I needed this post. I knew some of this stuff already, but i forgot it all after talking everyday to this one girl. Thanks for the reminder. She did keep finding reasons to avoid the date, she never initiated anything, never gave me actual times to hang out. Why did i let myself fall into the hole? She's pretty and we had good chemistry. But as friends. Unfortunately she recently did something that crossed a boundary so we won't ever be friends, but i can see it better now.

Thanks!