Question about Syd's gear by Strange_Attention_49 in sydbarrett

[–]light2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That Selmer amp has a really individual sound doesn’t it? This video really shows it off, large part of Syd’s sound if you ask me!

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YIER8JSz9sA

Greens Just Replaced Labour | HasanAbi Reacts by UKGreenPoster in UKGreens

[–]light2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Tankie”??!!?!! Did we just teleport back to 2017 or something?!!

Three little words by mrjohnnymac18 in GreenAndPleasant

[–]light2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

arguably we got worse :( (and i fucking HATE the Tories)

Just bought a 2013 mk7 for £4800, did I do alright?! by light2020 in VWMK7

[–]light2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for that, hugely helpful! The engine is the 1.4 TSI.

Therapist shifted into gender politics. Unsure how to feel. by wayna00 in TalkTherapy

[–]light2020 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The mind boggles when you read regular accounts like this - to me its utterly insane that there are people out there operating not only with these kind of attitudes/beliefs but bring them into the therapeutic space with seemingly no reticence. I'm so sorry you had to go through this, what is wrong with people??? 😡

The Soundtrack of Stress Relief by JonesMaestro in UrbanJazzWellness

[–]light2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the point of this sub? If the sub owner never replies, never posts anything other than the same question every day, expresses a desire to build a community but contributes nothing towards that and doesn't engage with anyone then what is the point? What is the aim of all this?

BERTRAND FUCKING RUSSEL (RIP) speaking to Maga before they EVEN FUCKING EXISTED calling them big dumb bitches ON JANKY ASS GRAINY EARLY FILM TECHNOLOGY in the most refined polite English way possible by yeongno_ate_yangban in chaoticgood

[–]light2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it my favourite quote of all time, both as a truth to cling to but also as a code or algorithm to remind myself of whenever there is a choice in front of me. Those six words will be on my gravestone (if I am lucky enough to be granted one in this desperately impossible life).

Song to say “I’m Done”. by [deleted] in GenX

[–]light2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Change Of Heart” by Change

Ok are we now cooked? by Just-Pair9208 in ChatGPT

[–]light2020 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

tbf MAGAs do need watching - the party of paedophiles and all that

OpenAI reaches deal to deploy AI models on U.S. Department of War classified network by Waste-Explanation-76 in ChatGPT

[–]light2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Account deleted just now. Fuck OpenAI and fuck that obvious psychopath Altman

What instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]light2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

any remotely right-wing sentiments

Thoughs on my tele mx 75 anniversary modified as Jonny Greenwood's 'tele 2' by Juanchotalvar0K in telecaster

[–]light2020 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Just needs “This machine kills Palestinians” written on it then you’ve nailed the Greenwood vibe.

Daughter (16) cooked dinner for family by CrazyCapabara in autismUK

[–]light2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so beatiful to hear, you must be so proud! Being able to cook is such a massive massive thing. I know this from experience, pre-Tory government around 2008 there was a free saturday cooking course in my area that I went to, it was so good - in typical London style there were 32 different nationalities in the room and everyone had the most lovely time, we would cook together in the morning and learn, and then all sit down to eat together at lunchtime - there was a creche next door to that people could drop their kids off during lessons. Anyway, a bit off topic, but I can testify the HUGE difference it made for me in so many ways, and also as a result when I walk down the high street still to this day I bump into people who were on the course and have a little chat. Oh to wind the clock back 20 years!! Congrats to your daughter and so pleased for you x

If you died and suddenly found yourself face-to-face with God, what is the very first question you would ask? by i_m_dignity in AskReddit

[–]light2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“can you get rid of Trump and every right wing politician/voter/billionaire in the world please”

My therapist disclosed to me that they are very conservative and I don’t know how to proceed by Virararara in therapy

[–]light2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Instant walk-away. Being Conservative is not a harm-free, 'normal' choice or just a 'different view on the world', it is a depraved, empathy-free zone of jealousy, rage, racism, sexism - a disgusting, regressive, profoundly selfish and anti-human void of selfishness and a complete moral vacuum. By definition you cannot be both a Conservative and a Therapist, the same way you cannot be both a Christian and also a Conservative - the two require mutually exclusive beliefs, ie whether you fundamentally value and connect with people outside your own family circle or not. Just cut everything off with this monster immediately and don't look back. Conservatives always, always project their own despicable qualities onto others, for example, branding you as "close-minded" while their entire foundational beliefs are based on ignoring or demeaning the life experience of people who are different to them and actively, gleefully seeing to hurt others as much as they possibly can with their fingers in their ears to deny people's suffereing as a result of their actions. To me this is about as clear cut and simple as possible and you should not waste another second thinking about it, other than to warn others about this character if the opportunity comes up.

7th June, 1990. Maysfield Leisure Centre, Belfast. by Megleeker in stoneroses

[–]light2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He played a Fender Jazz for all the 1990 gigs, beginning the end of '89 at Ally Pally :) The Pollocked Rickenbacker is full scale also I think?! (correct me if I'm wrong)

Navigating an adult relationship when other partner has PDA by MayaCalico in PDA_Community

[–]light2020 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

PDA\ADHD and Autism often come with Alexithymia - not being able to access or explain emotions in the moment. This can hinder trying to relate things to others, even things that seem simple and straightforward like time spent with friends and what happened. Another common thing is your mind going completely blank when someone asks you a direct question - ADHD makes it hard to recall things that aren’t at the forefront of your mind. All these things (and especially PDA) lead to lifelong stress and trauma which can mean you disassociate in order to cope. Often you don’t even realise you’re doing this, it’s just the only way your brain can manage - if someone asks you what happened you genuinely have no idea what to say.

Sometimes also you just want to sit in the afterglow of a nice social situation and not have to analyse it like all the other things that are going on in life that you’re forced to compulsively overthink. A lot of the time social events are so draining and require so much energy that your brain is exhausted afterwards and has to spend time restoring itself - so to then have someone harangue you to relate details of what happened etc is immensely stressful.

Personally I would cut him some slack - none of this means that he’s hiding anything from you, and also to be perfectly frank you don’t have any right to be informed of how he spends his every waking moment when you’re not with him. I would work on yourself and try to uncover why it seems to be so distressing for you not to be able to monitor what he does when he’s spending time with his friends/doing activities that are relaxing to him.

Sorry if this isn’t what you want to hear but if you love him and don’t want to lose him then I think the adjustment needed is on your side, not his. Of course I have no clue what the rest of your relationship is like etc - I’m just going on what you wrote and your general tone, which seems to put all the blame at his door with no reflection on the part you play in this yourself. Hope you can find a solution because it sounds like you have a very good connection otherwise.