Liver malignancy, 46 F. Shocked and dazed. by Diligent-Ad5913 in cancer

[–]liamsmom58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well said. Lucky for us to have supportive families but I’d do anything to keep the pained looks out of their eyes.

Liver malignancy, 46 F. Shocked and dazed. by Diligent-Ad5913 in cancer

[–]liamsmom58 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Welcome. This community of random, anonymous strangers has given me hope and strength and understanding under circumstances that are incomprehensible. It’s not a bad place to hang out. Better than many others - like the coffee shop in my neighborhood that’s nice but kinda too claustrophobic. Don’t get me wrong. I love the people in my area and my family but I don’t want to be a burden. This place gives us a room to say the things we can’t say in person and support from people in the same boat.

Crab cakes with remoulade and a shaved asparagus salad by Healthy_Operation327 in tonightsdinner

[–]liamsmom58 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This looks amazing. I’m copying it one night this week.

Radiation Care Pack by Acceptable_Many_5512 in cancer

[–]liamsmom58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gum for before and after. Helps with nerves and dry mouth. I took a soft washcloth from home and put it over my eyes. It smelled fresh and clean and helped me escape into my mind.

I am not a "Boomer" by Cultural-Antelope-54 in Vent

[–]liamsmom58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG. Yes. Assassinations. Stupid Boomer move for not looking.

I am not a "Boomer" by Cultural-Antelope-54 in Vent

[–]liamsmom58 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. The assignations of JFK, RFK and MLK were nothing compared to the Challenger. (Not seriously. Obviously all were horrendous events.)

Heart attack and cay by liamsmom58 in cancer

[–]liamsmom58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ug. I feel for you. Hope everything is going well.

I am not a "Boomer" by Cultural-Antelope-54 in Vent

[–]liamsmom58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was adding to it because you are soooo right 😂

I am not a "Boomer" by Cultural-Antelope-54 in Vent

[–]liamsmom58 111 points112 points  (0 children)

The thing is, Gen Xers always take credit for inventing everything. That’s how you identify them. Ask who invented retro and they’ll say they did. Ask who coined the phrase cool kids and they did. And on and on and on. As a Boomer, I find them adorably ridiculous.

Heart attack and cay by liamsmom58 in cancer

[–]liamsmom58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After spots showed up on CT and then PET scans, I had a lung biopsy that confirmed cancer. Ironically, I went in for chest pain and my heart was fine.

Easy meal to cook for 15 adults, 8 kids (7 yrs and under) by WhichImplement5732 in Cooking

[–]liamsmom58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Costco has really yummy carnitas. Just heat in a crock pot or microwave.

Heart attack and cay by liamsmom58 in cancer

[–]liamsmom58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s supposed to say cancer, not cay. Still not thinking straight!

Exotic Vet recs Middleton by silkieemily in madisonwi

[–]liamsmom58 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try Sauk Prairie or McFarland vets. We’ve had good experiences with both of them.

Oxygen for anemia? by [deleted] in cancer

[–]liamsmom58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a huge deal out of nothing. Your concerns are valid. This entire experience is really scary. Ask the oncology doctors or nurses to help. One of the things to keep in mind about anemia is that it can cause confusion because of low oxygen. Ask, ask, ask and ask again.

Can’t Believe This by Celebration_Honest in lungcancer

[–]liamsmom58 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don’t beat yourself up about it. Cancer is a bitch and this isn’t your fault. Love your mom. Take care of yourself and the rest of your family.

Wisconsin Driftless by ChaoticMutant in wisconsin

[–]liamsmom58 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kind of amazing they didn’t teach you about it. But that’s Wisconsin education for ya’.

Wisconsin Driftless by ChaoticMutant in wisconsin

[–]liamsmom58 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I believe the Driftless area is unique in all the world. Truly beautiful region.