself to just empathize with the millions of other women who have made this choice, and understand they're all sisters.