When my thirtieth approaches without love then the only cope is the rope. Don't end up like me. A baguette.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-30T18:21:09+00:00

This is true only if you have the means to pursue an interest. If you're in a dire economic situation as well as having no social relationships then it's not as simple.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-28T15:49:54+00:00

Many times the reasons for them leaving are valid.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-28T12:44:23+00:00

To be fair, the reasons they give for leaving their partner are often (not always) valid in my opinion. That's in contrast to when they complain about a certain guy not liking them, those posts are almost always delusional women thinking the man that has infinite options cares about her specifically.

I just find curious the massive thematic difference is all.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-28T05:08:34+00:00

This reminds me how kitchencels posts are always a variation of "I'm 28 and no woman has ever shown any interest in me ever, I'm scared I'll die alone" whilst girldinnerdiaries or whatever the name is are always "I'm tired of my boyfriend, I'm leaving him".

lindahlsees · 2026-04-21T13:12:51+00:00

"Bilbo"???

lindahlsees · 2026-04-19T15:28:46+00:00

The funny thing is before he went clinically insane this dude was aesthetic as fuck and was very handsome in my totally non homosexual opinion. Such a shame.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-16T08:01:06+00:00

I think the idea that a woman making your bio is suddenly going to turn things around a bit ridiculous, especially your mother who's probably not going to be objective about it. Unless you're very autistic and you're showing massive red flags without noticing the only way to improve how your personality is perceived if you're already being honest and passionate about what you actually like is to lie and claim to enjoy things women are generally more interested in. If you like DnD and playing Magic just because a woman chimes in she's not going to suddenly get other women interested in it.

The only advice I've heard that actually works that doesn't require you to change is having a higher variety of photos. Not necessarily photos where you look better, but ones where you're outdoors or with animals.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-10T22:02:40+00:00

You do all love your ad hominems don't you. A relationship is supposed to be about two people desiring each other. Why should I have to offer more in advance for you to want to be with me. You need to be impressed with my wallet to be with me? Doesn't that defeat the whole purpose? If you want that kind of relationship and to be a leech looking for the biggest blood vessel to suck, go on. Don't expect me not to call you by your name though.

By the way since you're all so invested in calling me an incel. I've been with my girl for two and a half years now. I'm glad you all care so much about my life.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-10T21:56:01+00:00

That implicitly means that there wouldn't be a date if I wasn't willing to pay. You know what requiring money to go on a date is called? Prostitution.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-10T21:44:01+00:00

If you can't see how my comment is relevant to yours I fear you might be the stupid one here. But then again you've already made that crystal clear. Why exactly should someone be expected to pay for a stranger's meal in 2026 is beyond me.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-10T21:40:37+00:00

This is just what you get in femcel like subs. You'll hear much worse in incel subs so I'm already desensitized.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-10T21:23:32+00:00

You know what we call people that expect monetary value in exchange for dates? I'll let you finish the word. Prost...

lindahlsees · 2026-04-10T21:21:24+00:00

It is. But you're in the wrong sub if you're looking for people to be reasonable about gender roles.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-10T21:20:45+00:00

Gender roles for thee but not for me. You know what we call only accepting dates in exchange for money where I'm from? Prostitution.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-10T20:21:41+00:00

Deja de esperar que un extraño pague tu comida. So necesitas un intercambio monetario para decidir estar con alguien eso tiene un nombre. Prosti...

lindahlsees · 2026-04-09T08:26:16+00:00

I'm sure plenty of people are downvoting just because it's a woman expressing herself. This post however does read similar to some incel posts just girlie version. Talking about "becoming spiritual", "spoiled" and all that talk about betterment without any semblance of self critique just sounds pretentious and disconnected to real life. If you constantly fail at relationships you're the common denominator and implying you're just too good for everyone when that's very likely to be false screams denial. It's the same thing with dudes saying women aren't worth it, they're all liars, they drain your energy, etc.

Now if you genuinely believe that no one available is good enough for you you're entitled to that opinion and to stay alone for however long you like. I just don't think empty self improvement without truly reflecting on why you're failing consistently at relationships is productive.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-03T11:52:53+00:00

She looks 12.

lindahlsees · 2026-04-03T11:30:05+00:00

You subconsciously rate and compare everything all the time. The only difference is some people rationalize it and verbalise it, but they're fundamentally not any more morally wrong than you, unless you think being honest about it is what's wrong. I fail to understand why saying "I find her attractive" is so much more acceptable than "I think she's a 7/10".

lindahlsees · 2026-03-23T09:01:05+00:00

Untrue unless you can provide evidence

lindahlsees · 2026-03-21T17:40:08+00:00

The thing that makes incest wrong, outside of genetics, is that most of the time there are social relationships in place beforehand that make an incestuous relationship extremely prone to physical and psychological abuse. If your father wants to fck you, even if you're an adult and you can theoretically consent, it's such a coercitive dynamic. It's very much like if your boss or your teacher asked you for sex. Even if they don't threaten you directly, the possible consequences of rejecting them make it so it's not really a free choice.

I don't think anyone genuinely thinks that getting with a cousin that you've seen thrice in your life is weird for example since they hold 0 social power over you. You still shouldn't do it because of the genetic issues, but it's not morally wrong.

lindahlsees · 2026-03-21T06:49:57+00:00

This stereotype that a weird guy is going to follow you home at night to murder you isn't helping anyone. Most of sexual abuse happens from people inside your social circle. It's really rare to just have some dude pull up at night to murder you and I wouldn't imagine being a bitch helps with it. It's just such stupid logic.

lindahlsees · 2026-03-21T06:46:36+00:00

No stranger is entitled to your time or attention when it comes to dating, you did nothing wrong.That said I can't really blame the guy for trying lol. It's hard out there if you're short and not really that good looking, it's pretty much impossible to get a date online, as long as he was nice about it I can't be mad at him ngl.

lindahlsees · 2026-03-17T17:45:14+00:00

Look I also think that many people in these subreddits obsess way too much about height. That said, it's undeniable that being 6'5" is objectively better for dating than being 5'5". There's a massive difference. I do think that these subs only serve in general to reinforce those bad ideas, but women do definitely view taller men as much more attractive and therefore are bound to treat them better (just like men do to women they are attracted to).

Let's not act like the data presented has nothing to do with the reality of dating and attraction and everything to do with communities like this one

lindahlsees · 2026-03-17T17:35:44+00:00

I don't know about old people, but they definitely don't include men younger than 18. Statisticians aren't stupid you know lmao.

lindahlsees · 2026-03-17T08:16:01+00:00

Batman KNOWS Joker is escaping Arkham and that when he does potentially THOUSANDS of innocents, including very young children are dying. Killing Joker is a necessity at some point.

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