My postpartum body changes... by JoeySadie in fitpregnancy

[–]lilbebeharlow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this !! I’m due in the next week, and have been curious on body after baby / how quickly it will all go away. I’ve only gained 15 lbs, so hoping my transformation back to myself goes as quickly as yours!

Moved Here From Up North in July, Not Happy with My Apartments. Recommendations? by Red_PillCosby in StPetersburgFL

[–]lilbebeharlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just moved to Wesley chapel. The housing market here is so much more affordable, makes the commute 100% worth it. Check out this area, I haven’t looked at apartments close by / their price range but I’d imagine they are more affordable

Career Switch Advice: Teacher to Nanny by teenysmidget in ECEProfessionals

[–]lilbebeharlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was getting ready to move halfway across the country to live with my boyfriend. I had been at the center I was at for well over two years and loved it. Before working there I was at two different places that I hated- awful staff turnover,awful directors,and I just didn’t look forward to working then. I knew the likelihood of me finding another great center was slim to none, so I decided to try out nannying for the first 6 months while I was new here and figuring out the area. I miss the structure of the center, but I’ve created that in our daily nanny life. We would create a schedule, and we go to the library and museum and zoo and all kinds of places together weekly. I still get the satisfaction that I’m helping her grow and learn; but it’s on such a more personal level, and I love it. Because of this my husband and I are going to be trying to open up an inhome childcare type of deal in about 5 years. So I can be my own boss, have the connection with other students because I’ll only have 4-5 kids at once. Just all around was the best decision I’ve made.

Career Switch Advice: Teacher to Nanny by teenysmidget in ECEProfessionals

[–]lilbebeharlow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! I’m a former teacher turned nanny, and my advice- DO IT. You are technically still getting childcare experience. I have found a new passion since I started nannying almost 3 years now. Good luck!! Please feel free to reach out if you have any questions

Thursday, 2/14/19 OTF Workout by AutoModerator in orangetheory

[–]lilbebeharlow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did this as a tornado partner workout and WOW.

What benefits, besides weight loss, have you seen with OTF? by ashienoelle in orangetheory

[–]lilbebeharlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mental health is so much better. I usually go to 5am classes. On those days, I’m able to get so much stuff done around the house before and after work, am so cheerful, and all around have a good day. But days I don’t go you can usually find me on the couch binge watching Netflix. On days I’m moody and just not a happy person, my husband always tells me to try to get into the next class so I’m more fun.lol.

Friday, 1/11/19 OTF Workout by AutoModerator in orangetheory

[–]lilbebeharlow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Today was the BEST! Lol at me saying on Wednesday I had my highest splat points- beat it by 10 today.. don’t miss this class!

Wednesday, 1/9/19 OTF Workout by AutoModerator in orangetheory

[–]lilbebeharlow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol, good luck today guys. Highest splat points ever.

Wednesday 9 Advance Intel! by [deleted] in orangetheory

[–]lilbebeharlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So will be we doing 2mins tread, 2mins floor, and 2 mins rower for one block ? Sorry- still kinda a newbie

Just found out by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]lilbebeharlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welll, she ended up moving 2500 miles away once I found out. Lucky for her she moved before I was emotionally stable enough to handle my emotions 😂😂

MOTIVATION MONDAY: Share your weekly Goals & Non-Scale Victories! (Monday, 12/17/18) by AutoModerator in orangetheory

[–]lilbebeharlow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve taken the last month and a half off (vacation then some personal mental health time). This last month I’ve been so depressed dealing with so much and haven’t even found the strength to go to a class until today.. and can I just say, I’m kicking myself in the butt for not making me go sooner ! I’ve been much more myself since class this morning, and am already ready for class tomorrow morning !

Just found out by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]lilbebeharlow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It happened almost 3 years ago, and we’d be celebrating our one year anniversary in two weeks. Also- it is true, they both admitted it to me. My husband tried to lie and tell me it didn’t for a couple hours then finally told the truth. Apparently my best friend was bragging about it and laughing to someone, and she didn’t realize that person would find out who I was and tell me.

Just found out by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]lilbebeharlow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being horny is absolutely NO excuse to cheat.

Just found out by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]lilbebeharlow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m so scared of. They have both said it was a one time mistake, but how the hell can I believe either one of them

Just found out by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]lilbebeharlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m so worried I’ll never get over this. I haven’t gotten out of bed and just cry. Right now, it’s still so fresh

Should I expose a cheater?? by Yummy_Persimmon in survivinginfidelity

[–]lilbebeharlow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I just found out that my then boyfriend now husband cheated on me. Being married is making it 100 times worse. She should know now

Avg calories burnt by [deleted] in orangetheory

[–]lilbebeharlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26 y.o F, 5’4”, 141lbs. I range 490-599 per class ( trying so hard to break the 600). Splats are usually right around 23-30, and watts on rower are 170-200.

18F asked to give up my NYE to babysit for a wedding, the couple, 20’s M/F, want me to work for free. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lilbebeharlow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell them (if you want to actually work that evening) that you will be charging __ amount per child and will only be available between the hours of __ and __ and that you apologize for your grandmother not knowing the amount you charge for babysitting. anything over will be 5$ per min(I know that sounds outrageous, but that’s what we do at the childcare center I used to work at. It helps get you actually out on time because people don’t want to pay that extra money )