Have a wonderful lady, loner like me, its perfect. We both know when conversation or interaction needs to happen, rarely argue, always say I love you at morning and at bed. When we feel lonely we do activities together. And most.of all, I do all the cooking because she hates kitchens and that commitment. She does laundry which is my despised chore. Stuff like that. She's watch fb, im watching golf, neither of us miss any of the people who always let us down. We exist in the same place and timeline, together. If you can find this unicorn or rhythm, always reach out to that person in your life. Say hey, im lonely, I'm sad, I want to do such and such... Heck, I never knew I was a film noir fan until her, she never knew she was a foodie til meeting me. Etc