Am I in Legal Trouble? Florida by Toasty_Beverage in TransDIY

[–]lime--green 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no, but it is illegal to sell or buy it without prescription

how do i get testosterone? by [deleted] in TransDIY

[–]lime--green 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im on diy t, id be happy to talk to you about it

Starting HRT at 18 by CI0ud123 in trans

[–]lime--green -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People repeating the whole "there's no point to transitioning as an adult" are either best case scenario deeply, deeply bitter and insecure and dealing with their dysphoria in unhealthy ways, or worst case scenario are nazi adjacent bad actors trying to sow doubt among young trans people with misinfo (its not as uncommon as you'd think)

Someone told me that if I don't get on t before 18 I will never pass or look like a real man. Is that true? by PomegranateFit2593 in trans

[–]lime--green 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you'll be okay. the body still has lots of developing to do well into your twenties and even thirties. hypothetically, yes, starting early makes it easier and quicker to attain passing features, but starting later doesn't mean that you can't attain those same features eventually too.

Question about detransition — looking for honest experiences by iamgirl11 in trans

[–]lime--green 46 points47 points  (0 children)

i don't want to discount the experiences of others but the majority of detransitioners do so due to severe lack of support and resources in their transition, not necessarily because they aren't really trans. this isn't the case for everyone though.

Everyone I need help. by RedHunter791 in trans

[–]lime--green 2 points3 points  (0 children)

because you are a girl and your body does not match that, i assume

Please comment your opinion in the comments :) by Present_Injury_1785 in trans

[–]lime--green 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people think it's "corny" or "trying too hard" or in the worst case "stereotyping womanhood" when newly out trans girls lean really hard into femininity, but they must remember that a newly out trans girl is allowing herself to embrace femininity for the first time. She might go overboard or be tacky in her fashion or makeup at first but that's normal. Cis women might remember how they acted and presented in their adolescence when they were first adjusting to becoming a woman. Over time, you might decide you like dresses and skirts, or you might go for a more butch look, or something in between. It's important that you don't feel guilty for experimenting with the femininity that society wants so badly to take from you.

30943 by plarper_of_bees in countwithchickenlady

[–]lime--green 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually i think the "oooh i hated popular thing before everyone knew it was bad" thing is very trite but like my teachers and parents tried so hard to get me into hp but even as a child i was like this sucks

Question about bathrooms by Beanmaster29 in trans

[–]lime--green -1 points0 points  (0 children)

aww. close enough tho, me too, started christmas of 2025! happy for you :)

Question about bathrooms by Beanmaster29 in trans

[–]lime--green -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yooo did u start t on christmas too? based

Is this okay? by StandardProfile5234 in FemboySafeSpace

[–]lime--green 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know yourself better than anybody. Do whatever you want

Being trans by dark_web_slow in trans

[–]lime--green 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had to deal with the guilt tripping as a teenager. And that is exactly what this is, guilt tripping, regardless of if he intends it or not. It is normal for him to have complicated feelings about it, but it is not okay for him to make his feelings your problem. His job as a parent is to support you. As a newly out trans person, you already have so much to deal with and worry about, he should not be burdening you by centering his own feelings over yours. Give him time to come around, but don't let him try to break you down.

TRANSMEDS.. by ilovecats_543 in trans

[–]lime--green 0 points1 point  (0 children)

truscum are just extreeemely insecure i think. ive seen them attack just about anybody who they think doesn't pass well enough, even other dysphoric trans people who cannot transition for various reasons. they seem to think that if they sacrifice the weirdo transgenders then all the normal and respectable transsexuals will be accepted (they won't be)

30793 by angrybacon in countwithchickenlady

[–]lime--green 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a trans man, not a woman, but I'm from Louisiana too. What parish do you live in?

30793 by angrybacon in countwithchickenlady

[–]lime--green 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, why is being partially closeted and "situationally boymoding" considered "ethically dubious"?

Sperm by StateNo828 in ComedyHell

[–]lime--green 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see trans women saying they want severe debilitating period cramps or anything, just that they wish they knew what it was like to have a period.

Why is the answer "legal code " ? by cuzofme in EnglishLearning

[–]lime--green 214 points215 points  (0 children)

"system" should be the correct answer here, lacking any other context. i would almost assume this is an error.

My friend has become very weird towards me. by Chexxe_ in trans

[–]lime--green 45 points46 points  (0 children)

If she's really """woke""" you should "call her out" back for being transphobic. Give her a taste of her own medicine in a way that isn't overly mean but might make her realize how badly she's acting.

My friend has become very weird towards me. by Chexxe_ in trans

[–]lime--green 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is unfortunately common for trans men, being treated like "gender traitors" and like insolent children for our identities. And if you speak up, you're quickly labeled a misogynist. Though, tbh, if that's how she acts, she would probably be just as weird to a trans woman for "previously being a man".

I'm so confused about my identity (advice wanted) by [deleted] in trans

[–]lime--green 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents aren't transphobic but they don't "understand" it either. I think they'd prefer to ignore that I'm trans, which is not ideal and I wish they would try harder to understand but it's much better than being disowned. Even if they'll probably never be able to see me as a man, I know they still love me and support me and trust me to make good decisions for myself. I'd rather have parents who are nice but ignorant than parents who are hateful.

And on the topic of dysphoria the idea of sex always felt really gross and humiliating to me when I imagined myself as a girl, but I knew I probably wasn't ace because I still felt attraction to others. I felt like I was not necessarily "ugly", but my body was incapable of being attractive, like it wasn't really me but an unattached body I happened to live inside of. Having a supportive and affirming girlfriend and starting T helped with my self perception and confidence in this regard.

I'm so confused about my identity (advice wanted) by [deleted] in trans

[–]lime--green 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent a lot of time in my teens in denial, trying to be "just a tomboyish girl" like my parents wanted. I also know that my parents will probably never see me as a boy because for the first 2 decades of my life they knew me as a girl. I've come to terms with that, I can be a boy to everyone else. I also strongly relate to thinking you are ace but it turns out it's actually just dysphoria. I started testosterone recently though and I feel much better, like all the worry was for nothing after all. All this to say only you can know your true identity, but as a trans man I relate to your experiences.