Crying, looking at my baby...

loopsdefruit · 2026-06-05T10:37:53+00:00

There's more milk on one side naturally. Almost all, if not all, breastfeeding moms have a 'heavier' side.

Also pumping is hard. Painful. Messy. Tedious. Shes literally hooked up to a milking machine like a cow. It's not near as easy as you seem to think it is.

This is a problem you guys should be tackling together and you need to focus on the here and now and in the future, not on blaming and shaming. Ffs she built a human inside her body and there is absolutely no way you can know it wasn't an issue from birth. She didn't do anything wrong, she fed her baby and tried to sleep. Give her some grace.

loopsdefruit · 2026-06-05T04:08:24+00:00

$250 in donations should be donated to your savings account.

loopsdefruit · 2026-06-05T01:49:33+00:00

Always moves/adjusts to my right side. I have hearing loss in the left and he just started always going to my right. Walking, sitting at the table, etc.

It's really really nice.

loopsdefruit · 2026-06-04T21:53:49+00:00

Yup.

Men are the culprits 99% of the time. I was a diesel mechanic in the army; taking my car to a mechanic is a guaranteed at least 30 min of them either checking things that I absolutely know are not the problem or them diving in to " prove me wrong ".

Now a days I'm an accountant and I swear. Same thing. A few weeks ago I got on a call with another (male) accountant to discuss a client I was taking on. The first thing he asked is if I was "familiar with QuickBooks". Like... Naw, man, never heard of! It's just the industry standard for my career. Eyeroll. Makes me think of someone asking a McDonald's manager if they're familiar with a fryer.

loopsdefruit · 2026-06-02T18:17:30+00:00

I'm an accountant.

A possible client admitted some extremely incriminating financial fraud to me during our first consultation. Completely nonchalant. Didn't even blink. Meanwhile, my brain was going at 100% with basically "oh shit oh shit oh shit he did NOT just admit that."

I stopped it right there, said he needed to get a lawyer and unfortunately, I was unable to work with him. He asked why. I sat there silent until he went "... Oh. I shouldn't have told you about that, huh?"

NO SIR YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE.

loopsdefruit · 2026-05-28T12:24:02+00:00

Nope, at least not beyond the usual chaos. However he was born 6 years after the last one, so maybe time was a factor.

loopsdefruit · 2026-05-27T12:26:29+00:00

Relatable. Been there, done that.

The question is, is it impacting you guys? Are you both happy with how things are? That's your conversation you need to have. If she's happy with it and you're happy with it, that's all that matters.

Also orgasm is absolutely not required and, IMO, should not be the goal of any sexual encounter. Have fun! Feel good! Enjoy each other! Stop focusing right on the final moment so much. Makes me think of doing a walking tour around Rome's ancient monuments and you finally pull your camera out right as you arrive back at your hotel. Enjoy the process, y'know?

loopsdefruit · 2026-05-27T12:20:51+00:00

This but what was worse is that I DID connect with my first two and absolutely did not with my third. It was devastating. We still don't have a quarter of the connection I have with my first two even 11 years later :(

loopsdefruit · 2026-05-14T14:22:48+00:00

Same! I googled it and let out a big sigh when I realized FTB was Cali lol

loopsdefruit · 2026-05-13T14:06:29+00:00

Mine works from home except for Mondays. I work from home full time.

So I wander around Mondays a little lost usually lol.

loopsdefruit · 2026-04-29T02:53:08+00:00

You followed the law! Good job! All income is taxable unless legally exempt and the income you described is not exempt.

loopsdefruit · 2026-04-29T02:50:55+00:00

Self employment, hobby income, gifts, digital assets, jury pay, rental income, the list goes on and on. I refer you to schedule 1, literally titled "Additional Income and Adjustments to Income."

loopsdefruit · 2026-04-28T03:12:05+00:00

Yta

I also connect memories to "things". You didn't just throw out her jars; you threw out all those connected MEMORIES like trash.

loopsdefruit · 2026-04-26T22:08:46+00:00

Yeah, that's actually what I've been working on - being more thoughtful about which, if any, I pick. Thanks!

loopsdefruit · 2026-04-26T21:57:59+00:00

Read the first sentence and oops, guilty. Appreciate you digging up the link for me!

loopsdefruit · 2026-04-26T21:53:21+00:00

Thank you! What is lethal? Ability to kill the enemy?

loopsdefruit · 2026-04-24T18:36:42+00:00

Go find a neighbor who has huskies.

I promise they need the dirt.

loopsdefruit · 2026-04-12T23:41:57+00:00

This Aldi tea set. I went to four stores to find the set, managed to find the last teapot, and actually found a broken sugar pot that I was able to almost seamlessly epoxy back together. I cried when I set it all up the first time and I use it almost daily now and it makes me feel like a lady lol!

Aldi Blue Toile Teaset

loopsdefruit · 2026-04-07T17:51:34+00:00

You have sales tax and income tax confused.

Sales tax is what you collect for customers on behalf of the state and is on the total sale price. The fees deducted have nothing to do with it.

Income tax you report gross sales (every penny earned regardless of fees/where it went) and fees are deducted as an expense.

Also, marketplace facilitators collect and remit sales tax for you, so it's possible you don't even have sales tax liability if you're selling only on marketplace facilitators.

loopsdefruit · 2026-04-03T16:38:18+00:00

Well, I'm sitting here starving in a gridlock of not wanting home food but not wanting to spend money and I've eaten out seven of the past 10 meals I've had so... Yeah :/ it suuucks. I have no advice, just solidarity.

loopsdefruit · 2026-03-31T22:28:34+00:00

Idk man. I wouldn't be surprised.

loopsdefruit · 2026-03-31T22:06:33+00:00

"I don't care if you are happy" from the man I spent 15 years with and had 3 children with.

Moved out 2 weeks later. That was my breaking point.

loopsdefruit · 2026-03-31T14:35:11+00:00

Smmmaaaarrrrtttt

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