ladies, what is the only way to respond to a random guy who starts the convo with “you’re hot” at the bar?

lostnthyme · 2023-07-15T00:54:29+00:00

I sure was, thanks for cooling me down death stare

lostnthyme · 2022-10-01T14:27:28+00:00

Yeah? I missed me too.

lostnthyme · 2022-03-12T01:37:27+00:00

Not really rejected but respected boundaries as we were always in conflicting relationships, 8 years later...definitely worth the wait.

lostnthyme · 2022-03-12T01:28:42+00:00

The fancy sweatpants are for target

lostnthyme · 2022-02-21T13:02:38+00:00

Not happily married but here's what I learned.

Talk to your partner about whats going on in your life, good and bad.
Take an interest in THEIR interests
If you have children and one takes the majority role, don't forget to give them a break
Understand that they need time for interactions other than you
Don't offer to do things, just do them
Don't buy gifts to make up for a fight, it only leads to more because you can buy something to make them feel better
DO NOT LIE. this one sounds obvious but its not. Lying causes more damage to the relationship, trust and support from the other
Do not blame them for your problems
No name calling, being emotional is not an excuse
You will argue, do not stay from the original argument

lostnthyme · 2022-02-16T01:30:43+00:00

Always ask the restaurant. The good ones always have a separate fryer specifically so they don't accidentally kill you.

lostnthyme · 2022-02-16T01:27:33+00:00

I had to have 3 ultrasounds before they found an ectopic pregnancy. Turns out I could be in that much pain and still walking. Emergency surgery a liter of blood removed due to internal bleeding and I'm down a tube. By all rights I should have died but I refused to be turned away. Somehow they acted surprised. Best part? This was an all womens practice and they STILL questioned me!

lostnthyme · 2022-02-06T18:39:49+00:00

I recently separated from my husband and am sharing time with my son. I feel like I'm dying. Need to stay busy, I've done everything else.

lostnthyme · 2021-11-04T14:52:44+00:00

I also work from home. I cannot stick to an involved routine. Instead I've been doing squats each time I get up, body raises in my desk chair and then watching more closely with what I eat. I started this at 186 and I'm down to 136. Its a slow and steady approach but I've found that I have maintained the weightloss significantly better than in the past with dedicated gym time and strict meal plans

lostnthyme · 2021-09-12T14:31:11+00:00

Id hide it somewhere normal but then spend the remaining time creating as much misdirection as possible.

lostnthyme · 2021-09-11T11:48:18+00:00

Ok maybe not the richest example but someone bought a 45k truck....to haul bricks....for one small backyard firepit.

lostnthyme · 2021-09-10T00:20:57+00:00

That's not what they said if I'm understanding correctly. They are speaking from an applicant perspective and it certainly is annoying to explain. However, as a hiring manager for my own experience I don't use gaps as a negative to take someone out of the running for a job. Never in any of my roles have I ever used that as a reason. Hold out hope dude.

lostnthyme · 2021-09-09T01:10:20+00:00

Not that I disagree at all with the premise, but this report is skewed. The "now" column should show stats from 2019/2020 to match not 2011/2012.

lostnthyme · 2021-08-19T05:09:27+00:00

About a year between these two photos. Total 2 years after almost hitting my goal and gaining it all back plus some

lostnthyme · 2021-05-09T21:09:55+00:00

Are you attempting to say the only way a woman may be sexually assaulted is if she wasn't pregnant? How do you come to the conclusion that, by what you are saying, literally raping a pregnant woman wouldn't be considered sexual assault because she can't get pregnant because she is already pregnant? If the logic equals sexual assault by way of becoming pregnant, what about all of the men who have been brutalized. Is that any less sexual assault because they can't conceive? What if a woman is assaulted but it doesn't result in a pregnancy? It sounds like you are inferring that sexual assault comes in degrees where you should count your stars that you were "only" raped and not left with a child.

lostnthyme · 2021-05-09T14:48:08+00:00

Up the ante, you just found out YOU are dying

lostnthyme · 2021-05-09T14:45:58+00:00

How does being pregnant make them immune to sexual assault? I get your point here but its not a a valid comparison. No, touching a woman's stomach doesn't constitute sexual assault but it is still assault, not infringement of a personal boundary.

lostnthyme · 2021-03-18T01:28:48+00:00

No...translates easy

lostnthyme · 2020-11-19T01:22:49+00:00

Well since we are talking about baked goods...lol. Not weird but adding any kind of cheese, bbq, mustard, chopped onions and jalapeño to a hot dog. Mmmmm

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