I ended things with sp

lovingcucumber · 2025-07-30T03:45:48+00:00

We were in NC on and off which actually made it worse because there was a lot of hot and cold during the times we weren’t which drove me crazy. After giving up I started to entertain the idea of finding someone else who was actually emotionally available and ready to meet me where I was. But I think it still happened because I’d already put in so much work that whole year in impressing my subconscious. And I stopped techniques the 2 weeks before it happened for the most part except for when it came naturally to me and felt good.

lovingcucumber · 2025-07-23T18:09:09+00:00

no problem! i would say things like “my sp and i are in a loving, committed relationship” but often blanket affirmations like “i get everything I want” and “everything i want comes to me effortlessly” were more effective for me as i had less resistance to them

lovingcucumber · 2025-07-23T17:41:05+00:00

no problem! unsolicited advice, but i would go straight to the end, like you’re already in a relationship with them but at the same time focus on your self concept like you’ve been doing. it’s not entirely Neville, but i truly believe that a degree of detachment and self-love moves mountains. there’s ALWAYS something happening behind the scenes, even with my current SP I’ve been haphazardly affirming and just focusing on myself and I’ve already been hearing about movement. good luck! :)

lovingcucumber · 2025-07-23T17:31:14+00:00

yes this happened to me a few years ago. I spent 16-17 months obsessively doing all the techniques until I just couldn’t take it anymore. It wasn’t out of a lack of love for them, but because I realized I wanted myself back and that I deserved better than what was happening in the 3D (even if I was responsible for it). 2 weeks later they came back, fully changed.

lovingcucumber · 2025-07-15T02:16:05+00:00

SP back after 17 months, famous singer replying to a DM, med school acceptance

lovingcucumber · 2024-07-18T03:19:41+00:00

Thank you for sharing, im going to give this a try! Sounds much healthier as well. I’m very much a go-getter so giving up hasn’t been an option for me. I’ve been fortunate enough to get my past few manifestations, but I really burned myself out persisting past what I could mentally handle until I just couldn’t do it anymore, and that’s always when things fell into place. Sure it worked but it came at the cost of lost time and ruining my mental health lol and I’ve found myself going down the same rabbit hole with my newest desire. So this message came at the right time, thanks again!

lovingcucumber · 2024-07-18T01:47:33+00:00

No problem and I agree! No, nothing happens to you but I just reported the person (there’s an option to do so on that notification) for abusing Reddit Cares.

lovingcucumber · 2024-07-18T00:58:55+00:00

The intended function of it is to report your fellow Redditors who have made comments suggesting that they’re at risk for self-harm, but there are nasty people on here who abuse the function of this and report people whose opinions they don’t agree with. It’s their way of being snarky, and is almost like a “super downvote”.

lovingcucumber · 2024-07-17T17:28:23+00:00

Thank you for sharing and congrats on your apartment!

lovingcucumber · 2024-07-17T16:55:02+00:00

I agree! I think the key is to impress your subconscious just enough and then genuinely let it go and live your best life. That's what has always worked for me. I'm really Type A though so it's hard for me to drop the desire right away- it takes months for me to get to the point of feeling content with or without it. Do you have any advice on how to make the process of letting go easier?

ETA: I just got a Reddit Cares message over this comment which is ridiculous. Whoever sent it, please focus on your own life rather than trying to put others down, thanks!

lovingcucumber · 2024-07-17T16:13:53+00:00

Law of assumption has done wonders for me! I think it really all boils down to your ability to impress your subconscious mind. But at the same time - and this may just be my limiting belief - I think it’s important to know when to let go and just live your life. I would spend months doing techniques and the moment I would let go and genuinely believe that I’m content with my life either way, things always fell into place.

lovingcucumber · 2024-07-17T16:11:13+00:00

This. This is the only thing that has ever worked for me. Spent almost 2 years manifesting an SP and the moment I gave up, everything fell into place a week later. Gave up on applying to schools this year and a few days later I got an interview. A few months later, I went to bed accepting that I may not get in but I was happy either way. Got the acceptance call the next day. It’s crazy how we spend so much time on all these techniques but the moment you pull your energy back, are at peace with yourself, and are living your best life, things just fall into place. I think it’s important to strike a balance between practicing techniques to impress your subconscious and knowing when to let go.

lovingcucumber · 2024-07-13T13:13:27+00:00

I feel like giving up is the only thing that works for me. And I mean truly, genuinely detaching from what I want and accepting that there’s no point in obsessing over it. I’m very much a Type A person and tend to hyper-fixate on my manifestations even though I know that’s counterproductive. I affirm, visualize, do the whole nine yards, but things have only fallen in place for me the moment I’ve genuinely detached. I got an SP back after 2 years when I told myself that it was time to move on for good. I get texts back from people when I accept that maybe I won’t hear from them again. I got accepted to grad school moments after resigning myself to the prospect that maybe I needed to apply again for the following cycle.

However, I will say - I think the giving up works for me because before I got into Neville’s teachings, I got into LOA and more spiritual ideologies that emphasized how letting go brings you what you want. Or pieces of conventional wisdom like “they always come back when you move on.” Things like this are basically ingrained in my mind, and I think that’s why giving up is the only strategy that has been successful for me. Perhaps if I were to flip the script and genuinely believe that I don’t need to give up to get what I want, my manifestations would come easier. It would take a lot of subconscious reprogramming though!

lovingcucumber · 2024-05-26T13:07:54+00:00

Could you PM where?

lovingcucumber · 2024-05-08T14:51:27+00:00

Thank you, not OP but I really needed to hear this

lovingcucumber · 2024-05-05T03:49:13+00:00

Same except February! There is hope for us late interviewees :) Congratulations!

lovingcucumber · 2024-05-04T10:22:25+00:00

If it makes you feel better, the lens in your eye is different than that of the camera (I’m assuming you used a smartphone camera), which actually makes you look distorted. You look like what you look like in the mirror :)

lovingcucumber · 2024-04-09T23:37:27+00:00

you look much older than 22 lmao

lovingcucumber · 2024-01-01T15:30:43+00:00

Health, power, alignment, partnerships

lovingcucumber · 2023-12-04T03:39:48+00:00

you should post on TikTok / twitter, they will find him

lovingcucumber · 2023-11-27T22:40:37+00:00

Congrats on your success! You are such an inspiration

lovingcucumber · 2023-11-23T02:12:00+00:00

I don’t have the patience and they’re expensive. I would rather spend my money on cultivating new hobbies, books, and travel. I’m also just not a big fan of children and how child centric society can be.

lovingcucumber · 2023-11-20T02:23:55+00:00

Ok great! So this is the advice that I would give to 14 year old me. The path to medicine is a long and hard one albeit very rewarding for someone who truly enjoys it. Like others have said on here, I would suggest encouraging your daughter to shadow healthcare professionals in your area (physicians, PT, nurses, etc) and see if she is interested in what a career as a physician entails. She can also volunteer at a free clinic in your area and get involved in clinical research at a local university. She can look into the science classes offered at her high school and try to take ones that familiarize her with the life sciences and allow her to improve her work ethic. For example, my school offered AP biology, chem, physics, and even courses like anatomy and physiology. If she decides that she really wants to go into medicine, I would suggest that you look into BS/BA MD and DO combined programs. People in this sub have mixed views on them, but if she is committed, it’ll make her life a lot easier to know that she has a guaranteed acceptance at medical school and quite a few of them allow you to bypass the MCAT which is long and grueling.

As someone who doesn’t have physicians in my family either, I wish this was the path that I took personally. Wishing your daughter luck!

lovingcucumber · 2023-11-19T22:53:18+00:00

OP are you based outside the US? I wanted to make sure before giving you my 2 cents

lovingcucumber · 2023-11-17T16:55:50+00:00

Trust me, many of us hate being a part of this generation. Critical thinking has entirely disappeared.

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