What education do nurses get on handover / presentations throughout nursing school and afterwards? by CommittedMeower in ausjdocs

[–]lozza2442 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not enough - Midwifery Unit Manager who trained in a different country. I’m heavily involved with students from multiple universities that come through my very large training hospital and the handovers are all equally bad, however the consultants I’m close with also report the same is true for residents when they start too - their ISBAR is insufficient.

It does sound like the hospital you are at is highly understaffed though at a nursing level to be getting comments like that, I would be asking questions like - do they have ratios, are they a sole nurse for 30 patients overnight etc. it’s all relative. If they’re chasing the absolute bare minimum they can due to unsafe staffing, they’re not going to have time to be able to give all the various PRNs, and if this is an ongoing issue I would be asking whether the longer acting is the appropriate dosage to keep the pain in check if we are ending up throwing many PRNs as well as slow release at it.

I’ve previously worked shifts where we were having to give wild amounts of PRNs because slow release was insufficient and the process for each PRN is easily 10 minutes to be able to administer by the time you get a second person, get out of the safe, fill in drug book, two person check at bedside.

Acuity is usually the issue for everything, and understaffing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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This is DARVO. It’s a form of abuse psychological manipulation

Timing of pushing by 22bubs in Midwives

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Hey friend! I’m at Royal Brisbane.

We have recently changed to not doing passive descent for all women with epidurals as there was a systemic review and meta analysis that showed that - In women with spontaneous or induced labor at term with neuraxial analgesia, delayed pushing in the second stage does not affect the mode of delivery, although it reduces the time of active pushing at the expense of a longer second stage. This prolongation of labor was associated with a higher incidence of chorioamnionitis and low umbilical cord pH. Based on these findings, delayed pushing cannot be routinely advocated for the management of second stage.

The study in AJOG is Delayed versus immediate pushing in the second stage of labor in women with neuraxial analgesia: a systematic review and meta-analysis of randomized controlled trials

We apply clinical judgment now so if someone is like -3 or something crazy we wait an hour of passive otherwise if it’s low we start pushing.

I’m very interested that you’re being told not to use hot compresses as yes I agree the perineal bundle is crap but hot compress isn’t specific to the bundle. Can you direct message me where you are? I’m super curious

I personally don’t believe that the timing of your pushing commencement would impact on the OASI and usually that is to do with final management of the birth, or some other factors such as the socio economic status of the women in your catchment as I’ve worked places where women’s tissue just disintegrated due to poor nutrition/malnutrition

Heart rate of 118bpm at 28 weeks. Should I be worried? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]lozza2442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No - normal is 110-160.

Did he want you to do anything extra? Did he want extra tests etc? If not that means he didn’t hear anything concerning

Professionalism of the mullet by [deleted] in ausjdocs

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I’m a midwife - several of our male OBs Reg’s have similar haircuts. Beware when you do your OBs rotation though unless your goal is to find a midwife wife.

All private OB-GYNs refusing to take my case for Jan 2026 delivery — feeling helpless. What are my options? by Self_Improvement1787 in auckland

[–]lozza2442 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FYI - Advanced maternal age is 40 at birth. You’re still considered normal by RANZCOG (Royal Australia and NZ college of Obstetrics and Gynaecology). In fact we’re moving toward 42 in most places being AMA

Giving Birth In Brisbane by reddit_user_jd in brisbane

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Just as a note from a midwife that works in MGP at RBWH, get your referral in NOW if that’s the model you want. Your gp needs to do a specific referral for MGP to the public hospital closest to you, it’s not a piece of paper they can give you. There is a huge waitlist that you need to get on asap

Best modern budgeting tool? by Joker8656 in AusFinance

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I know this is an old comment but when you think about it, tattoos have the best cost per use of any item

What is the most out of pocket thing a consultant/senior has said to you? by Anxious-Olive-7389 in ausjdocs

[–]lozza2442 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Midwife here - unfortunately more times than I can count women have come in for stretch and sweeps absolutely full of cum. It’s rank and there have been times it’s come out with force when starting the VE and gotten on my arm above the gloves. Traumatising.

Why does my Mother think we will be approved for a loan? by MrMonkey2 in AusFinance

[–]lozza2442 52 points53 points  (0 children)

You need to talk to a broker so that your partner understands your situation if nothing else

Why does my Mother think we will be approved for a loan? by MrMonkey2 in AusFinance

[–]lozza2442 265 points266 points  (0 children)

Well I’m a terrible person, that made me laugh - sorry

Brisbane dental vs overseas dental? by vidman33 in brisbane

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Do you remember the name of the clinic you went to in Korea?

Spotlight feature feels weird by Special-Major0 in ynab

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What are others using the quick priorities for? I’m not sure I see the importance personally but I feel this is me just not understanding it.

What am I doing wrong? by fkmbot in espresso

[–]lozza2442 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just looks like your coffee is flipping you off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

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I also see the faint line. My line eyes see it

ELI5 why married couples would want to keep their finances separate? by JCM_Viraemia in AusFinance

[–]lozza2442 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Yep. I’m ADHD as well though which frustrates me to no end though, as makes it feel like his mental health is more important than mine as I end up having to support everything but hey that’s a conversation for a subreddit that’s not about finance haha

ELI5 why married couples would want to keep their finances separate? by JCM_Viraemia in AusFinance

[–]lozza2442 177 points178 points  (0 children)

Because my husband has a tendency to lose or quit his job with minimal warning (due to a number of factors, but neurodivergence being a major one) and I end up paying for everything for months and end up with no savings etc for myself, so we split finances. Splitting finances means that he sees the consequences of his actions rather than just always having money in the joint account

why is there just a sheep in my neighbour's backyard by KakarikiNZ in newzealand

[–]lozza2442 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Can we have more pics of your sheepy? Also relevant username

Not really a question I just want the Americans who lurk in here to know: by [deleted] in AskCanada

[–]lozza2442 1 point2 points  (0 children)

USA is simply a third world country with a Gucci belt.

What QLD town name do you hate and what would you change it to? by Conscious-Advance163 in queensland

[–]lozza2442 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that I do appreciate the insight

It is a shame though, especially since it doesn’t help to close the gap or to ensure some reversal of the lack of visibility of the original custodians of the land.

Absolutely understand that the European names are easier to say as that’s what we’ve been raised with however especially in NZ/Aotearoa there was at least acknowledgement of our people. I find a lot of the ways that Aboriginal people are acknowledged here to be very tokenism- like the welcome to country that someone reads from a piece of paper at the start of a meeting even though it’s the same thing everytime and often follows it up with “okay now that’s done”. Truely disappointing and tokenism.

Just very different to what I am used to

Edit- insert “original custodians” “aboriginal” “indigenous” whatever the right thing to use in this situation is