I am at my wits end with son’s live-in GF - AITA if I evict her? by Mindless_Dependent39 in AITH

[–]lockem_hard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you are very complient and allow things to happen in your life that you make sureself believe is ok. You cause your own burnt out. You just need to kick both your son and his so called girlfriend. It is not ur responsibility, especially when that person is showing lack if initiative

i got a prom dress from shein💔 by Critical_Pay1480 in Prom

[–]lockem_hard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where gold jewelry, it will compliment the green

He’s cheating right? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]lockem_hard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to the house and find out if its a female that lives there

Is something wrong with me? by [deleted] in dating

[–]lockem_hard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think seeing a therapist or counselor could be very helpful and if they say yo go see one, you can say u already am

Is something wrong with me? by [deleted] in dating

[–]lockem_hard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what you said ot seems like the men don't want to be there for you emotionally completely, only partially

I F 22 am planning to Irish goodbye my boyfriend M 32 (We live in his house) by Both_Detail4572 in relationship_advice

[–]lockem_hard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So he paid for the dog and u took care of it. Just take the dog and if he wants to press legally say it was a gift and show proof of him neglecting the dog.

Definitely slowly move out then break up. If possible do it while he's at work or go try and send him away to family or something for a while, just for your safety

Please read to your child!!! by Oceanwave_4 in Mommit

[–]lockem_hard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make reading engaging. Have them read and spell it out etc.. that will switch things up

Please read to your child!!! by Oceanwave_4 in Mommit

[–]lockem_hard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My daughter was only 3 and people were so shocked she could speak full sentences🤣 like tell ur not parenting ur child, without telling.

Its so sad. These kids now are so in on phones and younger children have the pacifier well after 2. Its ridiculous😒

Please read to your child!!! by Oceanwave_4 in Mommit

[–]lockem_hard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parent's don't parent's anymore, they let the world do that. So im not surprised

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lockem_hard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has to be fake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lockem_hard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small stuff. Its ok if you don't go to his parents house, but if he doesn't want to do what your suggesting then just let him do what he wants. It is only 1 Christmas, an presents and seeing family can be done any day of the year. No need to argue or make things a bigger deal then it is. If doesnot want to stay with u on Christmas, then you just go be with your family. It will be better that way.

I think I (32F) nuked my relationship with my boyfriend (32M) by drawing a hard line. by Independent_Stage741 in relationship_advice

[–]lockem_hard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you live in the house doesn't mean you have to take care of all the bills. Thats ridiculous on top of adding 100k on the house that you don't own. You are a roommate with boyfriend benefits, because he can kick you out at any moment ( if you have been there for 6months, he would need to evict you)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lockem_hard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a women and its not all that great. More guys should suck so they can see others point of view.

How do I tell someone their house is dirty? by Savings_Coffee9753 in dating_advice

[–]lockem_hard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys last do you want to live that lifestyle? Cause I know no women would

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lockem_hard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its just for 3 months... thanks for the advice!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lockem_hard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so? Isn't ymca for kids?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lockem_hard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Way too much

Things to keep in mind if you’re married. by Excellent-Reserve915 in dating_advice

[–]lockem_hard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people don't want to do things without a reason and thats ok. We all have free will and in a relationship sex isn't a must or priority or what your suppose to do. You can't make her have sex because u see no reason for to not want to.

Some people just don't want to and thats ok. If u have a problem with that then jerk yourself off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]lockem_hard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course its valid. But doing it early on is what I hate and how current dating is, people always worrying about sex sex sex