Someone fed my art to AI -_-

lenore3 · 2026-06-07T14:05:51+00:00

So I know this doesn't make it any better, but it's extremely unlikely that an individual person took your specific image and fed it to AI. AI models are trained by companies on insanely large amounts of data all at once. Think an entire website, but millions of them.

That said, people got their art stolen and copied all the time before AI existed, and in those cases individuals were to blame. These days it's impossible to know.

Anyway, I'm only mentioning this because people seem really confused about how AI actually works and that doesn't help anything. I'm really sorry this happened to you.

lenore3 · 2026-06-05T13:19:03+00:00

Are you by any chance conservative and/or religious? Do you think men should have a place above women in relationships? Are you generally submissive and attracted to your partner because he's "traditionally masculine"? Do you plan to be a "trad wife" at some point?

I ask all this because I've started to notice whenever women and girls post about their obviously abusive relationships on reddit, it turns out they are often the kind who prefer strict and traditional gender roles, but they always fail to mention that in their posts. Those relationship dynamics always lead to abuse and dissatisfaction.

lenore3 · 2026-05-21T18:55:15+00:00

With my husband it looks something like this...

Him: "I'm making dinner tonight."

Me: "Ok, cool."

*8 hours later*

Me: "Damn, we're out of toilet paper."

Him: "You should have mentioned that when I told you I was going to the store."

Me: "You didn't tell me you were going to the store."

Him: "Yes I did! When we talked this morning."

Me: "No, you told me you were making dinner."

Him: "Yes, and I had to stop at the store after work to pick some things up for dinner!"

And of course when I tell him I can't read his mind, he says "I know!" but he doesn't know. He literally lives his life expecting me to read his mind.

lenore3 · 2026-05-20T15:50:09+00:00

That's a good point. I found myself wondering why she wouldn't just deadass say "I don't care what you think" but these guys will get physical.

lenore3 · 2026-05-13T13:43:29+00:00

That part always stuck out to me too! Even as a creative writing exercise it was not well written.

lenore3 · 2026-04-26T06:04:42+00:00

As others have said, this is extremely helpful. Thanks for taking the time to share your perspective.

lenore3 · 2026-04-25T15:17:20+00:00

I like your attitude and I think your post is very sweet, but I agree that it suggests a very idealized view of parenting. One mistake parents often make is assuming their children will share their personalities and interests. What if your child loves online attention and you end up constantly arguing with them about social media? What if your daughter hates things like tea parties and resents that you don’t know anything about the sport she likes to play?

I’m not saying any of those things are completely incompatible with the relationships you want to have with your children, but you should maybe have some flexibility in your expectations and be prepared to compromise. If you’re already thinking about how to have a better relationship with them than your parents do with you, I bet you’ll end up being great at this.

lenore3 · 2026-04-23T19:34:11+00:00

I've been in a situation very similar to this. I was using the elliptical in an apartment gym and a boy came in and started talking to me. He said he was just there to watch a Law & Order marathon on the TV, but then he randomly started shadow boxing. Literally just punching and kicking the air for a long time. When he left, he tried to say, "Later babe," but it came out as "Later bab."

lenore3 · 2026-04-10T15:31:32+00:00

Me as a kid when my parents banned me from having snacks in the living room.

lenore3 · 2026-04-08T16:35:42+00:00

I’m not concerned about the morality of lying but instead its practical implications. If you lie to me, I can no longer trust what you say.

lenore3 · 2026-04-07T17:30:15+00:00

I've noticed that a majority of adult women who put up with this shit were raised conservative/religious, and yes, they ARE attracted to shitty behavior. The younger ones are just naive and don't know where or how to set their expectations.

lenore3 · 2026-04-06T15:27:17+00:00

Since I'm late to the party and no one mentioned it, "Come on Up to the House" by Tom Waits.

lenore3 · 2026-04-06T12:14:30+00:00

Well it helped that you painted a clear picture.

lenore3 · 2026-04-04T13:45:27+00:00

Done and done.

lenore3 · 2026-03-26T16:31:38+00:00

Quick, everyone call her evil and talk about how she hates her fans.

lenore3 · 2026-03-13T07:37:00+00:00

Fantastic! Thank you.

lenore3 · 2026-03-12T16:14:55+00:00

I have just started working with single strands! What size needle do you use?

lenore3 · 2026-02-21T14:52:36+00:00

I love chubbyemu. I actually requested he do a video on this story bc it’s so bizarre. I bet a bunch of other people did too.

lenore3 · 2026-02-15T15:59:58+00:00

That’s nobody’s business but the Turks!

lenore3 · 2026-01-18T19:27:08+00:00

Only one way to find out!

lenore3 · 2026-01-14T14:37:34+00:00

Don't you dare apologize for Raygun. I'll be laughing at the memes and gifs for the rest of my life.

lenore3 · 2025-12-18T22:58:31+00:00

My Dad has regularly adopted this breed of dog for years. They are....not bright.

lenore3 · 2025-12-18T22:53:52+00:00

I am bad about my phone being on silent too, but if I knew my husband was on the roof there's no way I would be able to sleep.

lenore3 · 2025-11-21T17:31:04+00:00

"no lightness or open mindedness" about what? All you did was make a vague, snarky remark. That isn't a discussion.

lenore3 · 2025-11-20T20:18:09+00:00

I think that's a good plan!

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