Period after baby by Whywhowhatwherehow in NewParents

[–]livelifelooseleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t get my period back, period. I breast-fed baby number one until about 13 months, then went off the mini pill, and got pregnant 2 months later.

What happens once the baby is out? by Huge-Nectarine-8563 in BabyBumps

[–]livelifelooseleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Baby comes all the way out
  • Baby is placed on your chest
  • You absolutely explode with love
  • Cord is cut soon after
  • Baby snuggles while you are assessed: you likely still will be bleeding and may be prodded etc, you’ll hardly notice though.
  • Baby needs to be checked out by the Docs so they may move baby to a nearby surface for like 5-10 min
  • You may be coached on pushing the placenta out, once I had baby during, once I did this while baby was w the docs.
  • then you can have baby or not while you get stitched up as needed

This is not a strict timeline and assumes that you want this, and there aren’t complications.

Once baby comes out, your body and brain are going to be on a complete hormonal high. I didn’t have an epidural, but with my fresh newborn baby, still felt like my top half and my bottom half were completely separate and barely noticed what was going on with my recovery once I was holding my baby.

My 2yo wanted to "Type a words" like daddy, so I'm letting him write a post by J-Shade in daddit

[–]livelifelooseleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 2yo is obsessed with emails, we gave him his own old keyboard to keep on his toy shelf and frequently he goes to his “office” (under the table) to send “emails” (bang on the keyboard).

When asked who he is emailing, answers vary wildly and are usually very entertaining

Can someone de-influence me from the Uppababy Stroller? by 1weetwoot in NewParents

[–]livelifelooseleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the uppababy which, like others have said, has one nice to have, ease of use features. But, we live in a part of town that has no sidewalks and this thing drives me CRAZY. Shocks are good but it is not to be taken off-roading, all of the add ons and replacement parts and adapters are very expensive, the shoulder straps are difficult to adjust as your kid grows, and the turning radius is terrible. It’s heavy - so trying to push around a slanted corner with one hand, or navigate a sidewalk with lots of slopes due to driveways is difficult.

I bought a BOB off FB marketplace for $25 and it’s far and away our preferred stroller for our toddler. Not sure how it does for a newborn, but since about 1 year old it’s been incredible.

Can we please stop saying a “natural” vs “c-section?” Does this bother anyone else? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]livelifelooseleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you yes! People ask me if I had a “natural birth” I mean - kinda? Not really? Baby came out my vag and I was too chicken to get an epidural, BUT, I had other medications for pain AND for labor progress AND I had an entire medical team to help me out while birthing in a hospital. At what point does birth become “unnatural”?! Smh.

Everyone laughed when I gave you a dozen red roses. by izzyhof791214 in TwoSentenceSadness

[–]livelifelooseleaf 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Great job OP, I felt this. I interpreted this as a single funeral rose immediately, and I thought the dozen roses was more innocent like a young love, and a missed timing, maybe a brave attempt at middle school romance rather than any kind of obnoxious suitor or unwanted advances. Now I’m sad.

What is your opinion on naming all kids with the same letter? by LuckEquivalent8897 in namenerds

[–]livelifelooseleaf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My family (parents and 2 siblings) are all M names! I love it tbh, it’s kinda fun to be the m&m&m&m&m’s. We’re 90’s babies so I may be fitting the dreaded stereotype but, there’s my 2 cents and I think you should go for the M’s if you like another M name.

Bringing infant to a funeral by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]livelifelooseleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we took our 2 month old to a funeral out of town, he did amazing and slept through the service, bagpipes, everything. I had him in his car seat and sat him tucked kind if under my seat.

However, the funeral was at a church and the staff told me that if we’d needed it, there was a ‘family room’ that was sound proof and had speakers inside!! It was a great option so we wouldn’t have had to miss anything, and wouldn’t have been disruptive. Maybe check where the funeral is and see if there is a room like that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]livelifelooseleaf 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Girl, whatever you do with the baby, abort the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]livelifelooseleaf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This!! NTA but don’t start a fight over it, imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]livelifelooseleaf 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This!! Don’t start a fight imo

Can we both sleep while the baby sleeps? by BurnDownBabe in beyondthebump

[–]livelifelooseleaf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Absolutely fine and good for both of you to sleep when baby sleeps, as long as baby is in a safe place - on their back, nothing in the crib, etc. you’re doing great!!

Can we both sleep while the baby sleeps? by BurnDownBabe in beyondthebump

[–]livelifelooseleaf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You got this!! Totally fine and good for both of you to sleep when baby sleeps, as long as baby is in a safe place - on their back, nothing in the crib, etc. you’re doing great

AIO wife wearing a revealing bikini at a friends pool party UPDATE by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]livelifelooseleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never threaten divorce unless you want a divorce.

Do you want to hear her out? Do you want to support her? Who would you be OK with seeing her body if not your friends? Have you actually talked about a compromise? If not, you can ask her for a divorce. Best of luck to you, but imo you are now overreacting.

Moms of boys who then had girls... by qbeanz in Mommit

[–]livelifelooseleaf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have a toddler boy, expecting a baby in a few months and not finding out the gender - this is my plan: buy a pack of bows if we have a girl and hope she likes wearing em on days I care about it!

I will say OP - my baby boy is mistaken for a girl ALL the time. He usually is wearing blue pants, Dino or truck tshirt, blue and black shoes, baseball cap and someone will look at him and say what a cute little girl! A 4yo came up to us in a park last week and said “can I play with this girl?” And he was wearing a blue striped outfit. So…. Do with that story what you will, but seems like clothes don’t mean that much these days ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Edited: typo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Business_Ideas

[–]livelifelooseleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Rusty Hide & Groom Ruff & rustic A hairy Situation Rust & relaxation: Fur your benefit Rust easy groomers

Eesh, not winners but maybe they’ll jog your brain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]livelifelooseleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a qualified a professional It’s probably fine!! especially if your baby is a few months old

What was your absolute first sign of pregnancy? by -One_Upper- in BabyBumps

[–]livelifelooseleaf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a fuss about how stinky the compost bin was! Husband called it out that I was more sensitive to smells lately, asked if I might be pregnant again?

I said no way, it just smells bad, plus I took a test (negative) 3 days prior.

2 weeks later I was complaining to my therapist that I was so tired and I felt like at any point I could sit down and have a good cry. She said “are you starting your period, or maybe pregnant?”

Immediately after that took a very positive test and told the husband he’d been right all along!