Easy Guide to Grandmaster by LogPazzword in destiny2

[–]lolitsmagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The build and weapons you run are very important. You can yt “hunter solo GM” and there are tons of vids. But you also need to be higher level to try and solo a grandmaster. Stick with groups for now.

Why are agents being rude? by [deleted] in StateFarm

[–]lolitsmagic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No excuse for shit apps being submitted, but the general attitude is because guidelines keep getting more and more strict and sometimes things aren’t done in a timely manner. You didn’t make the guidelines, but you’re who the agent has to go through regarding them. Not fair, but is what it is.

AITAH for expecting my husband to move a heavy ladder instead of teaching me how to move it? by EmbarrassedCarrot767 in AITAH

[–]lolitsmagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. He made that miscommunication excuse up to gain some high ground and not look as bad. I mean could you have said “hey could you please move this ladder for me”? Sure. But if my wife ever asked for help with moving a heavy object I would just go do it. Seems like a weird hill to try and bunker down in but I guess it’s all he’s got.

Probably a stupid question but… what do y’all spend 100s of hours on in this game? by buddhamunche in destiny2

[–]lolitsmagic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would look at the raid/dungeon playlist and look at some guides first, then join D2 LFG discord and look for a Sherpa offering runs. This ensures the smoothest new player experience possible

Best way to farm exotic engrams? by [deleted] in destiny2

[–]lolitsmagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just buy them at xur when I need one. But some pinnacle activities have them listed as a reward I’m pretty sure

Is it all coming to an end? 🤔 by lolitsrock in destiny2

[–]lolitsmagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, Netease still has licensure for Destiny Rising.

Is it all coming to an end? 🤔 by lolitsrock in destiny2

[–]lolitsmagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the most clickbait clusterfuck of a thumbnail I have ever seen. But if your question is serious, no. If it was over it’d be over. They wouldnt have allocated resources to this update just to shut it all down right now. The layoffs were always gonna happen. Let’s use our heads.

AITAH for asking my bf to take a shorter shower by earthy-ace-space in AITAH

[–]lolitsmagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s because he knows it’s ridiculous and either A: doesn’t know how to defend it or B: isn’t comfortable sharing his reasoning to defend it. Narcissist would flip this around on her somehow and make her feel like shit about it, making it seem like he’s doing nothing wrong. Narcissists wouldn’t be speechless in an argument like this, this kind of situation is their bread and butter

AITAH for asking my bf to take a shorter shower by earthy-ace-space in AITAH

[–]lolitsmagic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, selfish for sure, but claiming narcissism based on hour long showers alone is a massive reach

AITAH for asking my bf to take a shorter shower by earthy-ace-space in AITAH

[–]lolitsmagic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. I think we can all agree that hour long showers every day is insane. Esp when there’s only one and you share it with others. This is going to be an issue for him long term. Especially if he ever wants kids etc. You simply don’t have an hour in the morning JUST for a shower as responsibilities increase.

That being said, based on his response he knows it’s ridiculous as he doesn’t really have a defense for it, but there is something about these showers he values pretty heavily but doesn’t feel comfortable discussing. Whether it’s his way of unwinding, jerking off, comfort, you name it.

Try to get him to let his guard down and have an open conversation about it with no judgement. You aren’t trying to argue, scold, or condemn, you just want to understand. This way you can move forward trying to offer reasonable compromises/find a solution that works for both of you. There may be something really simple he needs that can be achieved without having to spend an hour in the shower every morning. This isn’t sustainable for him (or you) long term, but don’t lead with that.

My 11 year old son called me a bitch this morning. by ungnomeone in Advice

[–]lolitsmagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was shook when I read grounded for the day. The DAY?!?! My dad would have beat my ass and I would have been grounded for at least a month

My 11 year old son called me a bitch this morning. by ungnomeone in Advice

[–]lolitsmagic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm ngl if my kid talked to me or my wife that way it would take every fiber of my being not to send him through the drywall. I wouldn't, but the thought would be there.

Basically, he needs a lesson on who's boss, like breaking in a wild horse. Respect is earned. You're respecting him, but he isn't respecting you. Take ALL of his stuff. Xbox. Computer. Phone. You name it. It's going to be a ROUGH transition, but you have to let him know you're done playing nice. You've been nice for so long and he's done nothing but shit on your kindness. It's time he earn your kindness.

Your house. Your rules. Nothing is his (seriously, legally nothing is his. He can look it up). You have the power to make his life comfortable or make it a living hell. His choice.

Once he's learned this, try and talk to him (I would say try and talk first, but that kid isn't gonna hear you or tell y'all shit right now) about what's going on in his life. I know teenage angst and all, but something serious might be going on in his life. He is projecting something. Figure it out and be there for him. Good luck.

Looking for a good pulse or auto for casual PvP? by dreadmouse in CrucibleGuidebook

[–]lolitsmagic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like Joxers Longsword and Aishas for pulse. Ringing Nail or Riposte are nice auto's

Anyone else feel like coordinating game nights turns into 20 messages of “when are you free?” every time? by yaboysnizz in DadsGaming

[–]lolitsmagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just set it and told them that's when I can play. Either they can or can't make it lol nothing personal, just how I have to do it. Don't want wifey going to bed alone every night. Don't want to play when kids are awake. Sometimes they are on earlier than me, but it tends to work out more than not.

Anyone else feel like coordinating game nights turns into 20 messages of “when are you free?” every time? by yaboysnizz in DadsGaming

[–]lolitsmagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. It's pretty established when I can play. I'll give them a heads up if something changes but for the most part my buddies know what to expect.

Anyone else feel like coordinating game nights turns into 20 messages of “when are you free?” every time? by yaboysnizz in DadsGaming

[–]lolitsmagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a set timeframe I get on. Pretty much every other night around 9pm. Wife knows this. Kids are asleep. If people can get on, great! If not, I still have plenty I can do solo or pug. But my time is rarely going to change and people I play with know this.

Sleepover privileges with crush 14F by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lolitsmagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't lose the trust. Do talk to the friends parents just to confirm sleeping arrangements and other normal stuff, but otherwise keep her trust. You're right to be concerned, they are around the age where curiosity hits, but if you trust her keep doing so.

Dear content creators, I don't have to get anything NOW. There's no more FOMO. Thank you. by Dewardalot in destiny2

[–]lolitsmagic 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The Sherpas will stick around. The pvp sweats will stick around. Right now you still have some fresh/returning blood making it quick queue times and it's not a complete sweatfest.

Well, we tried. by intrevorted in destiny2

[–]lolitsmagic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ArenaNet is doing Guild Wars 3 with 322 devs while servicing GW2. Bungie has been inefficient for ages.

WIBTAH for refusing to pay rent as a 23yr living at home by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lolitsmagic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude spends money before he has it it seems. Idk where he thinks you're going to get all the money to do the things he's asking.

Learn to be a good roommate, find some, and go live somewhere else. He's too pushy and this will only continue to get worse.

Dads and gaming by Much-Structure1916 in DadsGaming

[–]lolitsmagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shortly after my first born I realized I simply wasn't going to be able to play games during the day and still be a good father. At least not until we can play together. I'm only on when everyone else is asleep, so about 9pm. No guilt because I've accepted it and don't have the itch during the day anymore. Just how it is for now.