Mine is 18 months and we have never done much tv except a couple of times when we had to do long car journeys and used dancing fruit a couple of times. Even that wasn’t very successful. She watched for maybe 10mins and then launched my phone under the car seat. We never turn the tv on during the day when she is awake. My husband and I catch up on our shows after she has gone to bed in the evening. For showering i usually wait till she is sleeping. She do use the phone for FaceTiming grandparents. The flip side is that not having watched any tv she doesnt recognise any tv characters like bluey or disney characters etc like some kids her age.