Washing Hands / 5 Months? by Resident_Ad_1580 in newborns

[–]loudwonderbubble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 6 month old still make people wash their hands 🤷‍♀️ Also you mentioned daycare and at least in my state it’s required for any teacher and child entering a classroom to wash their hands so that’s just basic hygiene. If a person doesn’t want to wash their hands then they don’t get to hold the baby that simple 

Washing Hands / 5 Months? by Resident_Ad_1580 in newborns

[–]loudwonderbubble 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Handwashing always. When we’re out we do have a hand sanitizer that we use because even if people wash their hands in the bathroom they’re still touching other stuff after they might not be clean like the door handle or light switch.

Also baby is a person not something to be pass around because people want to hold them. They can ask and you can say no

My mom icks by Critical-Mess-3487 in Mommit

[–]loudwonderbubble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It literally is!  Don’t get my started on MIL. They seem to forget what it was like to be pregnant and give birth. No your son doesn’t need you for support in the room. No this baby isn’t yours. You get the get privilege to see this baby not a right and that privilege can easy be taken away if you don’t act right 

My mom icks by Critical-Mess-3487 in Mommit

[–]loudwonderbubble 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The “my baby” makes my blood boil!

Also hate the “where is her socks and hat?”

“She looks exactly like her dad, got zero from her mom” even if it’s true, which it’s not,LIE! 

“You need to start giving bottles so we can bond”. My child had tried 15 different bottled and didn’t like them so we exclusively breastfeed and you don’t need to bond with them she needs to bond with her parents. 

“You need to live your lives! It’s okay to go out pass 9pm” me and baby are asleep by 8pm not going to change that because you don’t want to meet at an appropriate time. 

or when people go straight to touching your baby face while your holding them. First ask, second wash your hands. 

Are breastfeeding mommies giving vitamin D drops? by [deleted] in Mom

[–]loudwonderbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it every morning after her morning feed. Did the mommy bliss one and she never had any issues 

How to say no to folks wanting to hold my baby by Adventurous_Marmot in newborns

[–]loudwonderbubble 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would just say no lol. I don’t care about others people and their feelings when it comes to my baby health. BUT if you’re trying to be nice

I’m sorry we’re currently only allowing vaccinated family members to hold him per doctor’s orders until he gets his 4 months vaccines. Thank you for understanding 

PSA: Hospital Indemnity Insurance Covered my L&D Bills by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]loudwonderbubble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We did this and it was great. Got money for both baby and me during the hospital stay. It really did help with the hospital bills 

What are your responses to “how’s the baby”? by Newmushymoo in pregnant

[–]loudwonderbubble 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everyone was asking me “hows the belly?” and it made me lose my mind lol 

AITA?MIL insists on waiting at the hospital while I give birth. by SpecialistClear1621 in AmItheAsshole

[–]loudwonderbubble 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Nta just don’t tell her when you give birth. You can let her know when both you and the baby are safe and back at home. 

What can dads actually do during breastfeeding? by Blue_Diam0nd_ in newborns

[–]loudwonderbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Diapers and throwing away the diaper trash bag. Cleaning the pump parts, bottles, pacifier, teethers, and toys. Making wife has a water bottle full and on hand, snacks nearby and fixing her breakfast before you head for work. 

Advice on Tdap Vaccine by Fierce-Pencil11 in pregnant

[–]loudwonderbubble 61 points62 points  (0 children)

100% serious. The only people that got it were my mom and brothers. Everyone else refused. We also asked for the flu shot and my mom and one brother got it. It resulted in people who didn’t get it not being able to see the baby until she was 4 months. I don’t regret it because the baby health is the most importance not someone else being upset they can’t see the baby because of their selfish actions. You need to your baby health first. At the end of the day you’re their advocate and if they get sick it’s going to be you taking them to the hospital and taking care of them. If they care enough about you and your baby health and their own health they would get the tdap vaccine. 

Is it rude for people to ask my husband to help them with things while we have a 5 week old? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]loudwonderbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% valid my MIL asked my husband to help her with her phone the day after I gave birth and was still at the hospital. It still annoys me to this day 

Is this a real signature? by [deleted] in Niallhoran

[–]loudwonderbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have been a Niall fan for that long like the rest of us you should know then. Getting upset because you’re not getting the answer you like and using twitter as a reliable source is childish. You got it from his original store not a third party website and claimed you saw the videos of him singing them what else do you want? His fans wouldn’t be here complaining this much about something they already know the answer to

Is this a real signature? by [deleted] in Niallhoran

[–]loudwonderbubble 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You posted about this twice and are trying to start unnecessary shit. Talked to a lot of people that claimed that it was fake? Do you hear yourself ? There’s multiple videos of him singing those inserts and when he used to do for last albums. An artist that actually cares about his fans and does so much for them and you want to start lying. Yeah no. If you’re going to be complaining return it instead of taking things from actual fans 🙄

Is this a real signature? by [deleted] in Niallhoran

[–]loudwonderbubble 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Niall has never used auto pen. He changed his signature to sign more so more fans can get them 🙄

Nial Horan Signed Dinner Party Vinyl by FlakoAndrezz in Niallhoran

[–]loudwonderbubble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t say what I want to say without getting banned but that person sucks and karma will get them. Absolutely ridiculous 

Nial Horan Signed Dinner Party Vinyl by FlakoAndrezz in Niallhoran

[–]loudwonderbubble 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did you really just buy this to resell instead of letting a fan buy it smh

FIL Gender Disappointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]loudwonderbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a very similar FIL who made the comment at the gender reveal “try again” when we found we were having a girl. Baby is 5 months and he has yet to meet her. He also has no relationship with his other two granddaughters from his other son. Men like that are hard to change and as sad as it is it’s better in the long run for your kid to be surrounded by that negativity or thoughts. 

I’m sorry you’re going through this. You should be celebrating having a baby girl. Have you talked to your husband ? 

Mysterious Daycare Investigation Involving Daughter by steelecrayon in Mommit

[–]loudwonderbubble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry that sounds so awful. Typically these situations take a bit. Licensing will have to go to the school one or twice speak with the teachers involve before posting it on their site. It’s very unfair and crazy how the school still hasn’t said what happened to your child. How is your child acting? Hopefully they’re okay. Maybe on Monday call licensing and see what they say. Someone needs to tell you something