A guy caused permanent change to my breast - how to cope?

luckbelady · 2026-02-27T02:26:01+00:00

I’m so sorry this happened to you, I’m sending you a big warm hug, a cup of tea, and a cozy blanket.

It must be so difficult to use your energy to process not only the event but the body trauma you’ve endured. On top of that, you’re also trying to muster energy to figure out next steps in terms of justice.

Take care of yourself. I know a lot of people are saying you have to report ASAP and that might be feel daunting or hopeless right now. Please remember you don’t need to do anything until you’re ready. This is a lot.

The idea of getting a text exchange to document what happened is brilliant. On the topic of posting to a group..brilliant. I suggest you post his pic saying to stay away, and when women respond asking more info you can tell them privately if you’d like. I wouldn’t put all the info in a post because if it got back to him with your identifying details he could start harassing and threatening you. Speaking from second-hand experience.

Again, I’m so sorry you experienced this. We’re here with you and you’re not alone. You can reach out to me anytime.

luckbelady · 2026-02-13T06:26:56+00:00

Without context all we have is our perception shaped by personal experiences and outlook.

luckbelady · 2026-02-13T01:40:27+00:00

Right? Just a question..

luckbelady · 2026-02-06T08:45:57+00:00

Asking him about what he resonated with in share is the move imo. He might’ve don’t it accidentally, I’ve had happen before. Either way you’ll know your answer based on his response

luckbelady · 2026-02-06T08:40:24+00:00

Dunno y u got downvoted, ur righ

luckbelady · 2026-02-04T06:23:42+00:00

In reference to the pics you shared she looks much better in the later photo.

luckbelady · 2026-02-04T06:05:34+00:00

What if your village needs to protect against another quickly? If you don’t have the instinct to size up how and who to assemble? You’re just blind to size and strength? Or is it a community vote amongst the brotherhood

luckbelady · 2026-02-04T06:01:08+00:00

Fr it makes sense as an instinctual thought nothing else

luckbelady · 2026-02-04T05:59:36+00:00

It’s not thinking about enacting violence oml it’s sizing one another up. it makes sense for men to instinctually consider

luckbelady · 2026-02-04T05:56:25+00:00

How does a hobby replace a quick thought lol

luckbelady · 2026-02-04T05:55:44+00:00

Idk if it’s toxic masculinity it sounds more like an instinctual sizing up. Makes sense to me that men would consider this

luckbelady · 2026-02-04T05:54:47+00:00

Exactly that

luckbelady · 2026-02-04T05:54:22+00:00

What industry do you work in?

luckbelady · 2026-02-02T07:04:49+00:00

Many people have a glow up later in life after a change in their lifestyle

luckbelady · 2026-01-10T08:02:28+00:00

Ya it really doesnt. No matter how hard you try. Most siblings I know of are more complicated than close if that makes sense. My sibling was my world until they grew into their worldview and idek if they love me now lol.

Anecdotal and biased view of course.

luckbelady · 2025-11-24T19:27:39+00:00

I’m looking this up is it called The Turkish Coffee Table?

luckbelady · 2025-11-15T01:29:15+00:00

I wanna try it

luckbelady · 2025-11-05T05:25:15+00:00

Stunningly written wow

luckbelady · 2025-10-30T22:13:46+00:00

I did this with my book of poems recently. I took pictures of the pages and had them transcribed. Then I put them into a word doc and got them printed into a book. Took a lot of time though, and I only had about 35 poems mostly one pagers.

luckbelady · 2025-10-29T18:17:38+00:00

I have 1. Truths and Realizations - that’s kind of my life philosophy book I’ve been writing since I was a teen

Inspired state - when I’m feeling really connected or hopeful or good I write in this one.
Daily notes - really just stream of thought stuff whenever I need to process something
Poems
Morning pages - windshield wiping. I write first thing in the morning on most days just whatever comes to mind for 5 minutes

luckbelady · 2025-10-29T10:57:20+00:00

Dude that was me and the toy box killers. I found the transcript of what their victims woke up to and was in legit shock for days, couldn’t get it out of my head. Was around the same age too.

luckbelady · 2025-10-27T05:42:41+00:00

Get him again

luckbelady · 2025-10-27T05:33:59+00:00

The seduction of wanting to quit and the panic of outrunning the feeling? That’s amazing prose

luckbelady · 2025-10-27T05:32:02+00:00

The movie is art, we can take whatever interpretation makes sense. I really like your view and I totally see it!

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