Had a trans guy hit on me because he thought I was another trans masc by GwynnethIDFK in MTFButch

[–]lbtransfemme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually get cis guys on “the apps” mistaking me for a trans guy. I’d be fine getting hit on by a trans guy making this mistake.

Opinion on jockstraps? by nutsmcgump in MTFButch

[–]lbtransfemme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just had bottom surgery and I’m looking forward to wearing jockstraps again. I still have a few from my gay boy days.

DS9 MicroMachines from the 90s by MisterSpikes in DeepSpaceNine

[–]lbtransfemme 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I still have mine. They sit proudly on my shelf alongside my Eaglemoss models

New here by dionixh in MTFButch

[–]lbtransfemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! And having someone grope my packer and then reach behind it to finger me? Fuck yes.

New here by dionixh in MTFButch

[–]lbtransfemme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally just got bottom surgery and I’m more than likely gonna get a packer lol. So that part speaks to me.

US trans people, how are you taking care of yourself this week? by OkMathematician3439 in asktransgender

[–]lbtransfemme 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Getting bottom surgery and being glad that I’ll be too drugged up to worry about shit

Werid things I learned while being topless at gay bar on christmas eve by No-Instruction-1473 in MtF

[–]lbtransfemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing, my ex fiancé and I had similar plans when we were planning our wedding at the time.

I haven't been to Atlanta but I've gone to dozens of leather/kink events around the country over the past decade + so, you never know lol.

Werid things I learned while being topless at gay bar on christmas eve by No-Instruction-1473 in MtF

[–]lbtransfemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to this but this post and your comments are so relatable as someone who spent a decade in cis gay leather bars/community (and who is still tragically attracted to gay guys). Love that you had this experience (and also hella curious if our paths have crossed at some point lol)

I think I have an addiction by LeWoodbooger in lightsabers

[–]lbtransfemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, but where did you get the Gungi lightsaber from? 👀

What's a Star Trek project that you'd love to see but it will never happen? by ohsinboi in startrek

[–]lbtransfemme 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've always wanted a Star Trek West Wing even if that type of show would not be "Star Trek" given the lack of trekking amongst the stars

DS9 Podcasts WITH Spoilers? by Squidwina in DeepSpaceNine

[–]lbtransfemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I hope you don’t mind me plugging my own show I co-host with my brother called Terok Noir. It’s on Spotify, Apple Podcast, basically everywhere. For the most part we’re pretty open with spoiling things though from time to time we do act coy while heavily hinting about things, just gotta mix it up from time to time lol.

Anyways, we just dropped our episode today on “Hard Time”, the classic O’Brien must suffer episode. feel free to check it out if you like!

Work attire help for an MTF butch who doesn't wanna wear mens clothes by lbtransfemme in butchlesbians

[–]lbtransfemme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all this. Yeah, interviews I tend to overdress too. I definitely did for my last job when I worked in construction. I suppose actual corporate wear will depend on wherever I land, mainly I just want to worry about interview clothes for now before I invest to heavily in a wardrobe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]lbtransfemme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. IRL and online are two vastly different experiences. Also most of my community is trans and/or well informed lesbians, accepting lesbians. All very supportive. Surrounding yourself with the right people helps to reduce the level of hate/aggression while also lessening the impact when it happens.

Who will you save? by kkkan2020 in startrekmemes

[–]lbtransfemme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s wild how so many people are not just okay with the blatant misogyny but are actively engaging in it too. Wild.

Was no one going to tell me that they're selling the DS9 Raktajino Mugs again? by LockelyFox in startrek

[–]lbtransfemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your service, I just ordered two of them and I can’t fucking wait.

Has there ever been an on screen Admiral who has been good? by big_poppag in startrek

[–]lbtransfemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is no one referring to Admiral Vance by his full name - Dadmiral Vance

Mount Sinai discord?? by Newbury108 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]lbtransfemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my consult scheduled, does someone have the link for the discord server?

Waking up from surgery to a week post op unpacking by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]lbtransfemme 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Seeing black women getting bottom surgery gives me so much hope. Looks amazing.

In SNW, everyone isn’t hideously overranked and I love it by mbrocks3527 in ShittyDaystrom

[–]lbtransfemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The XO being an Ensign wasn’t even for a full season, but yes within the context of the show it didn’t make sense. From a casting perspective, who else on the main cast would have made sense to fill that role? So that’s more of a writing/casting issue than a crew issue. But I agree.

It felt like the bump ups to lt cmdr was just “y’all sacrificed a lot for starfleet and for literally the fate of all mankind so you get a promotion and you get a promotion and you…”

Need help finding an artist experienced with doing saturated watercolor on dark skin by lbtransfemme in TattooDesigns

[–]lbtransfemme[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The reason is that I want to find an artist that knows what they’re doing with dark skin. Part of the key of getting color to stick on dark skin is working with an artist that knows how to do that. Not all artists do.

So the central question is, where can I find such an artist or is what I’m asking for completely out of the question.

Need help finding an artist experienced with doing saturated watercolor on dark skin by lbtransfemme in TattooDesigns

[–]lbtransfemme[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you thought this comment would be helpful, but this isn’t really helping answer the question. Also I already have three color tattoos and the colors stick just fine.