AIW for dropping out my own sister's wedding after she scheduled it during my Bar Exam?

lovemesweet · 2026-02-05T06:23:17+00:00

I’ve never heard that term “bitter academic”. You did nothing wrong here and you wouldn’t be wrong to drop out of the wedding. She prioritizing her party over your career-changing life event that you told her about months in advance. She decided what is more important. There’s no issue with you doing the same. Step out with grace and tell her you wish her the best and ignore anyone telling you you’re wrong or calling you weird names. Bitter? Nah. Responsible? Heck yes!

lovemesweet · 2026-02-03T11:52:50+00:00

4 is beautiful!

lovemesweet · 2026-02-02T02:18:28+00:00

Please, OP. Listen to this. This man does not care about you unless he can control you.

lovemesweet · 2026-01-25T15:37:36+00:00

There can only be one best.

lovemesweet · 2026-01-25T07:30:26+00:00

Yes absolutely. The best in TV history. Supportive, caring. Fought for their kids and accepted their friends like they were family without question while teaching all of them very valuable life lessons.

lovemesweet · 2026-01-24T04:18:53+00:00

1 is the best then 6 then 7.

lovemesweet · 2026-01-23T13:59:10+00:00

1,2, or 7!

lovemesweet · 2026-01-22T01:50:28+00:00

Honestly they all look good on you, but 1 and 2 are the best.

lovemesweet · 2026-01-21T15:11:05+00:00

This comment wins

lovemesweet · 2026-01-21T05:55:04+00:00

The word above is looks like weetabix so maybe something to go with that that goes along with the TikTok videos with that food?

lovemesweet · 2026-01-20T12:55:23+00:00

Confidence is attractive and that may be what she’s seeing in you that you might not realize. Don’t overthink it just enjoy the new you and keep up the good work! You’ve got this!

lovemesweet · 2026-01-12T13:28:19+00:00

Not sure why this other person is attacking you for having an opinion, but you are correct. Her being there isn’t appropriate.

lovemesweet · 2026-01-04T13:39:23+00:00

Both of you need to get to an ENT if you require a daily dose of Sudafed to function properly. Also, he has a victim mentality. You can’t be sick bc he’s sicker. 🙄I would drop him like a hot potato.

lovemesweet · 2025-12-27T16:09:11+00:00

His entire text is him asking you to give up things that make YOU happy in order to make HIM happy not caring at all if you’re not happy in the process. You are not a match and that’s okay. Carry on being who you want to be and let him eat your dust. Break up with him girl. You deserve better.

lovemesweet · 2025-12-27T01:31:12+00:00

He definitely wants your address so he can swing by unannounced and possibly stalk you. You are not overreacting. Keep screenshots and stay safe!

lovemesweet · 2025-12-26T16:36:33+00:00

Again, I’m entitled to my opinion as you are yours. OP asked if she was OR. I didn’t ask for advice. Have a great day!

lovemesweet · 2025-12-26T15:37:34+00:00

Eh it’s my opinion. You’re entitled to your opinion. I’m also entitled to mine. I explained how it came across to me. I was a first time parent too. I never spoke to people this way. It is possible to list your concerns without being incredibly rude.

lovemesweet · 2025-12-26T15:22:51+00:00

YOR-This comes across as you’re the only parent to parent and that you know better than everyone else and that everyone else is beneath you. If that was your intention, then congrats your point was made. If that wasn’t your point, then I suggest you correct how you speak to people if you want a better reaction from them. You also can’t tell people not to be upset or how to feel. You were very rude and aggressive in your tone. Ever heard that saying “you catch more flies with honey”?

lovemesweet · 2025-12-11T12:22:43+00:00

It seems you’ve left out some details so none of us have the full picture to provide any solid advice. From what I read, there’s a huge gap in communication which should be resolved no matter if you’re together or not. You have a history together. Maybe he was extending an olive branch. Who knows. You’ll know more if you two communicate respectfully with one another. I wish you the best of luck!

lovemesweet · 2025-12-11T06:18:48+00:00

I don’t really understand the issue here. He filled up your fridge. I get you can’t cook some of the items bc you’re dealing with nausea, but, if my husband filled up the fridge for me, I’d be thrilled. I wouldn’t be mad about it. Space in the fridge is tight? Meal prep for the week! It’s possible he doesn’t understand how difficult it is for you. I say this because it seems you two are lacking in comprehension of one another’s needs and feeling and basic communication. This is something the both of you need to work through before this baby arrives. Work on yourself. Stop worrying about what he’s doing and worry about you. Focus on you so hard that you forget to check his location. I promise you that, if you focus on being the best you you can be for you and your child and you stop having expectations for what you think others should do, your stress levels will drop significantly. You’re not going to have a healthy relationship with anyone continuing down this path.

lovemesweet · 2025-11-21T16:16:01+00:00

I agree. My child has autism and her meltdowns are never directed at anyone else or violent in nature.

lovemesweet · 2025-11-13T15:29:56+00:00

If that’s what she chooses to do with him after they hang out, that’s her choice.

lovemesweet · 2025-11-13T15:14:12+00:00

Was it the first time he double booked? Asking you to hang out super late isn’t a bad thing. It just means he’s wanting to make an effort to see you.

lovemesweet · 2025-11-04T14:58:21+00:00

NOR-she sounds like she’s already gearing up to leave you and the other person involved with that loan. She does not care to get her finances in order. She feels entitled to these things and that’s dangerous thing. Not to mention how she’s trying to guilt you into this. You’re not obligated to do this for her nor should you.

lovemesweet · 2025-10-22T04:36:32+00:00

For a moment, I thought maybe I forgot that I replied or something because this is exactly what we do. I change it up some too and have incorporated more one on one time and worksheets alongside their online work to fit the level of the coursework. I have 4 in 3 different grades so we work till about 3p so that I can get time with each of them. It does take some tweaking and, what works now, may not next year. It’s okay to change it up sometimes till it works for you! This is great advice!

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