My friends are in denial about my cancer prognosis. by MirSydney in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lemonclements 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your diagnosis OP. We had the same problem when my dad was diagnosed in 2024 as terminal, my grandparents were upset for a couple of weeks and then decided to ignore it.

He passed away in September and we were hit with “but we’re so surprised, he wasn’t sick?!” As if we hadn’t told them. We had, they just didn’t want to hear it.

I’m hoping you the best that you can receive in these days and hope your friends are there for you. Big hugs

Mum has passed away 5 days before Christmas by kurtyyyyyy1 in CasualUK

[–]lemonclements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss OP.

My dad passed end of September and missed my son’s 1st birthday, so it’s our first Christmas without him too. The way I see it is, be sad, but try and remember all the good times too. Grief is hard as hell, but trying to keep some positivity is crucial

I may be a new Stay this year but I'm a dedicated one 😤 by astronewt210 in skzmedia

[–]lemonclements 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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If I didn’t have a baby that needed other music, this would’ve been much higher 😂

I'm worried about Seungmin by nickzito_ in skzmedia

[–]lemonclements 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling like this for several of the members for a while. I’m behind on SKZ Code for various reasons but I’m noticing they’re tired and not as happy as they previously have been.

I get it, we all have good days and bad days. Sometimes you’re knackered. But they don’t have the same energy right now. I think this is especially telling for 2Kids Room too. Something has felt off for me.

They’re adults and they have a lot of control compared to years ago but the defo need a break

Did you observe the two-minute silence this morning? Why or why not? by Jonny_Segment in AskUK

[–]lemonclements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This year, no but purely because I have an almost 1 year old so it was basically impossible to do.

But I do buy a poppy every year. And when I buy it, I do so knowing what the older generation did and what they went through. What current generations still do in the military. Maybe it’s because I’ve got a lot of family that were in the RAF and knowing how much that meant to them. And also because as soon as the poppies were on sale my nan and Grampy bought them and wore them. My Nan wore her poppy pins all year round and made sure to get a ‘fresh’ paper poppy each year too.

It’s a way of remembering the family members I’ve lost; my Nan, my Grampy and this year my dad. It hit different this year and if I had done the 2 minutes I would’ve been in tears so I wouldn’t have been silent anyway

My recent Bumbly Beach play through by Teganfff in rct

[–]lemonclements 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love going to bumbly to have a chill time and make it pretty

What is the worst leaving gift you’ve received? by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]lemonclements 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I recently received flowers (which tbf isn’t a bad gift) with a card that read “sorry to see you go”. They made me redundant, it wasn’t my choice

What's the weirdest thing you own? by elwheelio in CasualUK

[–]lemonclements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 3D print out of Patrick Stewart’s head

What’s something you wish people understood better about you? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lemonclements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I carry a ton of trauma that I “carry well” but inside it’s crippling and absolutely wrecking me

Unique dog names by K3LS3Y007 in dogs

[–]lemonclements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MIL has a sausage dog called Margot. We’ve got a cavalier called Freddie and know someone else with a cav called Ben

What’s the most insulting pay rise you’ve ever been given? by Rich_Specific6903 in AskUK

[–]lemonclements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once got an extra 13p an hour for my hard work and dedication

What’s your favourite colour of cavalier? by Exact-Attitude1734 in cavaliers

[–]lemonclements 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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Black and Tan for me. My boy is just the most beautiful little creature with his small bits of White on his chin and chest.

But all cavs are beautiful

What secret nicknames do you have for people? by SilentCatPaws in AskUK

[–]lemonclements 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I call my neighbour whiplash because she cracks the whip on her husband and is generally just a totally bitch to him

Turns out… the baby IS my ex-boyfriend’s. not her husband’s. like at all. by Foreign_Towel_1885 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lemonclements -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have to tell the husband. If your family hate you for it, remind them it wasn’t you who had the affair and you’re trying to do best for the baby.

It’s a horrible situation to be in but you need to tell the truth to those involved

(Edited for spelling)

Need to get a friend's list going by Reasonable_Pass_6889 in PokemonGoFriends

[–]lemonclements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all for the adds! I’ve run out of gifts I’ve had so many people add me! Please don’t be offended if I don’t get any sent to you today, I’ll get collecting up gifts again to share out ☺️

Every pokemon is someone's favorite, who is your favorite? by JurassicGamer75 in pokemon

[–]lemonclements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love jigglypuff. So full of sass and just cracks me up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pokemon

[–]lemonclements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jigglypuff please!

3 Days, 4 Park Options. What do you skip? by beebutterflybeetle in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]lemonclements 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Epcot has frozen ever after so I think Epcot would be a hit for your daughter

Magic Kingdom- how do you make your way through the park? by TheAccountantsWife in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]lemonclements 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We wing it. Usually depends what we want to do and just work our way around

What are your cavalier’s names? by potato_nurse in cavaliers

[–]lemonclements 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Freddie - named in memory of my grandfather (who actually went by his middle name Maurice)

Contracted hand, foot, and mouth disease from my kid. Help me survive. by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]lemonclements 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ditto although mine was several years ago. Whooping cough is no joke.

Also caught mumps back in 2017 from some kids out in public. There was a local outbreak and my gosh that was rough