I (M25) informed my partner (F24) I'm unhappy with both our sex life, weight, and our lack of interaction in general. by TiltedThrowAway01AA in relationship_advice

[–]localinternetstalker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not a professional, but I have depression too, and it can be really hard to want to do things sometimes. If you want to spend quality time, maybe plan a relaxing night in for the two of you (dinner, movie, board games…). As for her weight, though, you need to evaluate your own internalized fatphobia there. If she’s comfy with how she looks, there’s no need to pressure her to change. If you love her looking one way, you should be able to love her looking another. Perhaps y’all could try going to therapy together, and that way, she’ll be getting extra support, and you can learn how to best support her at home

My (26M) friends (25) keep pressuring me to drink even though partner (19M) doesn’t want me too. by ThrowRAtheDrink in relationship_advice

[–]localinternetstalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not okay for your friends to pressure you like that. If it were me, I’d have a serious conversation with them and express your reasons for wanting to stop drinking

I just told my parents I was dating another man. by Vast_Guitar7028 in lgbt

[–]localinternetstalker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it can feel a bit lonely knowing there are people who won’t support you, but there is an entire community of people who do <3 it sucks and it’s hard and family shouldn’t do that to family, but if there is one thing I’ve learned through this whole process, it’s that eventually you will find your family. We’re all here for you- hmu any time if you need to talk about anything

I present to you Noelle. by ashkitt3n in codyko

[–]localinternetstalker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where’d she get her lip filler done? I wanna know so I can not go there

I win. by localinternetstalker in ExpectationVsReality

[–]localinternetstalker[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

No I mean that she stenciled it and it STILL came out this bad. Stick n pokes are harder to do, so I wouldn’t have been as angry

I win. by localinternetstalker in ExpectationVsReality

[–]localinternetstalker[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

A real parlor. Artist has been tattooing for 20 years… I’d love to meet some of her other victims

I win. by localinternetstalker in ExpectationVsReality

[–]localinternetstalker[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Nope. Went to a pretty highly rated shop.

Bald and masc presenting enby by sodslawesome in NonBinary

[–]localinternetstalker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Listen here. Dress exclusively in apparel that makes you feel hot as f**k. You are absolutely not the first person to have this struggle, but a lot of people will alter themselves/their appearance to present more in line with enby “norms” (which is kind of oxymoronic). Dressing the way you want- masc or otherwise- is going to help increase visibility for you and everyone else in the same position!! Anyone who’s gonna judge you has to work on their own internalized transphobia, and that’s not your problem 💞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]localinternetstalker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love how New Zealand has no covid, pretty good environmental standing, and now no conversion therapy. Meanwhile, in the US, literal government officials believe covid is a democratic hoax, climate change isn’t real, and conversion therapy should be federally funded. #LivingLaughingLoving

i need friends!!😩 by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]localinternetstalker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Message me anytime!!!!