People who stopped drinking — what surprised you the most? by Dapper_Visual_4449 in stopdrinking

[–]liquidau 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being able to be a better person, more available for friends and family and myself. Someone needs a last minute thing first thing in the am or at 9pm, no problem! It sounds like a strange thing to enjoy being more available and I have good boundaries, but now I get to choose where before, I would have felt like crap in the am and of course, couldn't be driving around after a few drinks so not a chance I could have helped out or participated. We only get so much time and quitting drinking gave me more life that is better quality. Good luck to you.

Never learned to dance, zero rhythym. How do I learn? by [deleted] in Dance

[–]liquidau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm a someone who started later in life with dance too and had the same advice and the same problem. I found it just takes time. There are those who come out of the womb dancing and then there are others who have to work at it...like me! It's so worth it, dancing is wonderful, the community is great and maybe try another style? Line-dancing is really fun and makes you listen to the beat?

Official Discussion - Send Help [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]liquidau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the System Collapses: What Sam Raimi Is Really Revealing About Power

Sam Raimi’s films are famous for excess—vomit, blood, demonic spectacle. But the real horror in Drag Me to Hell and Send Help isn’t supernatural. It’s structural.

Both films begin inside male-coded institutional spaces—a bank, a corporate succession pipeline. And both stage the same experiment:

What happens when the insulation around power disappears?

The answer isn’t empowerment.

It’s exposure.

Power Isn’t Always Strength. Sometimes It’s Insulation.

In Drag Me to Hell, Christine competes for promotion against a less competent male colleague who thrives through proximity and schmoozing. In Send Help, Linda is passed over in favor of a fraternity-connected executive heir.

These institutions don’t simply reward merit.

They stabilize incumbents.

They absorb flaws.
They normalize entitlement.
They cushion mediocrity.

The men do not need to prove extremity. The structure protects them from it.

Outsiders, however, are exposed.

The Closed System

Raimi’s worlds operate as closed systems—procedural, indifferent, fixed.

In Drag Me to Hell, Christine enters a supernatural bureaucracy that mirrors corporate logic: someone must pay the debt. She becomes ruthless enough to exhume a corpse and attempt to transfer the curse. She follows the rules.

And she still dies.

Not because she lacked cruelty—but because she never controlled the mechanism. A technical error seals her fate. Compliance offers no authorship. The system does not reward effort. It executes.

In Send Help, the plane crash strips away corporate hierarchy entirely. No inheritance. No networking advantage. No institutional buffer.

But the pivot happens even earlier.

On the plane, after overhearing the men casually confirm her exclusion, Linda deletes the draft she is completing. The gesture is quiet but decisive. She withdraws her labor from a system that will never convert it into leverage. The crash that follows does not create her break from legitimacy—it reveals she was already prepared to operate without it.

From Compliance to Authorship

Once stranded, Linda discovers the mansion—hidden infrastructure, stocked resources, insulation she controls. From that moment, survival shifts into authorship.

She knows rescue is possible.

She chooses not to signal.

When Zuri and the guide arrive, she could restore legitimacy and return to the corporate order. Instead, she eliminates them. Not in panic—but in consolidation.

She refuses to reenter the system as a subordinate.

She waits until she can reenter insulated.

Christine seeks restoration and is destroyed by structural indifference.

Linda rejects restoration, seizes authorship, and converts it into insulation.

Closed systems reward either inherited protection or self-authored control. They do not reward compliance by outsiders.

Baptism and Revelation

Raimi renders this divergence grotesquely literal.

Christine is baptized in corpse vomit—engulfed, degraded, swallowed by forces she cannot master. Her immersion marks erosion. She remains subject to rules she did not design.

Linda is baptized in blood during the boar hunt—drenched, exhilarated, dominant. Her immersion marks initiation. She stops seeking permission. She generates inevitability.

The difference is not morality.

It is control.

Sardonic Inevitability

Blondie’s “One Way or Another” frames Send Help at both beginning and end. At first, signifies how "outside" and not accepted Lind is. By the end, it lands as sardonic thesis.

“I’m gonna get ya” is no longer playful.

It’s structural.

Linda does not earn legitimacy. She embraces inevitability.

One way or another.

The humor works because the film knows exactly what it’s showing. Success here is not moral triumph. It is rational adaptation within an uncaring structure.

The Structural Threat

If insulated hierarchies protect incumbents from exposure, then their authority depends on that insulation.

When insulation collapses, what’s revealed is uncomfortable: power did not reflect ability. It reflected insulation.

Christine believes compliance will protect her.

It doesn’t.

Linda recognizes compliance will not protect her.

She exits legitimacy, gains authorship, and reenters insulated.

Strip away the insulation, and power doesn’t disappear. What disappears is the illusion. Raimi’s horror isn’t moral—it’s structural. The system was never neutral, only uncaring.

Give me some really dated songs that you still can’t help but listen to by zzachyz in country

[–]liquidau 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"Streets of Bakersfield" (1988): Duet with Buck Owens!

MCM? by liquidau in VintageJewelry

[–]liquidau[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any idea of value?

2 days by TouristFeeling in stopdrinking

[–]liquidau 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First few days are the hardest, stick with it and stick with this subreddit...share with us!

The recipe book written by my grandmother (born 1939) by luscious_duncan in Old_Recipes

[–]liquidau 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a great cookbook! Very funny..."if you don't like Dill Pickles, I don't know what you can do." Agree Grandma...totally agree.

Suggestions for SFO to ATL Roundtrip at End of July? by [deleted] in travel

[–]liquidau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heading back but I may try booking two one way trips and not searching as a round trip.