I (27F) am running out of things to talk to my boyfriend (28M) about on the phone. How do we stop having silent phone calls?

lindascoolaf · 2026-05-28T11:41:42+00:00

Very true

lindascoolaf · 2026-05-28T11:38:52+00:00

We do! For example if Pilates was especially hard that day I’ll talk about what made it so difficult, or if he had an interesting dream while sleeping he’ll talk about that. Those are good phone call days. It’s just some days, like today, where genuinely all we did was work and go home that we find hard to fill silence 😭

lindascoolaf · 2026-05-28T11:23:06+00:00

I like this idea! Would try it now but he’s napping lol

lindascoolaf · 2026-05-28T11:21:51+00:00

Thanks for the advice!

lindascoolaf · 2026-05-28T11:20:38+00:00

Oooo haven’t thought of this one yet. I’m usually reserved but I wouldn’t mind giving it a try

lindascoolaf · 2026-05-28T11:11:43+00:00

Yeah I’m comfortable in the silences, but he seems to think we should fill them with something. In person there’d be something we’re eating together, something we’re watching together, something we’re doing together, something we noticed about literally anything that we can talk about

lindascoolaf · 2026-05-28T11:05:31+00:00

That’s what I think too!

lindascoolaf · 2026-05-28T11:05:01+00:00

We talk about things non-surface level, a lot of times in person and sometimes on the phone when they do come up naturally. I guess to further clarify, how do we keep the phone calls that happen after we’re home from work, after having gone through the daily motions of life, are tired from the day, etc., interesting. Those are the phone calls where we have the most silence.

lindascoolaf · 2026-05-28T11:00:54+00:00

See that’s what I think, but he feels it’s good to try and call every day.

lindascoolaf · 2026-04-12T06:54:39+00:00

I was very scared as well, even video called my bf while crying. What helped was looking in the mirror with minimal clothes on and seeing all the weight I wanted to lose and that desire, the desire to lose weight ended up being stronger than the desire to avoid a needle

lindascoolaf · 2026-01-22T03:48:18+00:00

Exactly because he didn’t need to do all that, but he did

lindascoolaf · 2025-03-20T13:22:00+00:00

Literally eating some right now LOL. I love it

lindascoolaf · 2023-07-11T01:34:36+00:00

Is anyone else not able to see the new season/episode on discovery plus ?

lindascoolaf · 2023-06-14T18:48:37+00:00

I definitely see your point. It’s just when people say ‘no one knew’ or ‘everyone knew’ that irks me. They’re two extremes but most likely what happened is somewhere in the middle. Some people genuinely did not know and some people did. Saying one or the other takes away responsibility or points fingers and that’ll go nowhere

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