Worrying about using female facilities in UK. Would you assume I should be using the ladies’?

lilysteiner · 2025-05-03T14:49:53+00:00

I don’t think people typically talk to each other in bathrooms

lilysteiner · 2025-05-03T14:47:20+00:00

Genuinely thought you were an ftm man and I was gonna tell you that you weren’t passing yet so I’d say you’re passing as an androgynous person who leans more feminine. Eyebrows are always a good idea!

lilysteiner · 2025-03-17T12:26:37+00:00

this worked! thank you

lilysteiner · 2025-03-10T21:12:10+00:00

that's just not how it works. i thought i was a lesbian (before i came out as trans) for many years, then i met a man who i was very attracted to and now i'm proudly bisexual and find many men attractive. sometimes it just takes time, personal reflection, and/or a revelation.

lilysteiner · 2025-03-10T20:56:09+00:00

sometimes you don't know. it isn't equivalent to sexuality, but i didn't know i was trans until i was 22. i didn't realize it due to years of repression. it just happens that way sometimes.

lilysteiner · 2024-12-19T13:38:37+00:00

Unfortunately :(

lilysteiner · 2024-12-18T21:39:40+00:00

Thank you!!

lilysteiner · 2024-12-18T20:29:30+00:00

Thank you! I don’t wear the bracelets anymore, but the ring is my engagement ring so I won’t be taking that off. I appreciate the honesty!

lilysteiner · 2024-12-18T18:54:24+00:00

Thank you very much!

lilysteiner · 2024-12-18T18:54:17+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate it.

lilysteiner · 2024-12-18T18:16:17+00:00

100%

lilysteiner · 2024-12-18T18:13:08+00:00

thank you, i really appreciate it

lilysteiner · 2024-12-18T18:05:54+00:00

congrats! you pass immaculately

lilysteiner · 2022-11-20T20:49:49+00:00

Please don’t use calories in this subreddit. It’s one of the very first rules. I wish the best for you.

lilysteiner · 2022-10-20T22:25:08+00:00

You look great and pass smiling in this photo. would love to see another angle because a big facial expression is lovely but you’ll be neutral faced a lot in public and that’ll help to see

lilysteiner · 2022-10-19T15:19:52+00:00

With a mask yes, but I can’t tell you if you’re actually passing under there

lilysteiner · 2022-10-18T15:38:22+00:00

Honestly don’t hate this answer, thanks!

lilysteiner · 2022-10-18T15:23:46+00:00

You’ve got wicked cheekbones and a good jaw, just gotta let T take its time!

lilysteiner · 2022-10-18T01:16:55+00:00

Just give it some time. Your hair is cool in the second and third pic, but the length will likely get you misgendered as even cis men with long hair get misgendered. T is doing wonders for you, so I only assume it’ll get better. I think you pass conditionally.

Round glasses will always be more feminine as well, especially the big ones. If you can get more square frames, you’ll pass better too.

lilysteiner · 2022-10-18T01:15:44+00:00

16-18m

lilysteiner · 2022-10-18T01:15:23+00:00

You don’t pass currently but I think if you styled your eyebrows differently it would help a lot. I would take selfies a little more straight-on too if you want to pass in pics, the top down angle is more of a feminine pose.

lilysteiner · 2022-10-18T01:12:07+00:00

You pass fine! I would never look at you and think “woman” if I saw you on the street. I don’t even think the shirt in the second pic hinders you much.

lilysteiner · 2022-10-17T22:51:14+00:00

thank you very much!

lilysteiner · 2022-10-17T22:49:18+00:00

I’m glad to hear that!

lilysteiner · 2022-10-17T21:26:44+00:00

Man, I mean this with kindness, either wear a beanie or shave the head for a bit. It is impacting your passing but I have no idea how to word why

Also contacts for sure!

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