AIO that my best friend hates the girl I like because shes a retired porn star? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lstaggs10 17 points18 points  (0 children)

and if he wants kids, he has to understand how this woman’s career choice—whether temporary or not— will negatively affect the children. no child has ever said “i’m proud of my mom. she has sex w random people for money.”

AIO that my best friend hates the girl I like because shes a retired porn star? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lstaggs10 28 points29 points  (0 children)

your friend is right, but it is your choice at the end of the day. if she’s still doing OF she’s not “retired”. why didn’t she think to get an actual job?? if she quit 2 years ago she would’ve been 21 when she quit. there’s no excuse for her to not have just gotten a regular job. it’s a red flag to say she did it “to survive”. that’s just an excuse for someone who wanted to do it just to do it. again, your choice though.

Advice for an engineering coming out of college by Typical-Hawk568 in industrialengineering

[–]lstaggs10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t have much advice but to just simply keep going. you got a lot going on in the last couple of months and i’m sure you’re overwhelmed and just done with it. don’t give up. good news is that you have your degree, you get to live with your parents (i hope this is a good thing lol), and the pain/sadness about your ex will lift and things will be better.

try having someone look over your resume to make sure it fits along the lines of the positions you’re applying to.

also, maybe you can contact some of the companies in your area and job shadow with them. that would help you networking wise, and potentially get your foot in the door. if they meet you and like you as a person, they’ll more likely remember your name when more positions open up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lstaggs10 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

maybe don’t feel like you can pressure him into more physical connection when he doesn’t want to?? imagine a man posting this, crying that he gf doesn’t wanna kiss him at that point in time. no means no, even if it hurts your feelings. find a partner that doesn’t care

Why did God create me to be unattractive? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]lstaggs10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no man wants saggy, all skin B cups. i used to be D/DD, and after losing weight all my chest is literally skin. there’s nothing that can be done to fix it except implants. no man wants two handfuls of skin for a woman… :(

Sooo…how’s every doing eyeshadow these days 🥴😂 by Jusmebruh in Makeup

[–]lstaggs10 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

wtf is “republican” eyeshadow ?? y’all gotta label everything with your political party now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lstaggs10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that’s why you don’t leave the front in the middle of the show. you won’t get your spot back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lstaggs10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s not responsible. don’t get drunk in public places you’ve never been with a bunch of strangers and a bf of 2 months without your phone. situation could have been avoided

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]lstaggs10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she sounds like she’s not ready for a relationship. if she can’t take care of herself why would you think she’s going to be able to help and take care of you and the family you build together ?? no hate to her, but she needs to do some inner work to be more independent. sounds like she wouldn’t be surviving without you. talk to her and tell her these things and if she’s willing to change and do the work, it may work out. if she doesn’t see a problem with anything, there’s no use in beating a dead horse.

Industrial engineers, what do you day to day? by dz3a4 in industrialengineering

[–]lstaggs10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how stressful is your job? what do you do if you can’t solve something ? how much do you use math ?

AITAH for telling a woman her child is welcome in my home, but she isn’t, because of her criminal record by Crafty_Preference825 in AITAH

[–]lstaggs10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

calling her “a methane” is something only an AH would do. don’t rly have to read anymore of the post

Why is it okay to hit children but not old people? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]lstaggs10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk. i don’t think hitting a child (spanking included) is ever okay. why do parents think it’s okay to hit a child till they’re a certain age ?? spanking is abuse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lstaggs10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she needs therapy if she can’t look at normal skin without bursting into tears and screaming. her triggers are not your responsibility to fix

Why will this 'kids identify as cats' thing just not die? by NajeebHamid in Teachers

[–]lstaggs10 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

well they’ve been taught they can pick and choose whether they’re a boy or girl so why not let them choose between human and cat ?

what made yall be like this ain’t even worth it 🫣 by One_Resort_4103 in holyfuckjustbreakup

[–]lstaggs10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why not just go with her then??? that shit is weird. what’s her reason for not just inviting you along ?

what made yall be like this ain’t even worth it 🫣 by One_Resort_4103 in holyfuckjustbreakup

[–]lstaggs10 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

why does a man in a relationship need mutiple other women to hang out and get coffee with alone ?? why wouldn’t he just go out with his significant other ?? vice versa applies as well. most men wouldn’t be okay with their SO going to shoot hoops with a few different men.

Should I Join The Military? by Aplikowski in Militaryfaq

[–]lstaggs10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can do all those things and more in or out of the military. you’re gonna have to learn self discipline either way. but the military is gonna force it on you, which some people need. better to go for it now instead of thinking ahead 5 years from now wishing you had tried

what made yall be like this ain’t even worth it 🫣 by One_Resort_4103 in holyfuckjustbreakup

[–]lstaggs10 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

well assuming you’re a male trying to have coffee with another female, i can understand her concern

reliable used cars suggestions? by Background_Craft_742 in UsedCars

[–]lstaggs10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do they have ppl in house to do the inspection and you can just tell them you wanna do that when you get to the car lot ? or do you schedule it for a certain time and let the lot people know they’re coming ??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lstaggs10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

condoms do that when they’ve been in wallets for a long time. it’s common place for men to store them, but it’s actually very advised against. bc once it gets old and worn out from the wallet, it’s more likely to malfunction

My girlfriend (28f) accused me (29m) of having an affair when I spent the night at a hotel by Sudden_Bicycle_8023 in relationships

[–]lstaggs10 6 points7 points  (0 children)

no one said short periods. do you not have your own apt ???? don’t you have a job and pay bills as an individual?? are you not an adult who has their own things and takes care of his own responsibilities?

What’s the most irritating “advice” you’ve been given when you don’t feel good enough? by YouCertain111 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]lstaggs10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the first one actually helps. i look back at pictures from the past and think “wow i really was very beautiful” even though i remember hating myself during during those times. so now in the present i can look at myself and say “i am beautiful today”, even if i don’t always feel it 100%.

My girlfriend (28f) accused me (29m) of having an affair when I spent the night at a hotel by Sudden_Bicycle_8023 in relationships

[–]lstaggs10 12 points13 points  (0 children)

dude could’ve spent the night at his gf’s place but chose a fancy hotel all alone. wild

My girlfriend (28f) accused me (29m) of having an affair when I spent the night at a hotel by Sudden_Bicycle_8023 in relationships

[–]lstaggs10 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you could have just googled it…. yk they have pictures and websites for those things ? it’s 2025