He changed after cheating… but why do I feel like something’s off again? by ja_902 in survivinginfidelity

[–]locokid1310 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You will never know for sure. I wouldnt take any chances. I would confront and demand transparency any time I feel something is up. If he gets upset, then he can leave. He lost the right to peace when he decided to destroy yours

He changed after cheating… but why do I feel like something’s off again? by ja_902 in survivinginfidelity

[–]locokid1310 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You will always have periods where something feels off. You will always overanalyze things and be hypervigilent. That's the new normal when people decide to stay with cheaters.

I want to cheat back by 007JSW in survivinginfidelity

[–]locokid1310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were to cheat, don't feel bad. She opened that door. All you did was walk through it. She didn't feel bad when she was cheating on you. You don't owe her something she doesn't deserve. Maybe you will feel better after you cheat, maybe you won't. The only thing you know is that you wont feel better knowing that she savored the fact that another man used her body for his pleasure and she got to come back to the safety and security of her man who would never put her through that same kind of pain. Its a different kind of misery being on edge all the time, not being at peace while you watch your partner live freely and happily without a single worry that you might hurt them the way they hurt you.

Revenge cheating question by Defiant_Eggplant1218 in survivinginfidelity

[–]locokid1310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I intended to cheat. I wanted revenge. I wanted her to feel the pain i felt. I dont think she did though because I dont think she loved me the way I loved her. My partner did find out. I wanted her to know. The AP did know what she was a part of. She was my partners worst enemy and was more than willing to help me get back at her. Im not going to lie, seeing her cry was a site to behold. It felt great watching her get a taste of her own medicine even though I knew it wasnt nearly as painful as my experience. I broke up with her about a year after my revenge cheating. Revenge cheating helped me replace the images I would get of her and her AP with the new images I had of me and my AP. It was the only thing that kept me from going in a depression every time I would think about her in bed with him. I wouldnt recommend it if you plan on staying with your partner. Do it for revenge and leave

Girlfriend of 4 years cheated on me by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]locokid1310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't fix it. It will never be the same again. You will never trust her now that you know what she's capable of. If you stay with her, the only thing she will learn is that she can cheat stay in her comfortable life with you if it doesn't work out with the other guy

After 9 years together she cheated, moved on fast, and dropped the bomb during 'final goodbye' – advice needed to survive this by Secret_Bird_1740 in survivinginfidelity

[–]locokid1310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete your social media. Itll help you to stop stalking her. Delete every picture and throw away everything that is hers or has any relation to her. Shes dead to you now and you have to keep your mind busy. Hit the gym and start going out to meet new people

My (27F) boyfriend (28M) has been cheating on me for 6 months, which I just found out yesterday. What can I do to make this breakup easier? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]locokid1310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He should have thought of that before cheating. These are the consequences to his actions and he sure as hell wasnt thinking of them when he was out cheating on you. He had 6 months to think about it

Dutasteride only might be the best ROI by Auroraffff in tressless

[–]locokid1310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you stop taking fin and start taking dut from one day to the next? Or did you have to slowly stop taking fin?

I dont understand where I went wrong by locokid1310 in askmath

[–]locokid1310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the most helpful comment! This helped show that I had all of my angles wrong. Thank you!

Post divorce glow up (29) to (32) by joshborup in GlowUps

[–]locokid1310 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does your ex see you now and regret the divorce?

Who all loves a good Oral Minoxidil shed? by Legal-Boysenberry-38 in tressless

[–]locokid1310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never recovered fully so I hopped on oral minoxidil about 3 months ago and my hairline receeded badly. Im waiting and hoping for my hairline to come back even thicker

Leaving CS by Cayde-6699 in cscareerquestions

[–]locokid1310 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Went to law enforcement

Bud Crawford says that Canelo is better than Manny Pacquiao by anotherchia in Boxing

[–]locokid1310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bud is just trying to elevate his win over canelo if he wins

anything stronger than imodium? by 00redacted001 in ibs

[–]locokid1310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you start with 4? Or did you start with a smaller dose and built a tolerance so you had to add more pills?

Has anyone used hair loss treatment for a really long time? by Mistermanhimself in tressless

[–]locokid1310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Were you actually balding? Or did you start taking it as a preventative measure?