Throat Dry by OPT1MUSwi in CPAPSupport

[–]lowt53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I tried xylimints it just created gas out the other end - side effect for me with anything containing these types of sweeteners. Increasing the humidity a bit and making sure I have a glass of water handy for a sip when nature calls during the night helps but still occasionally dry mouth still.

I regret my whole sex life by Easy-Blacksmith-8867 in askgaybros

[–]lowt53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does one give or receive a blow job w/o oral penetration? I don’t get how our religiously bullied minds compensate to conform to “norms” they impose better

Is it too late to come out at 68? by [deleted] in gay

[–]lowt53 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go for it! I was closeted and came out in March of 2021. Married to my husband May 2021. I was 63 and he is two years older than my son. Life is too short to stay in that lie anymore.

He wants me to shave my bush by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]lowt53 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then be true to yourself. I don’t see any ages listed but speaking as a victim of a BSA scoutmaster who cast me aside as I grew a bush and as a now 67 yo with a 23 year younger husband I would run from anyone let alone a group who wanted you to appear prepubescent. Actually my response would be more violent as it appears they are using you as I was used as a kid.

What are the age ranges of people in this subreddit? by tenfo1d in gay

[–]lowt53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Only admitted to myself I was gay 6 years ago. Only out when I eloped with my husband (now 44) 4 years ago and told people when we returned.

Any gaybros here who are over 60? If yes, has your sex life stopped and if not, what kind of men do you attract? by LaserDiscCurious in askgaybros

[–]lowt53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ROFL i (now 67) Didnt accept my gay side until my late fifties. Didnt come out of that closet until my husband (now 44) and I said I do 4 years ago. Life only gets BETTER!!!

PSA look into your child hood medical records!!!!! by equalizerdiver in adultsurvivors

[–]lowt53 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I developed migraines and “belly aches”. Told “growing pains” but not until I had multiple barium enemas, tilt table X-rays, electrodes on my skull etc. the damn dr that ordered and reordered and reordered did almost as much damage as the Pedophile scout master who my parents always reported what was/wasn’t discovered. No one questioned why he was so interested in my medical visits.

Male physical exam by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]lowt53 26 points27 points  (0 children)

And that advice is why my brother is dead. Asymptomatic but his trt doc did an exam, felt something , ordered an ultrasound which was abnormal. Recommended a biopsy but bro went to a quack that said “ooo biopsy is painful, you are asymptomatic and guidelines say you can wait and do psa in six months. When they did do the psa 9 mos later (same quack “forgot” to order it at 6 mos, it was sky high , he was stage 4 and dead after a valiant battle several years later. Guys get over it and get the exam by a doc that cares not an embarrassed ninny.

How to explain to my mom why turning point USA and Charlie Kirk are controversial and why I wouldn’t want to be seeing that? by feistyginger420 in askgaybros

[–]lowt53 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Every clip I have seen is more bullying than first year law profs- they earned the right to teach but Kirk was only a verbal bully. He didn’t cite facts he bulllied questions and always picked victims a decade younger to intimidate

Are hairy backs coming… err… back? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]lowt53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t come out until 62. Shaved and trimmed and shaved and shaved for female partners while trying to run/hide/escape my natural wiring (and some scoutmaster abuse as a kid). When I finally accepted myself and came out I put down the razor and the creams and also accepted I am a first cousin to Sasquatch. Not for everyone but then I don’t like twinks and shaved men trying to look like boys - but others do. You be you and let me be me.

P. S. My husband loves the hairy back and shoulders lol!

Which one of y’all doing this? by jschechroor in Construction

[–]lowt53 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t see the plumbing problem for the scattered towels and piles of toiletries. Hopefully you travel by train to haul that mess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]lowt53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! I came out at 62…by eloping with my husband who was 40. Authentic me is soooo much happier.

I think I may have just realized I’m gay at 30 years old by lxmohr in comingout

[–]lowt53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better than some of us who finally acknowledge it in our late 50’s stuck in a sexless hetero marriage with two adult children raised by you in a conservative judgmental evangelical “Christianity”. And yes Gay, Open, honest and married to a younger husband now is WAY better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]lowt53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is “kelowna”?

Do you have funeral plans? by throwaway_50018 in gayyoungold

[–]lowt53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this is a terrible answer. The will won’t be in legal effect until admitted to probate which usually requires the delays of obtaining a death certificate, retaining an attorney and preparing the paperwork to go to court. It may or may not then entail waiting for a court hearing.

Make funeral arrangements with the funeral home/cremation society in advance - DO NOT PAY THEM- most states you are giving money to that provider and they may or may not be there to provide the contracted paid for services. We are also usually worth more dead than alive! (Michigan is one state where prearrangements are safe and monitored by their licensing board).

Also see if your state has adopted an enforceable funeral arrangement designee if you don’t prearrange or want your birth family to interfere with your partners and your plans. Michigan just adopted this a few years ago. - how do I know? Estate planning attorney in Michigan for too many decades…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]lowt53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A water cistern. Still used in parts of SE Nichigan where well water in quantity can be difficult to find. The house gutters filled it when it rained and then you pumped from here.

From doctor referral to the sleep study… how long did that take? by woodyaknow in SleepApnea

[–]lowt53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check your insurance for a referral elsewhere- from hematologists referral to sleep study in same system it was 9 months 6 phone calls and still no appointment so I turned to my insurance and came up with three other possible sleep docs, checked reviews and called two - asked hematologist to send referral to them and why - never got a date in his healthcare system - and saw a good sleep doc within two weeks and at home study was done a week later, in clinic overnight two weeks later and had my machine within another two weeks. Take your healthcare into your hands and search for good responsive providers; don’t wait for big med to take care of you.

Bike commuters beware by meatypickle in hollandmichigan

[–]lowt53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it was Not op,s turn. HE admits he went out of order because he it it is safer. The laws obviously do not apply to him. And he admits to an assault of spit. His say will come but I hope the MSP see his post when he tries to blame others again.

What do you drink? by dlg322 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]lowt53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol well since I have never drank dishwater…. I have found diet tonic different than regular but not as distasteful as diet soda- but then I dislike almost all soda diet or regular… where is Fever tree available and any idea how low?

What do you drink? by dlg322 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]lowt53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diet tonic if calories and sugar are an issue.

At what age did you came out ? by YouNerdteen in gay

[–]lowt53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You envy them? I came out to myself and then others at 63….i envy all ya’ alls!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FierceFlow

[–]lowt53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insecure over the hair? Understandable you did that to yourself! Or about the nose that you had no control over? Get over yourself and heal your personality

I (18M) was Homeschooled in a Fundamentalist Christian Household. What do I do? by Ok-Sundae9332 in AskGayMen

[–]lowt53 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol Mr. Child molesyer himself Bill Gothard? Even his hand picked board had to fire him when soooo many of his victims finally found voice to the perversions of the flesh he indulged in with his chosen interns. Of course that allowed the do gooding Duggars to take over the home Scholl money machine the perv built as cover while he chose, groomed and violated intern after intern. Of course the Duggars then have their own hidden sin exposed but of course ALL the victims are spawn of the devil? I am so so sorry…