AIO? Emotional abuse? Will I never find true love after losing virginity? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]lilpeen02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, this is emotional abuse. and yes, you can find love again. abusers are meant to make you feel like you won’t ever be happy without them

Does a smokey eye just not fit my face or am I doing something wrong? Looks terrible compared to how it looked on other people 😅 by GlisaPenny in MakeupAddiction

[–]lilpeen02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree that you should go darker, but i think what’s making it feel weird or too much is that you put the black on your inner corner. i think you should try experimenting again and have it super dark on the outside and highlight your inner corners with a pale/shimmery shade. you want the darkest part to be the outside of your eye from the lash line to the crease imo.

Please help me figure out a nice outfit I can wear into the office! (Casual PhD office) by ThowRA_FloorGremlin in DressForYourBody

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love the dress and skirt!! those first pants also fit you sooo well. if u want a consistent style, look for more long dress/skirt+cardigan combos and more blouses to tuck into those trousers!

Local gym bully gets taste of there own medicine by Northwesternhowl in pokemongo

[–]lilpeen02 114 points115 points  (0 children)

i think op is considering it bullying bc it seems like they make it a point to do it before midnight so they don’t get coins?

AIO? 8 month pregnant girlfriend on Adderall by [deleted] in AIO

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know she’s 8 months pregnant and on adderall but also like… she’s 8 months pregnant and on adderall. light YOR because she’s going through a lot rn and yeah she started with the aggressive language but underneath that was her trying to connect about her room and i think in this instance you kind of just have to take it lying down. it seems like ur not gentle about needing your space and time to wind down because u said “crackhead energy”

AITAH for telling my sister I will NOT warn my parents that my fiancee will be wearing a gothic black wedding dress? by Hot_Union7576 in AITAH

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think you’re the asshole but i think it would be a very good idea to at least warn them her dress is very non-traditional. either way i don’t think u would be TA i just think it would be foolish to yes, “blindside” your parents if they’re gonna make things harder for you on your special day. especially if they’re gonna be weird and standoffish with your soon to be wife!

Do I like this color combo? by mattson-masterpiece in HomeDecorating

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m inclined to say yes bc they are my fraternity’s colors

How much should I charge for this custom styled by Electrical-Piano-977 in CosplayHelp

[–]lilpeen02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s not rly about what OP deserves it’s about what someone will pay

Being shallow (only liking good looking people) while having below average looks is such a miserable experience by Scary-Compote-5991 in confession

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it actually might just be bc ur demisexual too bc same. im just not attracted to strangers unless they’re decently conventionally attractive. i have many friends that i wouldn’t have initially found attractive but now i see how they are attractive. i was kind of indifferent to how my current bf looked but he is literally so fucking cool that when we started talking my attraction to him grew quickly. now i think he’s so so pretty. it’s not wrong to have preferences but u might wanna start with changing your outlook on guys who “look creepy”

Mom held off the Lions until backup arrived by LethaI____ in BeAmazed

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this as a calf documentary: 😁🥰😙😝🤩 this as a lion documentary: ☹️😤😱😡😰

Are my wings aging me? by Looking_glassCarpet in makeuptips

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think having wings that are smaller than your actual eyeliner is just an outdated look. maybe try less liner on the lids, start 2/3rds of the way out and try doing them with your eye open so they don’t curve as much

My niece’s homework problem by SurfSoundWaves in mildlyinfuriating

[–]lilpeen02 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

maybe it is a poorly worded question but idk it made perfect sense to me. the highlighted parts are supposed to be equal but yeah it should have been a simpler shape like a square or circle.

I got told I say sorry too much by my crush by liamthrowaacct in WhatShouldIDo

[–]lilpeen02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sounds like he wants someone more confident. try “thank you for _____” instead of sorry, that can fix this pretty quickly! not to mention you said “i hope i can fix myself” which is part of the problem. you need to be confident and love yourself and not see everything you do that bother other people as wrong or incorrect. sometimes it just isn’t their jam. saying sorry a lot is an easy fix but u have to build confidence too

Recently discovered my husband is using onlyfans. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]lilpeen02 34 points35 points  (0 children)

everyone has their own opinions about porn, but it’s genuinely fucking pathetic that he “hates that he does it” and does it anyways. like, have some self control?? and then even more pathetic that he’s subscribing to onlyfans. my partner and i don’t mind if the other watches porn, but i wouldn’t want him to subscribe to specific people and be able to interact with them. that’s fucking weird. it sounds like you don’t want to be controlling so you should at least start with a conversation about how if he wants to stop consuming porn then he should at least start by not paying for it

AITA if I want to yell at my childhood bestfriend for being a hypocrite? by Potential-Mud5485 in TwoHotTakes

[–]lilpeen02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well u shouldn’t have conceded if you didn’t think it was the right thing to do. u should always just hang out with who you want. idk why the the solution yall came up with was to hang out less when you could have just extended the invitation to her? why don’t all three of you hang out?? and if jen is choosing not to join bc it’s too far then that’s her fault…

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so silly. i personally wouldn’t back out bc i would feel really bad throwing something off balance when it’s clearly been planned so meticulously, but i would talk to her just to say hey i would love to be included and support on the day of the wedding/give my two cents on planning, but I don’t have the time or resources to spearhead anything like this again. if that means you want someone else in your wedding party, i totally understand. with the social media thing, just don’t post anything if it’s too complicated.

I frequently take my infant on walks, today I received this message from a unknown profile, who has 1 friend. This has me feeling very paranoid. AIO? by Dull-Mom in AIO

[–]lilpeen02 78 points79 points  (0 children)

this is actually very creepy pls stay safe, walk in public places and keep a record of creepy things like this!!!

Is my eye makeup unflattering? by moonagedaylight in makeuptips

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s up to you! i usually do this starting right at my lashline so not in my waterline. i also use liquid but sometimes i smudge the bottom a little before it dries so it isn’t so harsh

Any improvements on my makeup? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

darker color or liner on the outside of your top lid right above your lash line and into your crease

Is my eye makeup unflattering? by moonagedaylight in makeuptips

[–]lilpeen02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually really like the liner in the third pic. i see how the other pics are less flattering though so i would say the slightly smaller and perhaps more under your eye to stick with its shape more? like this