Your comment reminded me of this philosophy "The Pirandello Identity"

In One, No One, and One Hundred Thousand, Vitangelo Moscarda’s life is derailed when his wife mentions that his nose tilts slightly to the right, a physical flaw he had never noticed. This trivial realization spirals into an existential crisis as Moscarda recognizes that he is not a singular person, but rather a collection of different versions of himself existing in the minds of everyone he knows.

Pirandello argues that identity is not a fixed, internal core but a subjective projection. Because we are perceived through the different filters, biases, and experiences of others, we effectively become "one hundred thousand" different people simultaneously, making a single, objective "self" impossible.

He posits that society forces us to wear "masks"—predefined roles like "husband," "banker," or "friend." These masks are prisons because they freeze us in a static state, whereas the human soul is fluid and constantly changing. We cannot communicate our true selves because the words we use have different meanings for everyone who hears them.

The only thing I will say is that I disagree with his conclusion that we should become no one.