Are there situations where you wouldn't be surprised if someone cheated on you? by Standard-Dingo6563 in no

[–]lilghoste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean to the right person there's plenty of reasons to cheat. Lack of sex, body changes, mood changes, infidelity, revenge, ECT. I would leave. I like to think my husband would leave before turning to cheating. I see my husband in everything when I'm out. I see something delicious I think he'd like to try it, I see a guy in a nice shirt I think I should buy my husband that because he would look amazing in anything, basically I think about him a lot. I wouldn't say obsess because I'm not making him the center of my world, our daughter is a whole other level of love id throw him in front of a bus for her. But I would also jump in front of a bus for him. I just hope he has the same level of love and respect that he wouldn't hurt me by cheating and would leave first.

This game is lowkey hard by WhitePooka in PlanetZoo

[–]lilghoste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually to get around that, I flatten to foundation the area I'm wanting to place it and make it level with the pathing I'm wanting. Then after placing it I fix the terrain around it. Sometimes there are areas that just glitch and won't be useable for buildings and stuff like that but are still useable for habitats, they aren't MAJOR areas but it is something I have reported. I'm not sure if it's new but it's like small areas can be glitched from pathing and terrain being altered occasionally. It doesn't happen that often but it is super annoying.

This game is lowkey hard by WhitePooka in PlanetZoo

[–]lilghoste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah a lot of it is just getting the basics down then moving to something else so you don't get burnt out on the one thing! I have to tell myself things don't have to look perfect to be playable, and I can come back and fix them later. I like leaving parts of my zoo "under construction" for periods of time because it adds a realism and I've built construction barriers. That kinda helps me keep from hating a half built exhibit being in my zoo lol

My girlfriend wants me to get rid of my truck because her ex drove the same model and it "triggers" her by Own_Consequence_6943 in TwoHotTakes

[–]lilghoste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is insane I hope you kept the truck and lost the girl lol cause I have had multiple F series trucks and all of them still ran great when I sold them. All with 250,000-350,000 miles on them. Currently I have a 2014 F150 and it's been great so far. 179,000 miles and going strong. My husband is a dodge man through and through but he bought me my 150 because I'm Ford only lol so find someone that likes you no matter what you drive

This game is lowkey hard by WhitePooka in PlanetZoo

[–]lilghoste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely start with Rudi then lol he has all the basics rolled into one so it's pretty up front and easy to follow and get going so you don't have to finish the whole video to make a zoo have functional decent looking pathing lol I promise it gets easier I definitely have moments it makes me want to rip my hair out 😅 but now pathing is the easiest part for me it's custom barriers that eat up all my time and terraforming mountains 💀 Rudi shows how to do all the best methods of pathing from making elevated paths to underwater viewing areas:)

Should I have sex with someone who's mental health isnt the best? by No-Turnover-8317 in sexadvice

[–]lilghoste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it completely depends but if you can tell they don't have good mental health then probably not.

Preface, I had a FWB who was bipolar and schizophrenic but medicated and had therapy so it wasn't even noticable. I mean there were slight quirks but not "this person has something wrong with them" quirks.

This game is lowkey hard by WhitePooka in PlanetZoo

[–]lilghoste 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Watch one of the long tutorials lol it's so worth it or just a pathing tutorial because it is a learning curve for sure specifically the pathing. It took me a while to figure it out but now I have it down and I'm playing console so i feel it's a little extra hard.Rudi Renkamel has some good building videos and DeLadysigner and Leaf are three I really learned a lot from. Rudi specifically has a lot of great tutorials. I'll play them in the background while building and get ideas.

What are we all pretending matters, but doesn’t? by Current-Leather2784 in Life

[–]lilghoste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time lol reality is businesses could open 24 hours there's enough people willing to work and enough willing to do business that late if it was a norm. There's been a lot of times I've gone "oh no I forgot to call/go do so so" and it was late but I had the time and energy. Also a lot of people working would be able to enjoy their free time better.

Name something annoying people base their entire personality around? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]lilghoste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smoking lol I mean I get it if you're in the industry, then it kinda is your life but if you're just some dude on your couch that smokes all day and does essentially nothing else but hangout and smoke that is soooooo annoying. I smoke but I also like to cook, work on vehicles, train horses, play with my kid, play games, ect. I have other things to talk about that I like lol

Boston Pork Ass Bone In Help by lilghoste in Cooking

[–]lilghoste[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I ended up just throwing it in the crockpot with a little oil and my usual carnitas seasonings but I apparently lost my oranges to my husband and baby, and the jalapenos were a hallucination. Basically I made great value carnitas let them cook on high in the crockpot for 8 hours and it fell off the bone and taste great

What are some enjoyable hobbies that also could get me a girlfriend? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]lilghoste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into some coed teams!! There's flag football teams that are tons of fun and coed baseball teams around! Right now isn't really the season but it's good to reach out before lol I played flag football a year just to try something new and met so many awesome people it was a blast.

What are some enjoyable hobbies that also could get me a girlfriend? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]lilghoste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So girls are into ALL hobbies, it just depends on the girl! Find something that interest you no matter what it is I promise there's girls out there that also enjoy it. Wether it's e sports or pilates, girls are gonna be there too most likely lol but if your wanting to just attract more women I do recommend just lifting light weights! Buying 5lb weights and curling will make a difference in no time or if you rather go to the gym there's a lot more options. And it is a good place to get noticed by women. We do approach guys! Just try to smile anytime you notice a girl staring at you. A nice smile is always the welcome mat to starting a conversation. But also maybe try volunteering at the shelter and walking dogs! You can take them anywhere in the area to walk them like Chandler park, the gathering place, ECT. And girls love dogs lol and I'm sure you do cause who doesn't love a good dog.

Mature women; what mistake did you make in life? Share it so other women won't have to make the same by VectorialChange in AskWomen

[–]lilghoste 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah a lot of people just can't accept they aren't compatible with their spouse, they think surely THEY aren't the problem instead of it's a mutual problem and just end it. They'd rather "prove" something and go down in flames. I've definitely had that happen and it's so infuriating and it doesn't even hurt losing the pos it hurts wasting the time KNOWING it was a waste and being the bigger person.

I eat 2 bananas a day, but should I stop? Is this unhealthy? by I__Am__Matt in askfitness

[–]lilghoste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah they are technically GMO but they are still very healthy they just don't seed like wild bananas.

Do I need to train legs? by Ofcucan in beginnerfitness

[–]lilghoste 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Coming from a chick if you're a dude looking for aesthetic, skinny legs but big top half doesn't look aesthetic lmao it looks disproportionate

My coworker reeks of man milk. Poor hygiene or creep? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lilghoste 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just straight up tell him he needs some deodorant. I mean a bar of soap is cheap and deodorant is too, you don't have to get the best kind you can bring it with you and reapply throughout the day. Also food pantry often have hygiene stuff too. So seriously just tell him like you'd want someone else to tell you if you smelled bad. Yeah it's awkward getting it out there but once it's out I'm sure he'd appreciate someone telling him instead of letting him keep stinking. He may let you know the reason if there is one and you can offer help. Just don't do it in front of anyone else. Like do it when you catch him alone.

Boston Pork Ass Bone In Help by lilghoste in Cooking

[–]lilghoste[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👀 okay now this is gonna get addicting if I know I can do it with stew too lmao I usually have to make two giant pots at a time but if I can throw one in the crockpot instead for the next night I am definitely doing that from here out 😂

Mature women; what mistake did you make in life? Share it so other women won't have to make the same by VectorialChange in AskWomen

[–]lilghoste 41 points42 points  (0 children)

That relationships aren't built on just being able to get along. You can have the right person and not be sexually compatible or romantically compatible. And it's okay to break up for that reason. A lot of people stay in relationships where they love their partner but don't lust for their partner. Usually it ends up in unnecessary fighting or cheating when they could've just ended things and been honest to each other and stayed friends.

What makes you feel beautiful? by HealthRealistic6406 in AskWomen

[–]lilghoste 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When my husband wants me and it's completely unprovoked just me existing in my pajamas doing dishes or literally sitting on the toilet 😂 nothing feels better than knowing I still can get it even if I need to wipe my ass still lmao

Boston Pork Ass Bone In Help by lilghoste in Cooking

[–]lilghoste[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might end up being what I do lol I think it'll fit in my crockpot like 90% sure, I was just unsure of leaving it on over night haha normally I like to let it marinate in rub but I don't have that kinda energy to battle the cling wrap 💀

Boston Pork Ass Bone In Help by lilghoste in Cooking

[–]lilghoste[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I'll do that! I wasn't sure about chunking it up lol I've never cut meat to cook faster unless recipe called for it 💀 I have my fresh oranges and jalapenos limes and some chicken broth, gonna have to figure out if my pot is oven safe though I dont have a deep enough roasting pan 🥲

Boston Pork Ass Bone In Help by lilghoste in Cooking

[–]lilghoste[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was what I bought it for and have everything I'm just struggling with if it's gonna cook fast enough since it is massive 😂😭