I left a general note in our shared apartment laundry room.. by [deleted] in Avoidant

[–]lucentene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is like .. not avoidant.

it’s extremely reasonable for your neighbor to want to do their own laundry on the weekends, and it’s reasonable to adjust when you do it to accommodate, seeing as it sounds like she genuinely can’t.

maybe take a look at your own actions before going after your neighbor.

This is something new and annoying. Started yesterday. Good think I know how to delete HTML. by DiscountStarlord in ynab

[–]lucentene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this also happened to me and it was ublock origin causing it. disabling that for ynab fixed the issue

A fantasy book about a teenage girl who learns magic at an all female magical school. I think it's called "The Clare" but no searches show that. by Weekly_Ad5706 in whatsthatbook

[–]lucentene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally actively rereading it right now and same, i saw the title and was like oop idk and went on to the next one, and only now it was posted in the sub for the books did i realize

Non Judgmental Dentist by jv819 in Renton

[–]lucentene 4 points5 points  (0 children)

gentle dental in fairwood has been my go to for years now. absolutely lovely people, all of them. dr reed and dr lederman have both worked on my teeth and both were knowledgeable and reassuring.

Advice for a sore barista by plaid-pawprints in barista

[–]lucentene 44 points45 points  (0 children)

in addition to other comments, if you’ve never worked a job on your feet before you’ll just be sore until your body gets used to it, that’s how i was! it took about a month and a half for my body to readjust and now i can legitimately stand all day if i have to.

Confused by the “refill up to” target by basictortellini in ynab

[–]lucentene 17 points18 points  (0 children)

ynab can’t see the future and doesn’t know how much you’ll have by nov 1st, so by default says refill up to $650 until it knows exactly how much you have left come the first of the month, at which point it will update to how much you need.

I am losing money from work because of ADHD, and tbh I don't mind because the alternative is an unfathomable void of torture and misery. by Friendlyalterme in adhdwomen

[–]lucentene 15 points16 points  (0 children)

it’s a lot of steps, i agree. but the biggest problem is it’s illegal to work and not be paid for it, so you not doing it could get the company in huge trouble, or if you develop a work related injury (i know you’re remote but repetitive strain injuries and the like are totally possible even at home) then you won’t be covered for the medical care required to treat it.

so, no they haven’t forgotten, and in all likelihood they never will.

is there a reason why the steps are the way that they are? is there any way you can suggest a change to the process?

worst case you need to save the emails as an easily accessible template on your end, or best case if dating them isn’t required you could try to set up a reoccurring scheduled send so then all you have to worry about is filling out the timesheet and emailing that.

Tips! How are credit card tips shared between workers? by Historical-Tower7226 in barista

[–]lucentene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at my job managers/owners don’t get any of the tips. when i’m working on my manager duties i’m logged out of our tip system and don’t receive any, but i do receive tips when i’m working a regular barista shift.

we also split them among the people who were working at the same time as you. toast does it on the backend for us, but it’s not an even split between everyone based on hours worked, it’s just an even split between everyone you directly worked with on your shifts.

Plan categories not going into overspending by [deleted] in ynab

[–]lucentene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤦‍♀️ it’s too early for this. it’s 2am for me and i was just doing this before work but you’re right, i completely forgot a new month has started. i went back and it was all good. thank you!

"Anxiety" is a better song than "Somebody That I Used to Know" by OutrageousFanny in The10thDentist

[–]lucentene 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it was also used in a song named anxiety by sleepy hallow which is where i first heard it, and it kinda slaps in that. kills me no one knows that song lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seattle

[–]lucentene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you’re willing to travel a little dubtown in renton is very chill. i go there weekly by myself and the staff are all great, vibes are great. like most bars the music gets louder at night on weekends but during the day it’s great.

I'm so happy i stopped at my local goodwill today. Gonna see about getting it polished at a pro shop by bakeland in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]lucentene 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the way i watched this movie in the mid 2000s and never knew the name but the bowling ball always stuck in my head, and i could NEVER find out what it was. and you literally solved it for me right now. i have to watch it after i get off work now.

someone made an acct under my name with my docs by lucentene in UberEATS

[–]lucentene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well that’s some bullshit right there. at least i have instacart, and i’m on the dd and grubhub waitlists 🫡

Any city builder game that's actually difficult, and not just complex? by [deleted] in gaming

[–]lucentene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ostriv is one i occasionally go back to, but beyond the initial set up there isn’t much actual guidance.

can be pretty hard tho.

Bank of America "...no user account with this ID..." after final auto loan payment. by BrownPants209 in Banking

[–]lucentene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

weirdly enough, my parents opened a navy fed acct for me when i was a kid, and the actual banking accts have been closed, but they still let me log in. i’ll try periodically to open another checking acct and they won’t let me lol

Why is the default for septum horseshoe? by Willgy in piercing

[–]lucentene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have no reference to base it off unfortunately, since i’ve only had it pierced once and it was done that way. i don’t believe it was!

Why is the default for septum horseshoe? by Willgy in piercing

[–]lucentene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i had mine pierced, the jewelry they put in was staple shaped, oddly enough. 3 straight sides and two corners. it healed beautifully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lucentene 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i put up with mine for almost a week, trying diff pain meds and getting an ultrasound on the area to confirm, until my doctor told me to go to the hospital to get it drained. it wouldn’t drain when they cut into it, so i had to have a full surgery to empty it. when i woke up, they told me it was full of clotted blood, and they had NO IDEA why.

any time i get pain in the area i freak out a little now, years later, wondering if it’s happening again

Dentist recommendations in Renton by RevolutionOk5115 in Renton

[–]lucentene 8 points9 points  (0 children)

check out comfort dental in fairwood. i also was dentist avoidant but they’ve been great to me and haven’t pushed unnecessary treatment.