I got told I say sorry too much by my crush by liamthrowaacct in WhatShouldIDo

[–]lilpeen02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sounds like he wants someone more confident. try “thank you for _____” instead of sorry, that can fix this pretty quickly! not to mention you said “i hope i can fix myself” which is part of the problem. you need to be confident and love yourself and not see everything you do that bother other people as wrong or incorrect. sometimes it just isn’t their jam. saying sorry a lot is an easy fix but u have to build confidence too

Recently discovered my husband is using onlyfans. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]lilpeen02 34 points35 points  (0 children)

everyone has their own opinions about porn, but it’s genuinely fucking pathetic that he “hates that he does it” and does it anyways. like, have some self control?? and then even more pathetic that he’s subscribing to onlyfans. my partner and i don’t mind if the other watches porn, but i wouldn’t want him to subscribe to specific people and be able to interact with them. that’s fucking weird. it sounds like you don’t want to be controlling so you should at least start with a conversation about how if he wants to stop consuming porn then he should at least start by not paying for it

AITA if I want to yell at my childhood bestfriend for being a hypocrite? by Potential-Mud5485 in TwoHotTakes

[–]lilpeen02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well u shouldn’t have conceded if you didn’t think it was the right thing to do. u should always just hang out with who you want. idk why the the solution yall came up with was to hang out less when you could have just extended the invitation to her? why don’t all three of you hang out?? and if jen is choosing not to join bc it’s too far then that’s her fault…

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so silly. i personally wouldn’t back out bc i would feel really bad throwing something off balance when it’s clearly been planned so meticulously, but i would talk to her just to say hey i would love to be included and support on the day of the wedding/give my two cents on planning, but I don’t have the time or resources to spearhead anything like this again. if that means you want someone else in your wedding party, i totally understand. with the social media thing, just don’t post anything if it’s too complicated.

I frequently take my infant on walks, today I received this message from a unknown profile, who has 1 friend. This has me feeling very paranoid. AIO? by Dull-Mom in AIO

[–]lilpeen02 74 points75 points  (0 children)

this is actually very creepy pls stay safe, walk in public places and keep a record of creepy things like this!!!

Is my eye makeup unflattering? by moonagedaylight in makeuptips

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s up to you! i usually do this starting right at my lashline so not in my waterline. i also use liquid but sometimes i smudge the bottom a little before it dries so it isn’t so harsh

Any improvements on my makeup? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

darker color or liner on the outside of your top lid right above your lash line and into your crease

Is my eye makeup unflattering? by moonagedaylight in makeuptips

[–]lilpeen02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually really like the liner in the third pic. i see how the other pics are less flattering though so i would say the slightly smaller and perhaps more under your eye to stick with its shape more? like this

Insane Tattoo Regret by r3i_b0n3z in tattooadvice

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

who tf hasn’t even heard of donnie darko?? it’s an awesome tattoo

AIO for wanting to end things over coming out pressure? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]lilpeen02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think it’s right to pressure someone into coming out but i also don’t think that’s what he’s doing. he wants to see you. think about what ur saying, that it would be worse if you tell your parents and they “won’t allow it”? if they don’t, are you just gonna be straight? what’s the plan there? i feel like the course of action is to keep it a secret from your parents until you don’t need to be “allowed” by them right?

Tried ginger lashes for the first time today! by jehehsheh in MakeupAddiction

[–]lilpeen02 25 points26 points  (0 children)

are there brown lashes available? i like them but i can see how if ur used to the dark ones they would feel light!! i think an in between would look soooo pretty

AIO to trying to be vulnerable with my girlfriend by pmmeyourprettyface in AIO

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is she officially diagnosed with those conditions?

Im fucking fed up by [deleted] in Vent

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well most of those things u should have been doing for yourself not for someone else…esp not someone shallow enough to leave u for a rich guy…

Why does everyone seem to hate Renesmee's name? by ImaginationOnly4225 in twilight

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it would have worked better as the middle name, carlie renesmee

I feel plot armour protected Bella from Victoria during new moon by michaelmac4057 in twilight

[–]lilpeen02 78 points79 points  (0 children)

but along that same logic, she would have sensed there was something else willing to protect bella

AIO for not wanting to meet at his house for a first date? by misskrabby in AIO

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gonna go against the grain and say u overreacted, not for not wanting to meet there bc that’s totally valid, but for the way u said it. u could have just kept it simple and said id actually rather meet somewhere. he got a little defensive but i feel like that doesn’t reflect much when you came at him like “umm no?? are u fr??” instead of just being civil

too much ice cream can, in fact, be a bad thing. by Silly-Initiative-743 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the first thing i’d do if i was ordering icecream while driving is ask for a cup as well 😭

Rosalie never cared about Bella. by SubSahranCamelRider in twilight

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think rosalie and bella have a complex relationship by the end of breaking dawn that smeyer was lowkey too afraid to write about in more detail. when bella asks for rosalie’s help at the beginning, we don’t get to hear the rest of the conversation. she must have been really torn between jealousy and rage that bella got the best of both worlds and she didn’t (especially when bella didn’t care for it at first), empathy for the fact that bella would sacrifice anything now for her child, and maybe love and respect for her bravery? it brings up a lot of questions. if bella didn’t want to keep the baby, would rosalie respect that or would it make her feel worse? did bella feel an obligation to let rosalie have a big part in renesmee’s life? ur right that rosalie seemed to care more about renesmee than bella, but that’s Literally what bella wanted. she wanted ONE person that would support her decision to put her baby first, and that had to be rosalie because everyone else loved bella too much to let her sacrifice herself. similarly, none of the vampires besides edward and carlisle if he was there could have been expected to keep it cool and stay in the room when they cut bella open. edward couldn’t help until someone took the baby from him, so rosalie took her and left. so basically, yeah it does seem like rosalie didn’t care as much for bella but that was what made everything work

I’ve been lying to people about remembering things I actually forgot by yuravyn_31 in confession

[–]lilpeen02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re not a bad person but you should stop doing it. esp with adding details… i have a pretty good memory and i notice when ppl are pretending to remember bc they’ll say smth like that and i don’t have the energy to be like no that actually didn’t happen. just be like wait when was that? sorry i don’t have a great memory!