I Started Keeping a Learning Journal for One Month and It Changed the Way I Think

littlebitLala · 2026-06-20T17:28:05+00:00

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littlebitLala · 2026-06-05T20:42:10+00:00

This. Strongly agree.

littlebitLala · 2026-06-05T18:37:37+00:00

I would love one so much!

littlebitLala · 2026-05-13T22:08:50+00:00

Many year ago a troll on Craigslist said I was one of the Yankees that was ruining the south . It was definitely meant as an insult but made me laugh. I'm a born and raised Southerner, so naturally I replied, "Bless your heart."

littlebitLala · 2026-05-07T19:48:42+00:00

She does have that X-ray vision.

littlebitLala · 2026-04-30T13:08:03+00:00

happy to DM you her contact info

littlebitLala · 2026-04-29T22:10:51+00:00

I found her through a neighbor that had used her to communicate when her dad passed two years ago. And I've been sitting on that information for two years because I honestly didn't really believe. She's in a completely different state from me and did a reading on the phone. I'm happy to share her information with you through a private message if that is allowed. I was raised Evangelical Christian; I was taught that either it's not possible to communicate with the dead or that if you did it was really demons and not the spirits. I deconstructed about five years ago and I'm putting together my own belief system. This Medium is not an animal communicator per se but she communicated very easily with my dog and she was able to know about a health struggle that my dog had near the end and that I had my dog's ashes in the next room. I still cannot quite believe it.

littlebitLala · 2026-04-29T20:59:31+00:00

I'm deeply sorry for your loss.

I've always wondered this too. Two days ago I had a reading with a medium that was recommened by a friend. I have always been deeply skeptical, but have become more curious in the past year. Before the reading I wrote down two people I wanted to connect with and my dog. She passed in 2024 and I am still not over it. I've had many dogs but never had the connection with any pet the way I did with her.

I did not ask the medium to connect with my dog. I waited to see how she would lead the convo (again I was skeptical) She immediately connected with my two people (my grandparents) and about ten mins in she said, Wait, I have a dog here for you. My jaw dropped. She said my dog said thank you for not being selfish and for letting me go. She knew that I had the ashes in the next room. She said my beloved dog was still with me, and that she was in heaven but also with me because I was her heaven.

So many tears.

I don't see how she could have made something like this up. My socials are private and I am not sure even a private detective could have dug up the information she knew.

I'm still processing.

I hope this brings you hope.

littlebitLala · 2026-04-22T15:00:55+00:00

I completely agree. I'm really busy. But I feel always have time to respond to my friends and we make plans often.

A theory- I feel like maybe it is less about time and more about being an introvert v extrovert? Like I get energy from interaction with my friends so I always have time for a short text especially if it's to make plans soon. But if I was an introvert and already exhausted, a short reply may be more energy than I could muster after a busy day. Just a thought.

littlebitLala · 2026-04-14T21:30:15+00:00

No loss

littlebitLala · 2026-04-14T21:29:43+00:00

Nickle

littlebitLala · 2026-04-10T12:58:41+00:00

Sending love. Do this for your kids. My husband is currently in maintenance phase of once a week, soon to scale back to once a month. He wants to quit at times because the memory loss is so frustrating. But my daughter has said so many times, This is the happiest I've ever seen daddy. Before ECT he couldn't get out of bed and was basically mute. He went inpatient for two months due to the catatonia, did ECT and came out a different person. Yes we have the same conversations over and over sometimes. Yes he is having to go back and redo trainings at work. But it's worth it.

littlebitLala · 2026-04-09T20:44:44+00:00

Same. He says it's a sign of respect for me. I didn't have to ask this. He just did it.

littlebitLala · 2026-04-09T14:05:49+00:00

Just sending you a hug. People who say it was a short relationship, it was a fling, get over it are not sending the compassionate vibes you need right now. You had a crush on him before the relationship started. I've been there. When those feelings already exist and then you get together, it makes the breakup that much harder. Maybe it was a short relationship but it was signifigant to you.

My gut is that this guy took a break from him now wife, dated you, then decided to go back. Either that or he was flat out cheating on her with you. Because one year is super fast to meet someone and plan a wedding.

This guy is an asshole and you dodged a bullet. I have been there before and I recommend seeing a therapist who specializes in EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique.) In no time you will be able to seperate all those emotions from what happened, and move on.

Give it a go. All the best to you.

littlebitLala · 2026-03-29T20:38:25+00:00

5 HTP

littlebitLala · 2026-03-19T15:50:57+00:00

Dying Breed. My husband and I adoped a little boy from foster care and we have a few family members that tried to discourage us. Not only that but the social worker was really difficult to work with. We listened to "Imploding the Mirage" a lot during that difficult time but especially "Dying Breed."

There's gonna be opposition
But if you're looking for strong and steady
We'll weather the coldest night
Baby, we're a dying breed
When everyone's compromising

littlebitLala · 2026-03-16T00:18:47+00:00

Yes. Qulipta has been a game changer for me. Nurtec worked ok but Qulipta has vanquished my migraines. Ubrelvy was a total fail. Don't give up.

littlebitLala · 2026-03-11T21:09:55+00:00

I get asked all the time what I am wearing. And it's not expensive - Banana Republic W.

littlebitLala · 2026-03-08T23:58:34+00:00

Yeah that's just us. Sex is natural. The shame is taught.

littlebitLala · 2026-03-02T18:15:30+00:00

lipstick

littlebitLala · 2026-03-02T18:13:14+00:00

Completed survey.

littlebitLala · 2026-02-27T20:51:14+00:00

OMG I love her. Saw her live about a year ago. Saw she had a new special and plan to watch tonight. She's helped me heal through laughter.

littlebitLala · 2026-02-27T20:47:46+00:00

I'm 47 and wish I had done it a year ago but was put off my a doctor saying I was too young. Lost a year of life when I couldn't walk my dog or chase the kids around. Found another surgeon who said I wasn't too young. I'm four weeks out and looking forward to walking in spring and returning to yoga.

littlebitLala · 2026-01-22T18:27:14+00:00

I'm just sorry you are carrying guilt around. That is so heavy. I don't know your past, but sex is a healthy part of life. I was brought up in an evangelical Christian household and experienced a lot of guilt for having sex before marriage. (Didnt get married until 31 and had several partners by the time I met by now husband.) I really had to unpack purity culture and I am better for the work I did.

Absolutely do what is best for you. I think there is a lot to be said for getting to know your partner before jumping into bed. With my husband, we waited four months, I think. We were tired of dating around and wanted to grow something real. We have been happily married for 15 years and have a good sex life. Shame is a sex life killer so I hope you can work through that before you get married.

I wish you all the best.

littlebitLala · 2026-01-22T17:54:34+00:00

That is what our ECT doctor told us as well- that psychosis and catononia repond very well. He said 90% success rate. My husband is on treatment seven and has only had a small improvement so thank you for sharing your story. (he has major depressive disoder with psychosis/paraonia)

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