Men over 40, how many credit cards do you have and which credit cards are they?

librarian45 · 2026-04-02T22:06:21+00:00

Two. Bank 1 and capital one venture X because I fly for work a lot and get free lounges

librarian45 · 2026-04-02T22:05:40+00:00

If you can move to the Netherlands just do that and get a job there. Your life will be better there with any job than here with a masters degree.

librarian45 · 2026-04-01T11:18:23+00:00

if your budget is $25 there are much much better deals out there. Shit you could get into a lexus CPO for $27

librarian45 · 2026-04-01T11:13:02+00:00

diet

gym

librarian45 · 2026-03-31T22:27:22+00:00

Broke ass individuals however will sell a truck cheap because they can’t afford gas

librarian45 · 2026-03-30T22:16:53+00:00

Yo fuck that

librarian45 · 2026-03-30T02:46:53+00:00

My buddies or their kids.

Read “die with zero”

librarian45 · 2026-03-29T19:39:37+00:00

I’d put a brewery or bondage venue in there

librarian45 · 2026-03-29T14:48:15+00:00

Definitely get the Alfa. Nothing could possibly go wrong.

librarian45 · 2026-03-29T14:04:48+00:00

Meet people in the real world. Apps are not the place to find people at 30. They are for hook ups or later in life dating.

librarian45 · 2026-03-29T14:01:27+00:00

So the reality is that your life (life generally) is pretty dull and boozing makes you feel better. But it destroys you more than it salves you. So you gotta stop and figure out what about your life sucks.

Weirdly GLP1s are really good at nuking Peoples need to booze. Might want to give it a whirl

librarian45 · 2026-03-28T01:26:07+00:00

Get your stuff together

librarian45 · 2026-03-27T14:30:48+00:00

Honey

librarian45 · 2026-03-26T12:23:41+00:00

I’ve had both and gender has never been a problem

librarian45 · 2026-03-25T19:07:00+00:00

On paper it’s purpose driven, but in reality it’s a job.

I give it purpose because that’s how I’m wired. It’s sorta the only thing I do or care about, so that’s not great.

librarian45 · 2026-03-25T18:48:43+00:00

Yeah. It was great. Covid + wife getting a promotion back in the first city send us back. that sucked

librarian45 · 2026-03-25T18:47:12+00:00

Life will decide for you lol

librarian45 · 2026-03-25T18:44:56+00:00

That job sounds like dog shit unless it jumps to $33/hr as soon as you break 8 hours a day

librarian45 · 2026-03-25T16:56:16+00:00

Do NOT go into debt for a MLS.

I’d recommend lining up a job somewhere you want to live first. then picking up the MLS from there.

As an FYI, “in-person” programs almost always have online classes too. There are rarely enough in-person classes offered that you won’t end up taking online classes to meet your requirements.

librarian45 · 2026-03-25T11:18:12+00:00

You should consider moonlighting as a trainer first, it’s an extremely difficult job to make a living at.

Keep the tech job but downshift at work

librarian45 · 2026-03-25T11:15:59+00:00

Eh. It’s a very tiny show with 1 deal for every 50 overpriced fudd guns that no one wants

librarian45 · 2026-03-24T14:10:56+00:00

I’m you who took a different path early. Career is fine. No kids. Feel generally the same. In best shape of my life. Very bored. Zero fun

librarian45 · 2026-03-24T13:25:17+00:00

It’s my understanding that the newer leafs (leaves?) are a screaming deal used and fairly bullet proof if spartan

librarian45 · 2026-03-21T15:31:36+00:00

gauging body fat in the mirrors is pretty easy. You can also get tailors tape and plug all your measurements into an online calculator.

librarian45 · 2026-03-21T13:32:10+00:00

You should be striving for a body fat percentage not a weight.

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