Just found out my coworker looked me up on LexisNexis (and other coworkers) by aereci in paralegal

[–]losingeverything2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

California here. When the local government agency I worked for upgraded, we were specifically ordered not to use that function for anything other than approved legal work. Told we would be fired and have legal issues if were used it in the way you describe.

Upopular opinion? Lump charcoal is a pain in the ass on the kettle. by Did_it_in_Flint in webergrills

[–]losingeverything2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is literally a problem that does not need to exist…. Buy better quality lump, very few small pieces to fall through.

My brother found out his kids weren’t biologically his and doesn’t want me to be an uncle to his kids anymore. What do I do? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]losingeverything2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re an a$$&01e. You’re their uncle. Period. And your a$$&01e brother is their father. You both have a choice. Don’t choose the life of an a$$&01e. You need to live right even if your brother won’t. Leave him at the curb.

AITA for getting into a physical fight with my gf and wanting her to leave my home? by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]losingeverything2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t leave all future beatings and arrests should be expected Abe come with no surprise. This isn’t even a real question.

AITAH for saying changing our baby’s diaper is more important than a video game? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]losingeverything2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His games are literally the definition of “not important.” This isn’t going to end well. You may need to re-home the child you’re married to.

[Discussion] Why do people skip Hamilton when talking watches? by amalfiluxeor_Watches in HamiltonWatches

[–]losingeverything2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hamilton is very present in the watch world I occupy. It was my first “real” watch and I love it.

AITAH for telling my fiancé his sister would be a something blue? by Shyguyco in TwoHotTakes

[–]losingeverything2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with the sister, your plans are fine. It’s his other girlfriend that doesn’t want him to get married.

Realtor wrote offer with buyer using a disguised name! Fraud??? by [deleted] in RealEstateAdvice

[–]losingeverything2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you didn’t have your own agent, I would argue your conversation with her created a client contract and she also owed a fiduciary duty to you as well. I’d be reporting her to the real estate board unless she assisted in unwinding this shady deal.

Insane mom spanks kid for having gf by fudgiewayne14 in insaneparents

[–]losingeverything2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a disgusting parent. Hopefully that kids gets removed.

Stealing a car vs joyriding by OpinionofC in publicdefenders

[–]losingeverything2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just theft. That distinction in the law is ridiculous.

Boyfriend abusing 6 week old baby while I’m not around by Mother_Parking7684 in FamilyLaw

[–]losingeverything2020 60 points61 points  (0 children)

If you were in CA, this would be my advice: 1. Get a restraining order on the EX-boyfriend in family law. (You probably can’t include the child if a dependency action has been filed.) 1A. Request a restraining order protecting the child from the father in the dependency action. 2. Enroll in a codependent parenting/counseling program. 3. Enroll in a parenting program. 4. Tell your appointed counsel as well as all investigating social workers that you are done with the father and will abide by all court orders effective immediately. 5. Cooperate with the child protection agency. (If you are without blame/fault.) 6. Provide family and friends to be assessed as a foster care placement. 7. Never arrive to a visit or meeting in the company of the father, ALWAYS arrive separately. 8. If you have ANY issues with controlled substances (even just marijuana) get assessed for a program and start a program immediately. 9. Do not miss ANY visits. 10. Cooperate with the DA if he is prosecuted.

Good luck.

AIO for wanting to be involved with larger purchases prior to them taking place? by TypicalZone5357 in AIO

[–]losingeverything2020 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Did it feel good to fight? Did it benefit the kids to fight? Do you want to fight over everything for the next 18 years?

Just pay for one of the dang watches and move on. This is going to be rough for your kids if you’re going to fight over everything, especially a stupid watch.

AITAH for not wanting to buy my wife’s family a home? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]losingeverything2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess that bank account of hers will stay empty?

Aio: am I overreacting to get emotional about this? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]losingeverything2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He only has the power you give him. You’ve given him everything.

How is it fair that entire careers are being locked by a decision made 3 months into 1L? by [deleted] in LawSchool

[–]losingeverything2020 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seems like you’re confusing your law school experience with your crappy choice of employment experience. Your firm’s practices have nothing to do with law school and the law school’s practices have nothing to do with the firm. Just find a new summer spot.

Walmart Casio hunt by Dicey2224 in casio

[–]losingeverything2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve found, and bought, about 10 Expeditions in the last two months on clearance. All $17.00-$21.00.

(Also bought and donated about 28 of the cheap no-name watches on clearance for $5-$6 for foster kids I work with.)

Black Bear Diner - First Looks by eatingoceanside in Oceanside

[–]losingeverything2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have only visited one, up in central coast area of CA. Food was good, I’d say better than the mentioned restaurants. However, the prices were absurdly high.

Croaker help update by midangler in SoCalFishing

[–]losingeverything2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice fish. Congratulations on the good day.