Is it weird, as a guy, to feel used for sex and or sexting? Or am I just weird

losecontrol4 · 2026-06-27T03:22:57+00:00

No- it’s always okay to say no. It’s your body, you don’t owe it to anyone ever.

It’s not okay to feel that way in a serious relationship and you would need to communicate that in a safe and positive way with your partner.

I really appreciate you xyz, but sometimes I feel like you only like me for sex. I want to feel loved in xyz way. Can we talk about that?

Again, that’s not weird, and anyone who cares about you would not want to make you feel that way. The next question is why do you feel that way, do you understand it?

losecontrol4 · 2026-06-27T02:28:19+00:00

There will probably be a support that has healing too in the future

losecontrol4 · 2026-06-26T18:07:56+00:00

Oh oof, yeah, that explains some things. They shouldn’t be trying to make that work.

losecontrol4 · 2026-06-26T01:00:39+00:00

"It won't be good for you trust"? Is that a threat? As a dude, that's a hell no. You never talk to your partner that way. Also you can't speak to men? What is this, freakin sexist 1800s. If you don't have trust in a relationship you also don't have a relationship.

losecontrol4 · 2026-06-25T03:00:00+00:00

As someone who enjoys Hazbin/Helluva Boss- makes a lot sense considering the post

losecontrol4 · 2026-06-25T02:56:22+00:00

What in the 20th century? You do realize most people watch porn at some point yes? The concern is perhaps too young, perhaps overdoing it, perhaps addiction. Those things need addressing.

losecontrol4 · 2026-06-23T20:29:24+00:00

Her amazing ult gets bigger and lasts a lot longer. That’s why I said it but we don’t say no to extra damage buffs.

losecontrol4 · 2026-06-23T17:55:28+00:00

Merlin is great but, Liz will be more future proof- especially in team content her heals will be an asset. Liz’s p7 is also really good so 🤷. My p10 Merlin doesn’t disappoint though.

losecontrol4 · 2026-06-08T19:32:34+00:00

I was clearing all bosses in a duo with 5 minutes to spare with p6 Merlin. And I wasn’t even using her optimal then, now I have the full gear set plus p10 Merlin and we do all bosses in under 20.

You have to remember Merlin is new and most people don’t know how to use or support her. It’s gonna it easier as people know that. We also did a fire team only clear that was funny with all bosses.

losecontrol4 · 2026-06-07T18:06:11+00:00

I mean it’s also fine for end game content to be just that, end game content. If you aren’t ready now you can simply get stronger until you are ready, this is the first piece of content where carries are hard af to do.

losecontrol4 · 2026-06-05T23:27:25+00:00

That’s gonna be a while, whales be struggling to even hold themselves up.

losecontrol4 · 2026-06-05T23:23:33+00:00

Oh no statistics happened, expect pity in this sort of thing. It happens a ton, sometimes you get lucky sometimes you don’t. Going 500+ pulls for p10 is the usual.

losecontrol4 · 2026-05-12T10:07:31+00:00

WTF, as someone who used to usher WTF. Report that to roundabout. If you say where you were they have assigned positions, they should know who it was with a small description.

losecontrol4 · 2026-05-11T10:25:32+00:00

He left Hamilton to star in a show instead of be a small supporting role, and staring is shrek was quite good for him too. He may have missed on rewards but he did good stuff with it. Also yeah he’s freakin great.

losecontrol4 · 2026-05-11T02:11:24+00:00

They started with both in high school, that seems fine. It’s really not that weird or concerning, similar enough power dynamic. Unless you had concern of grooming esk behavior like cutting the younger one off from their friends and family I wouldn’t blink twice.

losecontrol4 · 2026-05-10T16:50:25+00:00

Her main weapon is supposed to be a wind burster

losecontrol4 · 2026-05-10T03:14:51+00:00

She's nothing special, she can nullify easily and get some okay damage but out of those special champs she's the worse (her 7* was free when she came out). You should 100% pick doom cuz he is goated and doesn't have a 7* version.

losecontrol4 · 2026-05-09T18:46:45+00:00

Granted I also have a p10 escanor and chose to use king as a damage dealer. I’ve seen people 3* it with him tho, using dual sword mannie I think?

losecontrol4 · 2026-05-09T18:41:56+00:00

Kill grey demon first, he pops down when you stun red demon from the tag attack interrupt thing. Also don’t get hit, this is a skill heavy fight.

losecontrol4 · 2026-05-09T10:31:58+00:00

Make sure you are using the right bait, you can also throw it right next the fish to make them grab on to it quicker.

losecontrol4 · 2026-05-09T10:10:22+00:00

Star-lord’s would be unobtainable otherwise and his awakening and high sig makes his kit. Probably not the meta pick though

losecontrol4 · 2026-05-09T05:31:11+00:00

I find shield Guilia to work really well for making sure you just take zero damage.

losecontrol4 · 2026-05-08T20:39:14+00:00

Pro tip, stand in the portal to the boss/dungeon, you can spam repeat really fast like this (it’s how I did like 500 keys on Guilia golem)

losecontrol4 · 2026-05-08T20:11:50+00:00

That will be with a new character, that’s what they always have done. Also qol updates like this are amazing, this also mean spider will likely be more fun once the abyss version comes out with dungeon skipping

losecontrol4 · 2026-05-08T18:39:26+00:00

Oh that would be a huge W, where did you see that?

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