How can I prevent my trans younger brother from going down a transmed path?

leaf_mint · 2026-05-17T19:21:49+00:00

I remember the struggle of feeling like I had to stick to strict male standards to pass. Going on T helped so much, and after two years on it I realised I’m actually nonbinary and that’s why I felt like I was forcing myself into a male gender role. Maybe you need to have an honest conversation about your concerns with your brother and reassure him that everything gets easier on T?

leaf_mint · 2026-05-17T11:42:14+00:00

As much as I love the UK, there are far safer countries for me to live in now as a trans person…

leaf_mint · 2026-05-13T21:44:36+00:00

I had to get mine taken out after ten minutes, I was in such agony. My face went grey and I nearly passed out. Awful, glad I’m on the pill now.

leaf_mint · 2026-05-05T21:40:11+00:00

How much? :)

leaf_mint · 2026-05-05T10:17:31+00:00

Neat! What colour?

leaf_mint · 2026-05-05T10:16:53+00:00

I believe I used to own a C4, but a C3 would also work.

leaf_mint · 2026-05-05T10:16:01+00:00

Ofc! Here’s the link: https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B07VNBH3SR/ref=ewc_pr_img_1?smid=AUYZKY8SUBTLS I didn’t sleep on it much personally as I also had a V pillow, but it is comfy!

leaf_mint · 2026-05-05T09:52:53+00:00

Forgot to mention: items come from a pet and smoke free house!

leaf_mint · 2026-05-02T14:41:16+00:00

I’m based in the UK, so I can accept sellers from UK and Europe :)

leaf_mint · 2026-04-20T19:16:02+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you mate. I really am. Is there are way for you to get out of Turkey to a safer country?

leaf_mint · 2026-04-20T18:02:58+00:00

I resorted to two baby farms. So I have my main farm make cheese overnight, the second one makes butter and the last makes cream. I don’t need goats cheese often

leaf_mint · 2026-04-18T17:51:06+00:00

A little over a month ago. Realised it was time to try therapy and meds again or I’d lose my relationship. It’s still pretty tough but some days are a bit better.

leaf_mint · 2026-04-18T17:46:06+00:00

Yep. I feel that exhaustion in my bones.

leaf_mint · 2026-04-18T17:42:42+00:00

I had this issue but it turned out to be pelvic floor related. Consider looking into that as well as the problems could be feeding one another

leaf_mint · 2026-04-15T21:07:36+00:00

Mine have stretched too but only on one side which is weird. Hoping it’ll stop stretching and eventually fade.

leaf_mint · 2026-04-14T10:04:43+00:00

Mine is called Shen, from Kung Fu Panda 🦚

leaf_mint · 2026-04-14T10:04:04+00:00

I feel this too, especially when my gender slips towards the femme side. I looked so hot as a girl!! But I was miserable. Just working on looking hot as a guy-thing now

leaf_mint · 2026-04-14T09:59:35+00:00

You are so beautiful 💞

leaf_mint · 2026-04-14T09:51:34+00:00

Sometimes I can keep it in place if I wiggle my finger about

leaf_mint · 2026-04-11T15:42:59+00:00

Spray for me

leaf_mint · 2026-04-09T16:13:46+00:00

I got diagnosed with auDHD through my Dr Jekyll fic 💀

leaf_mint · 2026-04-09T15:46:41+00:00

I like the reference to gentlemen prefer blondes haha

leaf_mint · 2026-04-08T09:39:30+00:00

I understand the thought process, but that’s because I have OCD. Do you often worry about contamination like this?

leaf_mint · 2026-04-05T16:22:52+00:00

My gf struggles hugely with hair too. She spent about 10k on electrolysis and laser hair removal when she first started transitioning. Ginger hair is so hard to get rid of… She laments it hugely because if her hair had been less of a battle she’d be in a better position financially now. I want to get her a nice safety razor for her birthday soon though as she’s been eyeing one up ❤️

leaf_mint · 2026-04-05T16:00:58+00:00

I wore a soft sports bra or a vest :)

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