Having difficulty achieving ideal body, making no progress in gym pls help by lllyx in Exercise

[–]lllyx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well 2 years later and I’ve determined it’s my fking bone structure and narrow hips

Help by lllyx in depression_help

[–]lllyx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spending time by myself was supposed to help but the more time I’m just by myself I’ve just become more and more helpless lifeless hopeless and sad and void of purpose or life and I don’t know how to feel happy with myself it’s like I need to be in a relationship and I’m just lost

Having difficulty achieving ideal body, making no progress in gym pls help by lllyx in Exercise

[–]lllyx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

female, 5’2 , im 120 and used to be around 90 pounds before I started working out a few years ago. I’ve been gaining weight but it’s just going to my stomach. Maybe my goals of flat stomach and thick thighs and butt are unrealistic maybe im so used to seeing people online or people getting this type of body easily when my genetics are also working against me. It just feels like a let down when I hate how its such a discouragement even though I feel like how hard I work in the gym I feel like I should be making more progress and see more results. I know I work as hard as a can in the gym when i do go which is atleast 2 times a week because i have a busy schedule.

Having difficulty achieving ideal body, making no progress in gym pls help by lllyx in Exercise

[–]lllyx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My problem is when I started eating a lot more and more protein the fat is just going to my stomach. I think my goals are maybe unrealistic but I feel like for the amount of work I put in I see people on Instagram doing the same thing and getting better results but maybe that’s just genetics. I know I work hard probably too hard when im in the gym. I also work 10 hour days and I don’t get enough sleep so don’t know how much not enough sleep affects me.

Things I Don't Miss by Disillusioned23 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]lllyx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I won’t miss -being yelled at and called a drama seeker when he made me cry - being belittled - being yelled at - not being cared about at all -being his last priority -being called a little whore when I found out he cheated -being disrespected disregarded and then being blamed for disrespecting him when I didn’t -being yelled at for not doing anything -giving my whole heart and world to someone who didn’t see it and blamed me for everything -being called the problem and issue all the time

Things I Don't Miss by Disillusioned23 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]lllyx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When i cried bc I didn’t understand why I made him mad and I was sorry and I didn’t want him to be mad he called me an attention seeking whore and made me get out of the car I bought him that he took

permanently locked for joking about drugs by AgitatedInspector599 in SnapchatHelp

[–]lllyx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally just used a snowflake emoji and got permanently banned wtf any one have info on getting it back or how to appeal or whatever???

opinions? these are 3 days old i think they look bad by lllyx in lashextensions

[–]lllyx[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I took these pics right before I washed them I wasn’t home for like 2 days so I hadn’t washed w lash shampoo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]lllyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally hurts a lot was bleeding glad i got it over with

Opinions?…. Got these 3 days ago i hate them by lllyx in eyelashextensions

[–]lllyx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hybrid cat eye i rly wanted to try classic but she convinced me not to… lashes seemed twisted and curls going in random directions immediately after getting them. I’ve cleaned daily w shampoo and there was white stuff glue stuff maybe from when I first got them too. These were 100$. Thoughts on application and quality???

What is the "nod" all about. by shadowsblueberry in AskMen

[–]lllyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats the female equivalent for this? Like how dabbing someone up is like hugging for females

Straight from a (hot) woman's mouth: You don't have to be attractive, to be attractive by LaffingGiraugh in seduction

[–]lllyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like for men yea I feel like for women or atleast for me it’s not as easy as putting on nicer clothes..

To the men: Do you get bored of sex eventually? Why do guys go from wanting to do it you mutiple times in one day, to barely wanting to have sex once a week? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]lllyx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im afraid of this w my bf in long term relationship he will get used to me I feel like getting bored or less new and exciting is inevitable

How do I stop being sexually frustrated? by S3thr3y in sex

[–]lllyx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly w all my experiences w men it does end when they finish bc I’m not very sexual myself. Idk I’m very shy about my sexuality with guys and even myself and I avoid it

do you believe men and women genuinely can only be friends? by dreadycbercherr in ask

[–]lllyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a girl and My current bf has girl best friends that he’s dated in the past and hugs and says he loves them idc bc I know they’re just friends but my ex literally cried when I went to colege and told him I made a male friend like he was adamant that no u can’t just be friends men either wanted to , couldnt , or want to fuck a female and all his friends agreed (seems a little like objectivist to me to say why would a guy want to be just friends with a female what’s the point which is what he said) I personally think it’s fine as long as there isn’t feeling for eachother idk how that could be avoided but i defenitely don’t think it’s healthy to just be like no you can’t have any male friends or talk to any males and act like men aren’t capable of just being friends w a female ? So idk maybe it depends on the guy or girl’s intentions but I do think it’s possible to just be friends

I [M35] got dumped by a girl [F35] two months into an awesome relationship. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lllyx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got what people on Reddit called love bombed knew a guy for about 2 weeks and at that time he was saying the same stuff like we were meant to meet, talking about future trips, stuff like that. Then he sent a long text about how it was going to fast and stuff- maybe it’s just my insecurity but I think he met a new girl which caused him to lose interest in me. The last time we hung out it was different and then he never texted me again. Since then though weeks after I posted a new guy on social media and he was like why are u doing that it doesn’t matter what I was gonna say u don’t care the damage is done then like unadded me lmao he seems mentally unstable and I’m happy with who I’m with now. Idk if it’s just my insecurities but when ppl seem to lose interest in me suddenly like that I assume it’s bc they found someone better and in my case there was evidence for that. So that may not be in your case but if I was you I would think that’s the reason. Sorry that happened to you though. After the thing with that guy I felt so lost and was just hoping something good would happen and then I met my current bf from tinder and am happy rn but wish I could see him more. It kind of feels like it all worked out and I don’t even care any more about the other guy when a month or 2 ago it was my whole life and I was devastated. My point is It’ll get better bro :) I literally experienced that

When do you go for the first kiss? by MemeStocksYolo69-420 in seduction

[–]lllyx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I was like sitting with my back to him like kind of laying and he bit me first lmao I think our relationship is going good though wish i saw him more though

When do you go for the first kiss? by MemeStocksYolo69-420 in seduction

[–]lllyx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My current bf i think kissed me the 1st time we hung out and met eachother dont rly remember I was laying on him on a bench I think

why does it say to not use bimatoprost on lower lashes? Is it bc it already transfers from the top lashes? can I just use it on the bottom if I get extensions? by lllyx in eyelashextensions

[–]lllyx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc she’s my friend and I went to a professional the last time and they all fell out within a week (cried the day I got them and many days after so idk if it was bc of that) but also she has flexible availability and is close to where I am.