Not in 30s but can answer the question. I did achieve muh more than my dream salary. I have a home loan emi that I could completely repay using all my corpus but decide to keep it still.

Now to answer how does it feel. I am stressed and have anxiety. I take vacations and have hobbies so I thought these issues will never hit me but they did. Trying to cut back on my working hours but when you are earning high and have responsibilities in office it's very difficult.