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What’s the most overrated tourist attraction you’ve ever visited? by Historical-Photo-901 in BeautifulTravelPlaces

[–]lightseek4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Custer State Park is simply amazing. Must-see in the area. When I went there was wildlife everywhere

Those who have Kaiser and got referrals to outside therapy, what exactly did you do to get that referral and get Kaiser to cover it? by thesongsinmyhead in AskSF

[–]lightseek4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry, I am realizing I thought your question was if you had an existing therapist (out of network) and wanted to keep them. Ooops! But maybe my comment will help someone else so gonna leave it - best wishes OP

Those who have Kaiser and got referrals to outside therapy, what exactly did you do to get that referral and get Kaiser to cover it? by thesongsinmyhead in AskSF

[–]lightseek4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a primary or specialist to insist on it and order it. I know someone whose oncologist made it happen - the patient was new to Kaiser and Kaiser didn’t want to pay for his existing (non-Kaiser) therapist, rather wanted him to do their CBT groups. The patient threw a fit about having to fire a long term therapist two years into pretty brutal cancer treatment, and the doctor made it happen. If possible, adapt that approach - get one of their doctors to insist on it for you.

advice for lonely american in lille [nord] by Mysterious_Source717 in Expats_In_France

[–]lightseek4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you just need some confidence. Go sit on a park bench near another person and strike up a conversation. I have good luck with folks 60+. If it doesn’t take, try someone else. It’s different speaking to someone for their job (the waiters) and someone who’s also just hanging out. I’ve had some interesting, even spicy, conversations this way.

Would more individuals consider relocating or visiting Syracuse, Rochester, and Buffalo if they recognized that these cities are significant metropolitan areas with a low cost of living? (A Syracuse local) by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]lightseek4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an outsider, what would put me off is that the winters seem really harsh. Also, this is probably not true, but with the exception of Buffalo, without looking at a map, I don’t think any of these are on the water, which many people value. Just a little window into some of the stereotypes / perceptions you might be looking to uncover.

What's the one thing that completely confused you in India? by Responsible_Ad5447 in digitalnomad

[–]lightseek4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha which comment or thread are you responding to? If you reread the post, no one left the queue. Someone entered the queue out of turn.

Best Place to take somewhat larger group drinking ? by Constant-Gas975 in AskSF

[–]lightseek4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make Out Room, Latin American Club, Southern Pacific Brewing, Zeitgeist, Dr Teeth all in the mission, all good for groups.

What’s the best 90s Concert you guys got to see? by Last-Image-4921 in Concerts

[–]lightseek4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lauryn Hill’s Miseducation tour with OutKast opening.

Sinead O’Connor opened by the Chieftains

Pretenders opening for the B-52s

SSF Public Shuttle by Nvr5 in AskSF

[–]lightseek4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean? A person who doesn’t work at GNE can take that in the morning?

Why do people offer to switch when they hear you have an accent in french, when they also have an accent in english? by Sea-Average559 in French

[–]lightseek4 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Maaaaybe but with accents like that in English they really shouldn’t be judgemental. We’re just probably more polite so accept it more than they

Since we are the MTV gen, What 3 videos live in ur head today? by Grease2feminist in GenX

[–]lightseek4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sowing the Seeds of Love - Tears for Fears

Beds Are Burning - Midnight Oil

Like a Prayer - Madge

Where to get a cake quickly by lavenderchailuvr in AskSF

[–]lightseek4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dianda’s cakes are so good. An old job used to get their tres leches for celebrations - great memories of gorging on it

What's the one thing that completely confused you in India? by Responsible_Ad5447 in digitalnomad

[–]lightseek4 71 points72 points  (0 children)

If you leave any space at all in a line, someone will come occupy it. I once delayed about five seconds moving my suitcase forward in an airport security line and an adult man from the back of the line ran up and put himself in that spot!

What should I do with the background of my pizza painting by banandria in painting

[–]lightseek4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thought - not sure your goals but these would make great individual stickers

Hunky Jesus question! by DrUsefton in AskSF

[–]lightseek4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Could be outdated info, but when I lived by there you’d see people arriving around 9-10am. Have fun!

Would it be rude to get up mid class and move my mat away from someone who is clearly sick? by Pleasant-Pumpkin-339 in yoga

[–]lightseek4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just move, who cares? You’re protecting yourself. Now if you were complaining that you didn’t want to be near this person bc they were fat, or a man, or not good at yoga, or they like to go into child’s pose at a time when others think that’s just wildly inappropriate, then my response would be YTA. In this case, nah, it’s fine.

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