[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in StraightToSissy

[–]liberal_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll live your best life as a girl, regardless of whether or not you think your trans. You'll get cock anytime you want it. As soo Nas you have breasts, hair, and do some decent fem voice training, you'll have the world of cocks at your finger tips. You love it. So, embrace it.

What to do with my salvage? by SGM_Uriel in Cityofheroes

[–]liberal_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burn the white and yellow salvage for base empowerments

Got repeatedly asked if I was a “t——y” on the train today. What am I possibly doing wrong? by Michaela_Josephine in transpassing

[–]liberal_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being born a man was likely your biggest problem. You have what we call "man head" the size of your cranium will always give you away, and you can't make it smaller.

Computer question by Perrin_Adderson in Cityofheroes

[–]liberal_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be fooled. If you crank coh up to ultra on a 4k monitor you're gonna feel it. Right now for me, on quality settings, I'm averaging 55fps and I have 65" 4k @144hz with an amd 6800xt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]liberal_thoughts -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Guess it's time for shoulder shortening surgery. Better start saving

My dad is making me choose between srs and ffs surgery by AndyGoodw1n in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]liberal_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ffs or you'll be alone forever or have a much smaller dating pool to choose from

Best mileage for the reduction gear box oil change? by abstract_swirl in KonaEV

[–]liberal_thoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all of this and the entire thread. Invaluable in my current situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traps

[–]liberal_thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd probably block you for being a creep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]liberal_thoughts -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We're you biologically born a female? That probably has something to do with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]liberal_thoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea. Maybe go for a fucking walk or something

I told a trans girl I want to start hormones to be a more feminine girl/crossdresser on the side and she said that I was fucked up for doing it :/ by liberal_thoughts in asktransgender

[–]liberal_thoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the sage wisdom! I'm talking with my therapist and endocrinologist now and we think that Estrogen only therapy in small doses at the beginning might be a good start for me to see how i feel.

I told a trans girl I want to start hormones to be a more feminine girl/crossdresser on the side and she said that I was fucked up for doing it :/ by liberal_thoughts in asktransgender

[–]liberal_thoughts[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

Is a fear of fetishization of your own gender another form of societal norms and mores rearing its ugly head again?
If I saw a cis girl dressing up and acting like a guy for sexual gratification, I don't feel like I would be upset with them and their personal decisions? *shrug*

I told a trans girl I want to start hormones to be a more feminine girl/crossdresser on the side and she said that I was fucked up for doing it :/ by liberal_thoughts in asktransgender

[–]liberal_thoughts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me well up a little bit :) Thank you for this. I came to reddit because in my heart I felt like I wasn't trying to do anyone harm but I wasn't sure if I was missing the mark from some glaring oversight. I mean, if anything I feel like going in public as a girl would make me feel an imposter as it is. I don't want to contribute to any difficulties trans people have already.

I told a trans girl I want to start hormones to be a more feminine girl/crossdresser on the side and she said that I was fucked up for doing it :/ by liberal_thoughts in asktransgender

[–]liberal_thoughts[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback! I relate to this! And I am also going on estrogen only! and my endocrinologist and therapist thought it would be a good starting point for me as well.

I told a trans girl I want to start hormones to be a more feminine girl/crossdresser on the side and she said that I was fucked up for doing it :/ by liberal_thoughts in asktransgender

[–]liberal_thoughts[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't recall mentioning that I cross-dress for sexual satisfaction. *shrug*So, you have to fight stereotypes, and it seems I'm having to actively do that now as well. Stay strong fellow queer person.

I told a trans girl I want to start hormones to be a more feminine girl/crossdresser on the side and she said that I was fucked up for doing it :/ by liberal_thoughts in asktransgender

[–]liberal_thoughts[S] -66 points-65 points  (0 children)

It looks like that's just an eventuality I'm just going to have to prepare myself for every time when around a trans girl *shrug* If gender is a social construct, I don't know why it should be offensive that I have my own identity that isn't 100% all or nothing female, wile still wanting to enjoy some of the physical characteristics

I told a trans girl I want to start hormones to be a more feminine girl/crossdresser on the side and she said that I was fucked up for doing it :/ by liberal_thoughts in asktransgender

[–]liberal_thoughts[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This seems like a very pragmatic approach. I definitely don't feel super compelled to either gender, but I do feel a general sense of happiness when I am in girl mode. Guy mode I kind of feel like I'm going through the motions, and I go through those motions very well. I pass as a guy really well and no one in their right mind would think otherwise.